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What jobs can gay people get? (link)
I believe gay people have the right to be hired in whatever jobs they attend to... It shouldn't matter what sexuality you are.. it should not matter because they are only hiring you to work...

However I believe you should try every job you would like to be and hopefully you will get one.


I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy. Most guys won't even come near. I think its my religion (Muslim) most guys are probably scared by it. But I did have a couple if guy friends who felt comfortable around. No guy has ever called me pretty. I'm pretty approachable when I'm with friends but I'm shy and quiet alone. Am I ugly? Is it my religion? Or do guys just not like me at all? I don't know what to do. I feel like I'll never have a boyfriend. (link)
I don't think the issue is how pretty you are because people are as pretty on the inside...
However before actually thinking that you want a boyfriend ask yourself are you suppose to or is it going to be disobeying your religion.

Maybe you can be there friend treat them normally but I would strongly suggest to not start dating....

However the problem might be you confidence, instead of waiting for them to come to you go and talk to them...

I hope you make the right choice..


My friend brags and lies about everything.she acts like I can't tell it's a lie. She also knows nothing about me our friendship is basically all about her. For examples: she tells that every boy in her classes keep staring at her. That 25 boys have asked her out but she rejected them all. She goes like I'm so pretty. She also makes me tell her she's pretty. I know a lot about Her but she barely knows a thing about me. When she has a problem let's talk but when its me no time. What do I do? I already confronted her once and it was only better for a week before she got worse than before. (link)
Right So basically just tell her you've had enough of the way you teat me and whatever she says, say I know almost everything about you and you know nothing about me, then start asking her questions that she is suppose to know as a friend( favorite color, Favorite TV series) stuff like that and when she cant answer leave and say treat me the way you want to be treated and don't text don't talk at school hangout with better people and if she doesn't apologize or come back then she wasn't worth it in the first place and you can find a new friend that is way better.

on the other hand if she does come back and apologizes but after a while she turns back tell her you don't change tell her what she does and don't text talk or do anything at all with her.

Then she will realize what she is missing.


I'm in a close group of friends, and we've all known each other about 18 months, all roughly 20 years old. I've started to really really like one of my closest friends (lets refer to him as the guy- I'm a girl)- building up for the last 6 months or so, during which time we've definitely got closer. He's religious, so I don't know how he'd feel about a relationship, but oh well.

Problem is, one of my close friends (friend A) started to like him around the same time and was very vocal about it. All of our other friends know, she talks about it a lot (except in front of him) and has even kissed him briefly the other night (while drunk). He'd have to be blind not to know she likes him, but he could be trying not to lead her on, since she's most enthusiastic while drunk and has been known to sleep with strangers in that state. Another friend guessed I liked him almost before I knew but I laughed her guess away because I was surprised and kind of embarrassed at the time. I didn't realise how strongly I felt. Now everyone's encouraging friend A and it feels like its too late to talk to anyone.

I also really don't want to make friend A miserable, because she'd been in some bad relationships before. The guy is just hard to read, and I desperately want to keep the same friendship with them both, I just don't know if I'd manage it if they were together.

I don't know what to do. Should I talk to someone, or just hope/ assume I'll get over him? I should add that I'm living with them both, and will be probably for another year or two. (link)
You Can't Deny Your Feelings for (Friend A's) Crush... See I think you should do everything you can to help your friends get together and if they break up you won't feel guilty about making your move.
I WOULD also strongly advice you not to talk to a friend about it because they might tell (friend A) so maybe you can either write it in a paper or talk about it to an older person whom you trust.


Well I am in relationship since 2011..i told him everything about my past life..he never used to pick ph calls in front of me..he didn't even tell me everything about his life..i tell him even about my family problems but he never tells me about his..he hangs around with gis friends but when I go with my friends everytime he creates an issue and spoils my plans..he keeps saying that he is very possessive about me but I don't understand where his possessiveness goes when we quarrel n part..he never calls me to settle up things..he has an ego problem but do I have to say sorry to patch up everytime!!he has a colleague in his office who likes him..hw likes her pics n gives comments on fb..whereas he blocked me on fb..not only that he blocked me from every social media n messengers..when I got to know about that girl I told him to unfriend her...he did unfriend her..but recently he again befriended her on fb n they both like each other's pics..they might chat also..n they talk to other over ph for hours...other staffs in his office even tease them as couple..is he cheating on me?he shows no special interest in me then what's the point to heat on me!!he could easily break it off with me n go in relationship with her..on the very first month of our relation he said it doesn't matter to him if I am in his life or not coz he needs none..he keeps breaking his oath on my life to drink alcohol n instantly makes issues for his alcohol consumption...i knew that he used to drink even before our relation started..all is friends support me..but now he n his mom are accusing me for his addiction..they are saying that I keep hurting him so he drinks..sometimes I wonder does he really love me? (link)
You have every right to be suspicious but you have be open to someone else, someone that is not alcoholic and who actually cares and shows you the love that you deserve and his family should not be blaming you for an addiction he already had...
I think you should move on and let him go, he doesn't deserve you and you know deep inside you deserve better....
I hope you make the right choice.




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