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Is The Dog Telling Me Something?


Posted Wednesday February 4 2015, 1:21 am

At home there is a small drawer with a razor blade that we use to scrape crud of the stove. One day I was getting some dishwasher capsules and I was holding said razor blade. A little later, I saw my dog and he was growling at me and once I put the razor blade back in the drawer, he stopped. Can my dog be telling me something?

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I feel perverted.


Posted Wednesday February 4 2015, 12:26 am

Hey everyone, 18/f here

Background:
So, the cliche "best friend is in love with me" story happened to me. He's been my bestie for about two years, almost three. He's heard me out when I ranted about other guys, when I cried over getting cheated on, when I was stressed because I had to keep my grades up, and everything else. These past two months we talked more than usual, and I ended up catching feelings for him. I thought he just saw me as a friend but he confessed to having feelings for me for about a year. All our mutual friends knew except me, go figure. So we're dating and it's been great.

There's just one little problem. He's such a gentleman in so many ways and I love that. He wants to ...

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Girl Is My Neighbour


Posted Tuesday February 3 2015, 8:44 pm

Hello.
I'm looking for some advice. This involves my neighbour down the street, she lives like 20 houses away on a little crescent just off of my street. My street is also a crescent, but it's a whole street long. The crescent she lives on ain't very big - about 7 or 8 houses and is going around an "island" which was bush surrounded by red bricks. All the kids in my neighbourhood (which isn't much btw) used to play on that island and hangout. There were 8 girls who lived pretty much next door to each other on that crescent and who all spent a lot of time together. I'll get more to the story but that's where I met this girl.

When I was really little I met some of these girls. For the sake of anonymity, I'll ca...

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sex


Posted Tuesday February 3 2015, 7:33 pm

ok so i am 13 a girl so my boyfriends wants to have sex with me and basically wants to finger me and stuff and im ready like i have my moments where im in that mood, but the question is how do i prepare for it, and can i just leave the top of my vagina have hair but like a shade of it (not hairy lol no!)

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Giving on Valentines Day


Posted Tuesday February 3 2015, 5:06 pm

There's a guy I like and he always gives me stuff like food and stuff. So on Valentines I want to give him something to pay him back for the food but I don't want him to think something of it unless that's what is should go for, how would I do that?

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Is there any way to sync 2 different itunes libraries to my iphone?


Posted Tuesday February 3 2015, 3:14 pm

Okay so I am wondering if there is any way to sync 2 different itunes libraries to my iphone.
I have a laptop at home with most of my music on it. However, I wanted to be able to sync music from my work computer as well. I know I can log in to my itunes account on both computers, the problem with that is that itunes is not the source of my music. I am trying to find out if there is any way I can go home, and sync to my iphone as well as go to work and when i want a song to be put on, I can put it on there as well without affecting any of the existing data.
Please help, I'm new to the apple world and its a little overwhelming.
THANKS SO MUCH!

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My Significant Drive - Too Much Pressure on Myself?


Posted Tuesday February 3 2015, 1:09 pm

Is it bad to put too much pressure on yourself? That's a question that I am currently asking myself. I've been like this since after I graduated highschool, and started learning the lesson of adult life - failure.

Before my dad lost his job when I was 17, I had a privileged life growing up in my grandmother's household. One that involved basically getting everything that I wanted.

Granted, I never got designer clothing, like the other girls in my private school had - my mom always said that it was too expensive. Nor did the boys that I liked ever ask me out. I still got to go on yearly vacations, which averaged at three a year for a little while. Yet when I cried because I really wanted something, my parents ...

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had enough of being mean to people I really like! How do I fix this?


Posted Tuesday February 3 2015, 2:12 am

I'm tired of being mean to the person I like. It's always me calling them names and calling them ugly when I. don't. mean. it. It makes me mad because impulse control disorder makes me blurt out some mean things some times without even thinking. I want to be nice, I really do. But I just don't know how...
any suggestions as how to improve myself in being nice? Because I want to better myself, for the sake of the person I like, for our friendship in general, and for my sake.

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Newly dating..


Posted Tuesday February 3 2015, 1:16 am

Hello..

I recently started dating this guy. I was three months single from a hurtful break-up and I was ready to date again. We met online in mid-December 2014 and the going has been good ever since. We have gone on numerous dates..and i have been to his place a few times now.
He just asked me out recently and now we are officially dating. However, we haven't had sex yet and he hasn't pressured me to do it. All we do is make out..and stop ourselves from going too far. :-)

He has quite a past. He has been sober for one year now..and he has been off cigarettes for one month now. As a result, he didn't get to focus on school and now, he is completing his degree course,at 27 years old. This makes him a full ...

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NEW Piercing questions.


Posted Monday February 2 2015, 11:43 pm

I just got my Forward Helix pierced on January 30th. I have had it for 4 days. Just recently it has started to itch,it only hurts when I touch it, it is swollen just a little, I have cleaned it as i was told. Tonight I ran a q-tip behind the back and got some crusty type stuff. I am just wondering and hoping that this is all part of the healing process. I know it takes time for it to heal. just hoping its not getting infected or my body is rejecting it!! So any advice will help. If it doesn't get any better I will contact my piercer I went to or my doctor.

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Nightmare or Daydream?


Posted Sunday February 1 2015, 10:08 pm

So i've had a hugs crush on this guy for a while, (let's call him c.) Today our families had dinner together. Me and c have been just close friends for a while. C put his hand on my shoulder today at dinner. Tomorrow we have school. I am really excited that he did that but I just don't know how to approach him. I really want to go out with him though.

Any advice?

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Sweet 16 Party


Posted Sunday February 1 2015, 8:06 pm

Hi! i'm a girl and i'm having my Sweet 16 party in several weeks, and i'm starting to send out invitations. most of my friends are girls, but i have a few close guy friends as well. my question is this, should i invite those guy friends even though there will be mostly girls at the party?
i feel like it would be awkward because there would be about 15 girls (maybe) and about 5 or 6 guys. i have more guy friends that i could invite but some of them i don't know all that well. what do you think?
thanks! :)

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Boyfriend adding/talking to other girls & deleting messages


Posted Sunday February 1 2015, 2:27 pm

I haven't been on this site for literally years but I thought someone here could help me. I can't go to my friend with this because I've told her similar things before and she immediately says the worst, like he is cheating and hiding things from me.

I'd really like someone else's opinion, please.

I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and he is 21 and I am 20. I basically live with him and I'm with him pretty much all the time. BUT I can never touch his phone. He literally fights me over it if I get ahold of it. He also has two phones. He says one is for games and the other is for calling and texting. I've been on the games one before freely with his permission. The other one I have only been on wh...

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he is being suspicious


Posted Sunday February 1 2015, 5:19 am

Well I am in relationship since 2011..i told him everything about my past life..he never used to pick ph calls in front of me..he didn't even tell me everything about his life..i tell him even about my family problems but he never tells me about his..he hangs around with gis friends but when I go with my friends everytime he creates an issue and spoils my plans..he keeps saying that he is very possessive about me but I don't understand where his possessiveness goes when we quarrel n part..he never calls me to settle up things..he has an ego problem but do I have to say sorry to patch up everytime!!he has a colleague in his office who likes him..hw likes her pics n gives comments on fb..whereas he blocked me on fb..not only that he blocked m...

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what jobs can gay people get?


Posted Saturday January 31 2015, 10:22 pm

What jobs can gay people get?

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Really like my friend's crush. What should I do?


Posted Saturday January 31 2015, 9:17 pm

I'm in a close group of friends, and we've all known each other about 18 months, all roughly 20 years old. I've started to really really like one of my closest friends (lets refer to him as the guy- I'm a girl)- building up for the last 6 months or so, during which time we've definitely got closer. He's religious, so I don't know how he'd feel about a relationship, but oh well.

Problem is, one of my close friends (friend A) started to like him around the same time and was very vocal about it. All of our other friends know, she talks about it a lot (except in front of him) and has even kissed him briefly the other night (while drunk). He'd have to be blind not to know she likes him, but he could be trying not to lead her on, ...

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How can I make things better for my children?


Posted Saturday January 31 2015, 3:43 pm

Help me decide what to do. I have no assets except a beat up van. I’m renting to own a rundown house that needs over $30K in work- new roof, new plumbing, new flooring (seriously the floors are currently particle board and luan). I have two girls, 14 and 13. I have over $24K in credit card debt from my divorce/ ex-husband. The payment on this debt is $600 a month. Although I only make $2000 a month, I worked very hard for two years to build my credit so that I could buy this beat up house. My plan was to take out a home equity loan to pay off my credit card and fix up my house. Everything was lined up and I was going to close on my house. Then my plant closed and I am out of a job so I’m out of a job and can’t a loan.

...

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Moving before senior year/racist parents


Posted Saturday January 31 2015, 1:05 pm

Hi everyone, this is my 1st time using this website & I'm hoping to get some substantial advice. Basically, my parents are divorced & me & my younger sibling (very attached to them) live with my mother, who had depression and anxiety. She wants to move across the country because of family who can support her there. But, I'm an AP student & would lose credits, GPA, & ranking if I moved. Naturally, I want to stay here (also because of a long term relationship with my boyfriend) but also because I want to go to college here. Any advice? Is it smart to move for family when you truly don't want to? Also, I'm in an interraical relationship my mom doesn't approvd of because of old fashioned thoughts, but it's been 1 yr & he...

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Should I give up on the relationship?


Posted Saturday January 31 2015, 10:10 am

I don't know whether I'm being silly or over-reacting but I just need to hear what other people think. Been with my boyfriend for over a year, things have been good. He's everything you'd want in a man- intelligent, focused, funny, and he a always does his best in every situation. We have loads in common, we truly get on like a house on fire.

There's been a few things which I felt the need to bring up over the year- mostly about not spending enough time together and also he wouldn't be overly emotive which I sometimes found hurtful. We've worked through these, mostly the spending time together, and everything was great. He's a reserved guy so I wasn't expecting him to be all lovey dovey all the time but it's very rare he is. ...

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hopeless in love


Posted Saturday January 31 2015, 9:49 am

I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy. Most guys won't even come near. I think its my religion (Muslim) most guys are probably scared by it. But I did have a couple if guy friends who felt comfortable around. No guy has ever called me pretty. I'm pretty approachable when I'm with friends but I'm shy and quiet alone. Am I ugly? Is it my religion? Or do guys just not like me at all? I don't know what to do. I feel like I'll never have a boyfriend.

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