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How to 'Play Hard to get'
14/f
I've heard the expression to 'Play hard to get' but how exactly do you do that? Like what are some things you do to play hard to get? Thanks (;
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i agree to all these answers. and another thing that drives them crazy is when they like ask to go out say that ur busy even if u not and tell them reincheck? and look as innocent and irresistable as possible. :D
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haha oh man that is the most thing to do sometimes.
Well flirt with him a lot but if he tries to make a move pull away or tell him no in kind of a playful way.
This will usually make the guy want you even more and try harder.
It also shows that you arent easy.
just dont do it too much or else the dude might give up.
hope i helped.
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haha ive done this before :)
okay so this guy who likes you, or you like, you talk to him for a little while then when you see another guy you know be like oh HEY (guys name) and say oh, ill talk to you later then go chat with your friend.
dont seem to eager to talk to him
dont text him first or comment his facebook/myspace
make him talk to you :)
hope this helped!
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Ah, playing hard to get, the tried and tested method.
Okay, here are some things you need to know about being hard to get:
1. Don't call boys first, text first or ask them out. You can call them back, text them back, and accept requests to go out, but don't initiate it.
2. Since you can't be too forward you have to make your interest known in other ways. Smile, play with your hair, lightly tough their arm.
3. Don't move too fast physically. Guys will always want to move as fast as they can to kiss, to touch, to have sex. But the faster they move with a girl, the faster they lose interest. So take your time, get totally comfortable with him at a slow and steady pace.
This will make him get to know you as a person. If he likes you as a person, he'll wait around longer for the physical part. If he doesn't like you, he'll dump you and guess what? This means you don't waste time with someone who was just with you to get in your pants.
The point is to weed out the guys by who is willing to make the effort and who is just going to sit around and let you chase him. It shows you respect yourself enough not to try so hard to impress a guy who may not even like you. It also shows you are not desperate.
Finally, make sure you spend lots of time with friends and find some hobbies you really like to do. Having a full life will make you more interesting and desirable-- plus you won't be available every time a guy calls (which just makes them want you more.)
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