when i walked in the room it was like time moved a little slower, just like the movies.he was so beautiful and i couldn't help but stare. he was wearing black, his favorite color, like he always does.
I felt an immediate connection with him. Every time our eyes met in the dead silence it was like a shock of electricity.
he's a freshman I'm a freshman, but of corse, we have no classes together because thats how REALITY works. so when we got to leave i let it go knowing nothing would ever happen.
All i could do was think about him and wonder. You'd think for people in the same class in the same school we'd see each other. A couple of weeks later... i saw him. he was with my friend lisa and she introduced us. He said, " Hey! remember me? from detention?" of corse i did he asked for m number and later that friday evening he texted me we talked until about 11:00 at night.... then he called me. We talked for 7 hours till 6 in the morning. i didn't get any sleep at all but i never felt more rested. i've never loved any body, until that saturday morning i knew i loved him. we talked about everything but usually when im on the Phone with guy all he talks about is sex and i hate that thats why there short conversations.
He was different and thats what i love about him.
we just texted everyday from then on he asked me to go to the movie of my choice and would pay for it as long a went with him he was happy he said. i was pretty sure he liked me back at that point. the day of the movie he wasn't texting back, i got mad at him ignored him a couple of days, i still didn't see him at school so it was pretty easy. but i gave in he told me that his phone was done and he just coudn't i belived him i didn't we didn't have any other way to contact each other besides cells i didn't think to ask! well then shortly after our little reunion my dad took my phone away so we stopped talking un willingly, and i STILL didn't see him in school so what could i do? about 3 weeks after we stopped talking i see him and he's holding hands with a girl. I couldn't believe it then thats how i would see him with his girlfriend.
WELL, i did see him in school sometimes and he would walk me to class even though his class is on the other side of the school but then i just couldn't talk to him after the movie/cell phone thing it was kinda awkward so i didn't know what to say when he came up to me and i'd be like hi, yea, no, bye.
i accepted he had a girlfriend, i liked him to much to try and take away his happiness. they are still going out to this day.
so here's the messed up part... i told this girl VICKY who does talk to him, not his girlfriend, that i like him before she started liking him and in class she brags about how cute he is and today she brought him in the room and i started crying because thats something i tend to do when i get angry instead of fighting i cry! well its been three months since my dad took my phone away in that time me and him stopped taking in that tim i think he kinda has feelings for think vicky girl and in that time ive never stopped thinking about him and trying to think of ways to talk to him in again.
what can i do to make him like me again to stop this nonsense with that girl vicky and how would i go about trying to talk to him again????
i have his house number now he lost his phone i mean he litterally lost it so i have his house number should i call him or talk to him in person and WHAT SHOULD I SAY??? sorry or how ya been?? what?
i really need your help! actual experiences and actual words would hepl me alot!!!
thanks
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but i honestly dont think you should be that sprung over this guyy. If he has a girlfriend AND talks to another girl do you really thinkk hes worth liking??
cus imagine if you were his girlfriend and he was talking to that vicky girl.yea im thinkinn hes unfaithful.
i also thinkk you are overthinking the situation. The best thing you can do is just let him go. If he wants you then let him pursue you. if he doesnt he wont. I know it will be hard but you can do it. He's not the only hot guyy in the whole world.
PinkVsBlue answered Saturday March 21 2009, 10:25 am: I think you just need to start talking to him again like how you did before all this happened. Flirt a little, maybe. Just see if you guys could possibly go back to how it was when you were going to go to the movies.
If you see him at school, just go up to him and talk to him, act normal and it won't be awkward.
Here's the thing you need to talk to him, just because if nothing happens with you two (and I hope that's not the case) then talking to him will help you get over him. But I mean start off talking to him about school, friends etc... normal stuff and if you see an opportunity ask him what happened with you too.
Phoning him is your choice, i'd just talk to him at school. But its your choice. Either way start talking.
sia answered Saturday March 21 2009, 3:32 am: ohhh man dads always do this dont they!i remeber my dad was like that.so this boy has a gf but this vicky girl likes him aswell?btw i cry when i get angry too thats wat i do aswell. i think you should just take the risk and tlk to him you like him that much then he should be worth it or other wise youll never know what could of happened. just be yourself be sweet and funny and nice and friendly and all that just be who you are and give him a call explian to him what happened and tell him that youv wanted to explain yourself for ages but couldnt find the right time..tell him that he still owes you movies of you own choice and just find time to talk and hang out with him at school.call him the night before and ask to meet up with him and all that maybe built up your relationship first before going back to going movies and all that..did this help? [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
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