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Best friends leave me
ok i have these two best friends, molly and tabitha. there the best friends i could ever have and i would hate to loose them, but sometimes they just walk away from me or something. i dont know why, but they never wait for me to go to lunch, ( we hve the same class before lunch) and they just expect me to come running after them, and they always say " oochemo, come on!!! ( thats my nickname), and they will just be hanging out with me and run off together, and then when ever i go off and just leave them alone, thinking they want alone time, they always ask if im mad at them!! and i do get mad at them cuz they always leave me, and i am really getting mad. ive talked to them about it and they still do it. what should i do? im really sorry that this is really long. i just need really good advice.
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Ok. First off, hun, I think you might want to re-think your friendship with these two girls. I mean, are they really "the best friends you could ever have". I have no doubt they want your friendship, but... I think you could find closer friends who wont ditch you at the drop of a dime. My advice would be to communicate your concerns with them. Tell them how you feel about their actions and what it makes you feel. Communication is KEY! Ya know?
Then, if it don't get better, I think you could find a closer and better set of friends.
Hope this makes sense. Im sorry you feel this way. Hope it gets better! *Smiles* <3
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OK first you have to calm down.Second,sence you've already spoke to them about it there are not really alot of solutions.To me conversation is the key of everything.So i suggest you go talk to them a second time and if they still continue to act that way then you just back off for a while just to make them come after you.Try to show them that theyre not the only friends you have,and if they are then make new friends because trust me you can make your world around only two people.I'm not telling you to get over them and stop being their friend but just take a litle step off so they can see that u actually can live without them.If they are your real friend i can garanty you that they'll come to you and never do what they are doing to you anymore.If they dont come to you.then you know that you are not as meanigful to them as they are for you.I'M NOT TELLIN YOU IT WILL HAPPEN!i hope it doesnt but i've been there too and I lost alot of friends so I can tell you about it.just talk to them and then give them some time.if they dont come back to you then you will find other friends and make sure this time that they are TRUE.
hope I helped!
Larissa
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