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i can't do that right now
hi there ,
its me again talking about the same reason of love.As im very truely, madly, deeply in love with my bf those hits doesn't count right now because i hit back to him as well & the reason he hit me is mainly because of me. He told me i cannot control myself right now so just be quiet ?? but i didn't. its my fault.I want to save our relationship in any cost...i don't wanna loose him.but now i live with his family im moving my house soon on 10th may. we hardly talk to eachother but we are in same room.please give me advice? i really need help ? all my frens out for holiday.
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Give each other as much space as possible right now. You can't hang onto him if he is pulling away. It will make him want to get away from you even more. Hitting and any physical violence is never ever allowed or justified except in true self-defense when you cannot escape another way. He is very wrong to hit you and you know that. Don't lie to me or yourself and excuse his behavior. There is nothing here to save. Walk away and start thinking about what you really need in life. We don't know how many days on this Earth we get, so don't waste them trying to make a creep like you. You should be glad to be rid of him. Move out and start planning your life. Date only guys who are respectful men, ones who would never hit a woman or talk down to you. You are never again to allow anyone to hurt you or belittle you. Your ideas of what love and a man looks like have been terribly wrong before today. Love does not hurt. He does not love you. You are not desperate for him, you are desperate for love. Start by loving yourself and you will start attracting men who value that love in you, and not just the desperation. This guy has been taking advantage of your desperation. Walk away from him and start respecting yourself.
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Okay I get the idea that you like him adn everything but he hit you and that is just wrong. Even though you want this relationship to work clearly he doen't like you the same way that you like him. He's the type of man that is very abusive and will only get worse if you keep letting him control you like this and it is not good for your self asteem. If he truely loved you he wouldn't do what he is ding and he would treat you like the queen that you should be treated as. So I say just move on because you can do better and when you find the right guy that treats you good than you'll know that you made the right choice to get up and leave. And trust me you sound like a great person and you will find somebody better than the person that you are with now.
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