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Why is he flirting with me? he has a girlfriend!!!
This guy has been going out with his girlfriend for a long time. I just moved to a different city a couple months ago,and i made a lot of friends, including him. he's like one of my best friends, nad i hug him like everyday. i'm not the one who'd mess around with another girl's boyfriend, ecspecially when she's one of my friends. that's against my morals. but recently, his hands have been wandering around where i feel is inappropriate since he has a girlfriend. he'll try to touch my butt, or he'll hug me a little too close(i can feel some things that i shouldn't if you know what i mean...). i tell him to stop or will push him away, but he keeps doing it. he even asked me out when he's still going out with his girlfriend! should i tell his girlfriend that she needs to watch him a little more closely? i don't want her to think that i'm trying to break them up, because she's knows that we're real close friends, and i don't want to seem jealous.
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I think that you need to sit him down one day and tell him that you like being his friend but you have morals and you dont think that he should eb flirting with you so much when hes dating her. Tell him that absolutely nothing will ever happen between the two of you while he's dating her. Tell him the exact things that you dont like him doing like touching your butt, and tell him that the more he does it, the more he loses you and if he wants you to still be his friend then he needs to smarten up and see that he can't have two girls.
Don't tell the girlfriend, theres no point in that, it'll just make her nervous and feel like she has to watch him 24/7 and that if she doesnt shes going to lose him. If he continues to act the way he does around you, then stop letting him. If he puts his hand on your butt slap him in the face. Then when that scene gets created that obviously will if you start slapping him in the face, word will get out to her. If he hugs you too closely push him off. Just do what you can, pretend hes that sick perverted kid that you dont want to get too close to.
This is a tough situation because hes your friend, but sometimes guys wander, and if he's wandering already, the relationship probably doesnt have much longer, so hopefully this wont happen for too long. Good luck, andI hoep I helped love ya,
Angie91
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Alright well obviously this guy likes you more that just friends but i wouldnt nessesarily worry his girlfriend about it..because if this guy finds out you told her it will probally ruin your friendship..i would just talk to this guy and tell him how you feel, you dont feel comfortable messing around when he has a gf and your not intrested in him in that way..and after that i would avoid hugging or flirting with him it might give him mixed signals and i bet it probally worries her..hope i helped deff. keep me updated and tell me how it goes <33
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hey, well i agree with you, she might just think your jealous. i would just mention to her that her boyfriend has been known for messing around with other girls and that you just dont want her to get hurt, so tell her to be careful. i think its best that she finds out on her own, that way you can avoid the whole jealousy issue. just warn her like i said.
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I think that you need to not let him do things to you first of all. And yes you do need to tell his girlfriend because it will be even worse if she finds it out on her own and then both of ya'll will be in trouble with her. And things will not be pretty.
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Miranda
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