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Gay?
20 years old, female. I love my bf so much and we've been together for 2 years now.
so Ive always been attractedt to boys and never been attracted girls, never even noticed them sexually at all. I have recently watched the first season of 'pretty little liars' and the lesbian character caught my eye, i stated to get excited to see her kiss other girls on the show and since watching this 2 weeks ago, lately Ive been feeling an attraction to girls and have not been able to stop checking girls out when i go out to place...
how can this been happening? ive never felt this attraction to girl before in my life and arent you meant to grow up feeling this attraction through your teen years, not just magically start feeling it out of the blue?
Help!! im sooo confused right now and I love my bf so much and we've been through so much together, i dont want to hurt him :( but at the same time im so confused and lost and its outta control. What does this all mean? :(
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A lot of people have been in your place.
You're only just out your teens and people don't tend to be able to make every life decision by 20 - you're not completely grown up yet!
Have a chat to your boyfriend first, you don't know your sexuality until you've actually tried it. Most people experiment and many don't end up actually liking it - it may just be lust.
See what he says.
Yous have been together a long time and should be fully comfortable with eachother - he should understand.
You could possibly have a threesome with another girl to try it out.
Be sure he's comfortable with that first though.
Hope this helps.
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