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Best Friend - Cheating Husband


Posted Friday January 20 2012, 10:49 pm

Okay I'll try to make this short.

My friend and I have been friends for about 2 years now. In late September of 2011 her husband, her and I engaged in a threesome, then another one a week later. I visit their house about 2-3 times a week. Ever since the threesome her husband has been really flirty with me (but never in front of her.)

He makes out with me in their house when my friend is in the other room, when she goes to the bathroom he takes his penis out and puts my hand on it. I've given him oral sex about 7 times since September, but never anything more.

Another thing he does is we chat on facebook and have pretty inappropriate conversations about sex and 'things we would like to do to each...

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guy i know asked me out...


Posted Friday January 20 2012, 10:37 pm

Hi this is destiny so anyway, a guy named drake asked me out today.i told him that i would think about it.drake is a nice guy.he's the class clown.one time, he said this: So if I went off to war and they let me get captured, I would immediatley annoy the enemy." It was soooo FUNNY!everybody was laughing their heads off! Anyway, should i go out with drake, become his girlfriend, get his email if he has any? Please answer i need to tell him by monday!

From Destiny
P.S. we are both 11 years old, im almost 12.

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So there's this kid i like...


Posted Friday January 20 2012, 10:11 pm

Lets see here... well i'm a sophomore in high school and i like a junior. let me tell you that i've liked this kid for 4 years or so. and we are complete opposites. he's more with the popular crowd than i am, and obviously i'm not as popular as him.. i have no idea what made me like this kid. but anyways he ALWAYS looks at me. For example in the halls when its just me and him, he looks at me. when i'm cheering at my basketball games, he stares at me, when i'm in lunch he stares at me. oh btw, he's known i'ved liked him since i was in 7th grade. so i really don't know what to make of my situation here. i mean i wanna date this kid so badly, i'm like obsessed with him. not crazy stalker obessed, just obsessed ha. so i need advice and help, pl...

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My boyfriend broke up with me and he wants me back but he is kind of pushy.


Posted Friday January 20 2012, 7:12 pm

Well my ex's best friend came up to me and said that he wanted me back... i just dont know if i still really like him. he gets a little phisical i mean most the time its pokes and grabing whitch i dont mind at all but then he will get a little carryed away, he will kind of shake me and the other day he lightly pushed me while i was walkin down the stairs i almost fell and he was saying he was sorry and he kept hugin me... so should i take him back???
please help!!! Thx!! :)



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Is it okay to like a friend's ex?


Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 10:23 pm

So I like this guy, but there is a problem. My friend liked him. And he asked her out, but the next day told her "they are better off friends". They didnt even go out, and my friend was sad. Now she is over him and likes someone else. She randomly brought up that if he asked one of us out she wouldnt care. I think she was lying, because I would care if my friend dated one of my crushes/exes.
So I think my questions are:
Is it okay for me to like him?
Does this break the "Girl Code"?

P.S. She doesnt know I like him.

Thanks, Janiiee (14 years old)

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What do you do when 2 boys like you and you like them back


Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 8:21 pm

Hey there(: well Ive got myself into a big mess! Two guys like me and I like them BOTH back! Btw I'm 14/f anyway I don't know which one to chose! I've done pros and cons, and their equal plus I asked my friends half say one the others say the other, and I like them both equally what should i do? This is so confusing please help thanks!!(:

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I don't deserve him.


Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 5:58 pm

I have definitely asked this question before, but I need some advice and reassurance as well.

I am sixteen, and I am a junior in high school. My boyfriend is a senior, and we have known each other for a long time, since I was a freshman, but he and I have been dating for six months. Our relationship is absolutely fantastic! We have a good communication and stable trust, and we get along pretty well. We barely ever fight and the conversation is always flowing. And on top of that, he is respectful, patient, funny, and always goes out of his way just for me. It's like I have the perfect guy.

I'm going to dwell a little personally and say I have been in a series of bad relationship after bad relationship. A lot o...

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Will I get prettier as I get older? Will I have more luck with love?


Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 4:17 pm

Will I get prettier as I grow up? I'm 14 right now and not exactly happy with my appearance. I don't think I'm absolutely ugly, but I don't think I'm pretty either.

I can't help but feel as if this is part of the reason my relationships don't last... like the guy always feels like he could do better.

So will my looks improve as I grow older and mature, or am I pretty much stuck with this?

Picture down there, by the way. Would probably be helpful.

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Her brother saw me looking up how to cure herpes... now I feel like she will never want me! I don't want herpes anymore and I don't want to be alone, what do I do?


Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 1:41 pm

So their is this girl that I really like a lot. I even have/had her brothers approval because he is my good friend and I wanted to make sure he was fine with it. Everything has been going very well, talking, even went out for a day and we both wanted to go out again. It was all going good until the other day when I got upset about something I have...
This girl really makes me feel happy and I didn't want this stupid condition to ever effect her if things ever went that far. I don't want it for anyone. So I was looking up a complete cure for it. Of course I knew their probably wasn't but I figured what the hell maybe their is...
So I looked it up and found some books on fully preventing it from happening. You still have ...

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Gay?


Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 5:32 am

20 years old, female. I love my bf so much and we've been together for 2 years now.

so Ive always been attractedt to boys and never been attracted girls, never even noticed them sexually at all. I have recently watched the first season of 'pretty little liars' and the lesbian character caught my eye, i stated to get excited to see her kiss other girls on the show and since watching this 2 weeks ago, lately Ive been feeling an attraction to girls and have not been able to stop checking girls out when i go out to place...

how can this been happening? ive never felt this attraction to girl before in my life and arent you meant to grow up feeling this attraction through your teen years, not just magically start fee...

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I can't tell if a boy likes me or not


Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 1:47 am

Ok so there's a boy in my class and first off I went to my boy friends not like boy friend boy friend just friends and we were scalpting in the snow I needed a shovel so I asked them If I could use one and before I finished my sentence a guy gave it to me. (at the beginning of the year last year he scarred my friends with a worm and I didn't move, and he was like "I like you" not like in a crush) and after he gave the the shovle a little later that day I had to go to the orthodontics and he followed me when I got back he was like where did u go I couldn't find u. A day later we had had chocolate and he has the birthday of the same month as me so all the people that were born in the same month went up and I was the first one there ...

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Am I a rebound?


Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 12:29 am

Months ago, I met this girl named Jessica, we had 2 classes together in college and we were getting along well, one day she told me she is bisexual and I told her I'm straight but told me that she thought I was cute. When she was drunk she told me that she likes me. She also asked me if I wanted to kiss her after couple weeks of getting to know each other, but I said no because I did not think of her like that, but I only told her that I thought she was cute. She told me that her ex girlfriend cheated on her by making out with another guy when she was drunk. Jessica was really heartbroken and I guess that is the reason why she came off really strong to me in couple of weeks. I didn't like the way she approach me because she was too forward ...

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Ex boyfrind that i still like and he still likes me..


Posted Wednesday January 18 2012, 11:07 pm

Ok so i was dating this guy, he was really sweet and kind. You might even say the perfect guy. So we were dating for like a month and his dad found out (he isnt alowed to date yet) and so we were pretty much forced to break up.. I really like him maybe even love him, but i have a problem. So there was a time that I wasnt sure that he still liked me after we stoped dating so i got a different boyfriend.. he didnt like that very much. Its been a couple months since the break up and he hasnt moved on he still likes me and he isnt interesed in any other women.. I need to know if well if i should stay with him.. to keep liking him untell we can be togther. I have been with two guys since then and well its just not the same not even close to what it I had. Please help!! Thx :)

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He's ignoring me. I don't know why!


Posted Wednesday January 18 2012, 9:54 pm

My ex and I were pretty good friends, but it was really obvious that we weren't over each other. We even hooked up once after we were broken up. We both said we didn't want to be in a relationship with anyone but since we felt comfortable with each other, we decided it would be okay to talk and flirt around. During the winter break, we didn't talk much or see each other as he went out of the country and I went out of town. The thing is, my family recently moved, and live about 4 hours away from where I used to live. I still live in my old house to go to school, for now. My parents want me to move up with them, but for a year, I put it off, because I wanted to stay and orginally finish school. Being with my parents for the break made me feel...

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3 guys..3 situations.


Posted Wednesday January 18 2012, 6:55 pm

I am 16 years old, and i am kind of stuck...

1) Andrew; he is much much muchhhh older than i am, like...11 years older... has warrants which he is dealing with and it is going in a positive direction. i've liked him for about 2 years, and in august i found out he liked me. we talked, than he got a gf so i stopped talking to him and dated this guy steve. Andrew told me he would wait for me to be of age to date..so we're still talking and things, lately is been slowing down though.and this is a sweetened version of me and him...but he is nice, and funny and makes me happy when we talk.

2)Steve; (my ex boyfriend) we broke up in October/early November. we started talking (as friends) in december after x-mas, and ye...

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How can I get a date with this man?


Posted Wednesday January 18 2012, 6:28 pm

I am a mature, single lady who is attracted to the man who owns the building where I have lived for almost two years. There is a bldg. manager so I never have to deal with him. We have said hello from time to time and I always felt the feeling was mutual. He is very successful and has four grown sons. He has always seemed to fight off any urge to get to know me. I have never seen him with any wife. Something is stopping him from seeing me. Perhaps his sons, or the fact that he is very wealthy might enter into it. I am very lonely and like him a lot. How can I get him to ask me for a luncheon date?

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Ex-bf following me


Posted Wednesday January 18 2012, 1:08 pm

16/f
Okay so I deleted my ex off my facebook account as I now feel ready to move on.
I go to college, and it seems increasingly where I am he also is, whether with his friends or on his own-and its a massive college.
He tried to speak with me but I just gave abrupt answers.
The worst thing? He watches me eat lunch. I'll be sitting in the canteen and he'll be up on the balcony on his own/with friends, leanign over and looking at me. All lunch for like an hour and I feel so uncomfortable. I feel all I do is try to hide from him-I can't study in the library because he's always there.
What should I do abut this? Any advice welcome. p.s I don't wish to get back with him as he's a serial cheat.

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i don't know what to believe... do i not understand him right or is it just me?


Posted Wednesday January 18 2012, 6:26 am

there is this boy im confused about. were teens and we kown eachother for almost 6 years. we were together for 2 years. and 2 and a half years ago he dumped me. and then we were in the complete friend zone for about a year. ever since then there has still been ongoing drama. it didnt get crazy until about a year ago. he starting showing me he likes me like it started with flirting and then physically was showing me. and i guess now were just "doing stuff". this whole time he couldnt decide what he wanted so he would say "hes done" and then be rude to me and call me ugly and go out of his way to upset me and say mean jokes to me and then later come back to me. and it confused me. so i guess i could say we been off and on....

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You would think I would know the answer by now


Posted Wednesday January 18 2012, 2:58 am

First I'm a girl, 21 years old. My ex and I were together for 3 years his mom and brother died and suddenly he didn't want anything to do with me which was understandable so I gave him his space. But then two months after I heard he was back with his ex. The same ex that he would constantly break up with to go out with me. Anyway, over a week ago he contacts me and I missed him so I replied. About 5 days ago he starts acting distant and I ask why and he said he was thinking of his mom and brother and his best friend starting trying to hook up with his ex, I tried to make him feel better and it worked because he seemed so happy for a day. I had a bad day too but I let my bad day go because I knew he needed cheering up, which I know he would ...

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He acts different when we are around his friends


Posted Tuesday January 17 2012, 7:26 pm

How can i get my boyfriend to give me more attention when hes around his friends? He like different when hes with them. He doesnt want to hold my hand and he never shows me any love or affection. Im not tryin to look like an attention whore or anything and i know your supposed to give guys there time with there friends but idk if im being to flexable or not.

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