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I'd like to make a move, but I'm not sure how. Kinda new at this.
Alright guys, there is this girl I truly adore. The same one as usual, of course. She's currently dating a guy, but I think I'm pretty sure she still has feelings for me in that way, infact we're kinda talking last night about didn't foreplay, other sexual type of things, ect. We usually have those "interesting" type of conversations when we talk late at night, and we just blame it on us being out of it, delerious, ect. Although, she did say she enjoyed the conversation.
Anyway, during the day that we talk, she doesn't act the same at night, she's a bit more quiet, and doesn't mention those type of things. However, she's told me several times that I'd get a 2nd chance providing they break up.
Well, I'd kinda like to make a move now, and try to get her attention. You guys may not be able to answer this, since you don't know her personality, ect. but I was hoping you guys could provide some tips on how I could perhaps make a move on her.
We tend to just talk on AIM, we rarely get to visit each other, and will talk on the phone from time to time.
Thanks!
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i think that you should wait to see if they break up and if they do then that when you make your move. and i you do make a move(which i totally give you kudos because most guys dont have the guts to) then u should just be yourself. Im sure everything will work out for you! hope i helped!:)
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Don't.
She has a boyfriend and what she is doing is wrong, and disrespectful to you.
She's liable to shoot you down and be offended that you'd make a serious move while she still has a boyfriend. Because girls who lead on other guys the way she is leading you on while in a relationship probably don’t want the drama of cheating or a break-up, she just wants a back up plan.
Frankly, a girl who wants affection and attention from two guys at once is not going to dump a guy who is there for her for one she can only have over AIM and the phone. That amount of relationship is probably not enough for her.
Good back up plans, don’t make moves, because when you do all of the sudden she will have to admit what she’s been doing and make a choice. She doesn’t want to make a choice. If she did, she would have by now. I’m sorry to be so negative. Perhaps she is just waiting for you to make a move, but that is very, very, unlikely.
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