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i don't know what to believe... do i not understand him right or is it just me?
there is this boy im confused about. were teens and we kown eachother for almost 6 years. we were together for 2 years. and 2 and a half years ago he dumped me. and then we were in the complete friend zone for about a year. ever since then there has still been ongoing drama. it didnt get crazy until about a year ago. he starting showing me he likes me like it started with flirting and then physically was showing me. and i guess now were just "doing stuff". this whole time he couldnt decide what he wanted so he would say "hes done" and then be rude to me and call me ugly and go out of his way to upset me and say mean jokes to me and then later come back to me. and it confused me. so i guess i could say we been off and on. i dont know what to even call us because where not officially together but he knows i want that. i told him that over the summer and he said no because he doesnt love me and never did and i kind of dont believe that. at one point i strongly believe and feel that he did love me. im not sure how he feels now beacuse im guessing he lies. and as of two months ago he told me he likes me and that were gonna keep things going. and thats been true he doesnt change his mind anymore. i told him i like him to. hes got me so confused im not sure if i like or love him. but i know its somewhere around there. or i could be in denial or mabye he could be to im not sure. and i feel sometimes that he uses me. he says he doesnt but im not sure what to believe. he tells me sweet things like im his girl, he really really likes me and i hope i know that. i brought these things up to him and then he says he doesnt remember saying those things. that made me feel like im being used or hes lying. he said hes doing neither of those but still. im very confused. im not a sex object. i think the situation is kind of beyond my control. this is the closest i could get to being with him. so i deal with this and not give up trying and the hope i have in me.hes my first boyfriend first love and im the same to him. right now i dont know what does he want from me or what is his problem ? do i not understand him right or is it just me.
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Oh sweetie don't beat yourself up because he's the one confused. Bottom line this is not how you should be treated as a friend or girlfriend. He shows you little to no respect & keeps doing it because he knows you will be there. Sounds like he doesn't know what love is therefore doesn't know how to show it. If your not getting in return what you are giving out then it's not acceptable. If you have to wonder how he feels about you, then it's not acceptable. Wait for someone you deserve. The one who wants to put forth the effort to sweep you off your feet, to make butterflies in your stomach at the mere sight of him or the sound of his voice, the one who makes you feel like your the most beautiful person in the world. Wait for the one who is worthy of you, your attention and your heart. Don't settle for less than you deserve!
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