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Nightmare or Daydream?
So i've had a hugs crush on this guy for a while, (let's call him c.) Today our families had dinner together. Me and c have been just close friends for a while. C put his hand on my shoulder today at dinner. Tomorrow we have school. I am really excited that he did that but I just don't know how to approach him. I really want to go out with him though.
Any advice?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well, obviously it's not a nightmare since you liked the fact he touched you. When a guy is attracted as more than just friends, a guy will find reasons to be near you and to touch you.
Assuming you're both old enough to go on dates according to both your parents, there is no reason not to ask. In fact it may be in your favor as far as the parents go. They already know this boy and his character so they wouldnt have the same fears as if an unknown to them guy is starting to date you. If the parents object to the idea of you going out on a date of your own, just ask if you can have C over to hang out with you at the house on a weekend day, not for the purpose of his parents visiting again, just him there for you. As to what to say, "I liked it when you touched my shoulder. I think its tell I tell you that for some time I have been feeling towards you as more than friends and I wonder if your touch was a sign that you feel the same." Put it in your own words but mention the touch and having feelings that have grown and changed and ask how he feels in return.
Good luck.
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