Ok theres this boy and I reallly really like him and his my brothers like bestfriend in the holl widest world.. and hes about 3 years older then me. I dont wanna like him cuz this boy i like refers to himself as a big brother to me..which i dont like.. that AND he thinks of me as this little girl WHICH IM NOT
how do i show him im not a little girl and so my brother wont get mad
AskJR answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 12:46 pm: You can't.
You can not change how someone views you, thinks of you, sees you, etc etc.
You are younger than he and he is obviously not into your age group.
You can not try to act differently, or older and more mature, you can not try to be someone you are not. No one can keep up that farce for long and most people see through the pretentiousness. It only proves your immaturity to him.
Maybe one day, when both are older and age is not a factor, things might change-- but then again, it may not.
Do not force something that doesn't fit.
Do not try to make someone like you romantically when they do not. Nothing you can say or do can change his view and feelings about you.
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