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heartbroken/messed up BIGTIME/want him back.
Okay so about a month & a half ago this guy asked me out & I said "Yes." but he was one of my best friends but i kinda liked him, so I was so confused, so i finally thought abuot it and made a decision about a week aftr i broke up with him because it felt so ockward to be making out with my best friend.
About three days after i broke up with him he started going out with my best friend, at first I was okay with it but after i saw them making out and holding hands I got sad & really jealous & I realized how much of a mistake that I made. Now they have been going out for almost a month & everyday at lunch they sit with us & they always cuddle up, get really close, hold hands, whisper in each others ears & I have to leave the table or else I get angry & yell or get sad & cry. There are other guys that want to go out with me but the only one I want is the one my best friend is going out with. I just REALLY need to know how to get over this, jealousy & what to do when I see them acting that way & what to when he flirts with me because yesterday he took my hand on the bus & held it. :/
I just really need help. I get so angry I want to et back with him so bad ! !
Personally I don't think they'll ever break up. :((
&&by the way I'm thriteen.
Thanks.
-Ashley.
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I think tht you should just move on you are only 13 and have alot of life ahead of you. i had the same problem when i was tht age but now i c tht there is more in life tht that one girl. and many more ppl no matter how right i think she is if its ment to b it will happen if not well i would move on
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Well everyone knows that all girls get jealous when they see their ex with another girl. Thats just the way it is, and no one is going to change it. I belive that one of the worst things a friend can do to you is go out with your ex like right after you break up. This kid is obviously very immature because if he really cared about you he wouldnt go and get with your best friend right after you guys broke up. Confront your friend and your ex about why this is bothering you so much. If they dont act any different you need to move on!!
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Ashley, you will be fine, I understand that you are upset I would be too, But when you broke up with him, he was most likely upset and did what he had to do, Go out with your friend to make you jelous and want him back. But sumtimes when guys do that they end up likeing the other person(your friend) you will be upset for a little while but you will get over it. There are plenty of guys out there for you, maby he wasent the right one, and you were just ment to only stay friends. You look at your friend and him together and you miss the confort he gave you, and now you probly think you messed up big time, but you didnt. Date other guys, don't show him your jelous, (that the worst thing you can do!)--And everything should work out fine. I hope I helped you out
-------Melanie
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