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My boyfriend broke up with me and he wants me back but he is kind of pushy.
Well my ex's best friend came up to me and said that he wanted me back... i just dont know if i still really like him. he gets a little phisical i mean most the time its pokes and grabing whitch i dont mind at all but then he will get a little carryed away, he will kind of shake me and the other day he lightly pushed me while i was walkin down the stairs i almost fell and he was saying he was sorry and he kept hugin me... so should i take him back???
please help!!! Thx!! :)
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It seems to me if he is sending his friend to tell you he wants you back, then he is too immature to have a girlfriend anyway. Not to mention that all of those things he is doing to you are abusive and can lead to worse things later.
I would ask myself what it is about me that allows some guy to pinch, poke and shake me. Surely, you must think you deserve better than this. If you do, then please do NOT even consider taking him back. And if you don't, then talk to an adult you can trust and try to figure out why you have low self esteem. You deserve way better than that!
You don't mention your age, but I assume you are young! I am not going to tell you to focus on other things and not boys, because I know that isn't always that easy to do! But, you won't be able to meet a nice guy who is worth your time if you are letting jerks swarm around you.
So ya, tell this guy to buzz off and spend your time with genuine people who are really kind.
Hope it helps!
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I think you already know the answer to your question and you just need reassurance. So I assure you, you'd be better off without him. I mean, if he's already pushing you around while he's asking you to take him back then how much more if you got back together? Find someone who'll treat you right :)
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NO.def not hel hurt you hes not the one move on.
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Move on
From what you've stated your mindset is already telling you to move on. Whether pushing someone "lightly" or not it's still putting your hands on someone. Meet someone who is more worthwhile and won't cowardly have his friend do all the work for him.
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If you are unsure if you still like him, I would move on. From what it sounds like, he is also a little rough with you and no girls needs a guy that's going to push her around. I hope this helped and good luck :)
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