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he is being suspicious
Well I am in relationship since 2011..i told him everything about my past life..he never used to pick ph calls in front of me..he didn't even tell me everything about his life..i tell him even about my family problems but he never tells me about his..he hangs around with gis friends but when I go with my friends everytime he creates an issue and spoils my plans..he keeps saying that he is very possessive about me but I don't understand where his possessiveness goes when we quarrel n part..he never calls me to settle up things..he has an ego problem but do I have to say sorry to patch up everytime!!he has a colleague in his office who likes him..hw likes her pics n gives comments on fb..whereas he blocked me on fb..not only that he blocked me from every social media n messengers..when I got to know about that girl I told him to unfriend her...he did unfriend her..but recently he again befriended her on fb n they both like each other's pics..they might chat also..n they talk to other over ph for hours...other staffs in his office even tease them as couple..is he cheating on me?he shows no special interest in me then what's the point to heat on me!!he could easily break it off with me n go in relationship with her..on the very first month of our relation he said it doesn't matter to him if I am in his life or not coz he needs none..he keeps breaking his oath on my life to drink alcohol n instantly makes issues for his alcohol consumption...i knew that he used to drink even before our relation started..all is friends support me..but now he n his mom are accusing me for his addiction..they are saying that I keep hurting him so he drinks..sometimes I wonder does he really love me?
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Oh yes, he is for sure cheating on you! Everytime you break up he doesn't try to get back with you because he knows you will come to him and say you are sorry. Plus when you break up that gives him free time without restrictions.
You already know that this man is not relationship ready. I know it hurts but for your own best interest you really need to get away from him. He will suck all the confidence you have right out of you.
If it is going to eat at you wondering what he is doing when he is not around then it isn't worth the ulcer. You will lose site of yourself and your own goals if you are always wondering who he is with or what he is doing.
His Mom will most likely blame anyone else BUT her son for his problems so do not take what she says personal.
Run fast and hard in the opposite direction or later you will regret the time you wasted on the egotistical man.
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When you have an addiction, you'll blame other people for it. And his mother is probably just hurting that he has an addiction and doesn't want to realize it's his fault.
So never ever take the blame for someone else's problems. This obviously isn't your fault.
This isn't love. This isn't a real relationship. The fact that he has you blocked on all social media sites is a red flag. Why would he block you?
So break up with him. He's obviously a bad boyfriend and is into another girl. Don't wait around for him and don't listen to his excuses.
Just let him go and move on. He's a waste of your time.
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You have every right to be suspicious but you have be open to someone else, someone that is not alcoholic and who actually cares and shows you the love that you deserve and his family should not be blaming you for an addiction he already had...
I think you should move on and let him go, he doesn't deserve you and you know deep inside you deserve better....
I hope you make the right choice.
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He is definitely acting in a manner that is not only suspicious, but also uncaring, unloving, and seems to be totally preoccupied with himself and his own affairs.
I do believe he's a cheater and I'm concerned that if you try to maintain a relationship with him, he'll just use and abuse you while causing you pain, frustration and ultimately heartbreak.
You've wasted more than enough of your love and attention on him. It's time to move on. You don't have to create an issue, just become unavailable to his wants and needs and widen your horizons. There's a lot of non-alcoholic, strait shooting guys out there who will appreciate you and would be willing to return your love.
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no, that isnt love. you need to get out of that relationship, because he clearly is not boyfriend material right now.
hope this helps~
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