Hello my name is Moon. If you have a question about anything? I am here to give you some good advice.
E-mail: loviblemoon111@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: :Lenapah Oklahoma
Occupation: Musician - Music Teacher
Age: 27
Member Since: February 1, 2015
Answers: 14
Last Update: October 8, 2016
Visitors: 1663
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Hello, I'm freaking out and don't know what to do. I'm completely out of money and overdrafted by -$10 in my account.
I'm a college student who just moved off to college less than a month ago and found a new job three weeks ago. It turned out though that in the first two weeks my job didn't give me very many hours as I was training so I only wound up with about $110 for the first week and haven't been paid yet for this last week and won't be paid for this week until next Thursday or later.
My issue is that I have a car payment and car insurance which totals about $425 together and my car insurance was taken out this morning, which is what overdrafted me.
I even sold a watch that I loved to make money ($80) but I sold it online and now I won't get paid for it until the buyer gets it and accepts it, but who knows when that will be when I just shipped it today.
My car payment ($316) is due on the 26th and though I have a grace period I have no idea how I'm going to be able to make this!!!
Fortunately, because I am a college student I at least have a meal plan so I can depend on that for food during the week. However, I have no money for food on the weekends or anything else I might need. I'm also 100 miles behind on an oil change in my car so I don't even feel safe driving it and it needs a synthetic change which is $60! I don't know what to do, I feel like everything is a giant disaster right now!
I can't ask my mom or dad for money because they don't have any to spare and I'm stuck on campus without any friends since I'm new here.
Please help me with some ideas!
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This website may help you with your car loan situation. https://www.credit.com/loans/loan-articles/what-to-do-if-you-cant-make-your-car-payments/ and if you're looking for a place that will give you a good free meal on the weekends while you don't have any cash, try a local church nearby. A lot of churches will offer free meals or have food pantries for the broke or homeless. Other places you can try and find a free meal would be a local Salvation Army. Some other advice I will give you that might be useful to you in the future is while you're going to college make sure to save up all the money you can. Don't spend any excess money unless you really have to, or your college years will be your toughest years ahead of you and can make your education and learning experience less enjoyable for you. If you're lucky enough that you got a free ride to college or university that will help you out tremendously with your savings. As for the car and the loan. If you just bought it brand new and keep on having troubles paying off your loan. I'd sell it, pay it off, and buy a vehicle that's less expensive. Main thing is save up all the money you can because an education and having money is power. Good luck to you and your learning.
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When I go to the doctor I want to know what they ask because if they are going to tell my mom I play with myself I am not going for any reason until I live on my own. Please help! (link)
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Some Doctors might ask you if you have been sexually active. However if you are a female and depending on what type of physical pain you may have or if you are going to have surgery or any standard procedure. They will ask you too give a urine sample for a pregnancy test regardless if you have been sexually active or not. I have never known any doctor to ask if someone was Masturbating or not.
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I want sex with my boyfriend but I'm lucky if I get a kiss of him. Im a girl and I only got my first bra today and I'm not finished with puberty I've snogged and my ex showed me how to have sex but he left my school my other ex dumped me for two girls in my class. My boyfriend isn't that serious and I want more but the ex that is still in school won't go back out with me. (link)
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Worry about school and get your education. Your way to young to be having sex. Your still a kid. Most importantly what if you were to get pregnant at your age.
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Can you give a girl a lickout while she has a yeast infection (link)
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No I wouldn't do that if I were you. Just wait to have sex with your girl after she doesn't have a yeast infection anymore. I don't think you want to risk doing more harm than good. Right now her vagina is probably itchy and burning. So I don't think you want to get that type of bacteria in your mouth or even on your penis. Also condoms are a big no no too. especially if they are lubed ones. She just needs to get on medicines and needs plenty of time to heal up. If she hasn't seen a Dr yet then make sure she goes to one as soon as possible.
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Hello,
My boyfriend and I are 17 and 18 years old. We started a long distance relationship a little over six months ago. Back then, I was still a virgin and he knew that. However, a few months ago I cheated on him and lost my virginity to a guy I honestly had no feelings for. I was completely aware of what I was doing and I did it because I really just wanted to get it over with. I made sure there were no feelings attached. Now, the guy still chases after me, but I want no business with him, or any other guy rather than my boyfriend. I love him to death and really have no trouble remaining faithful. I realized it wasn't worth it and he's truly the only guy I ever want to be with. However, I know that he'll want to break up with me and his heart will be completely shattered if he knows. He keeps talking about how magical he wants my first time to be once we finally see each other again. And I believe it will be magical because it'll be with him. I don't want to lose him, but I do think he needs to know. I also don't think it's any conversation to have via phone/text/video. A close friend told me not to say anything '"cause there's no point". I know if we were in the same time zone it'd be easier to confess and try to win his trust back, but I have a serious disadvantage by not being able to daily demonstrate my true feelings towards him. I've thought of telling him in the far future, once we're living together, but I don't know how he'll feel about it after such a long time...
Also, I'm actually kind of glad I did it only because it was extremely painful, and he wasn't the one who caused that terrible experience. The guy was gentle, so it would've been bad either way. Should I tell him when we finally meet again? If so, should I do it as soon as possible, or do I give it some time? If I do choose to tell him, I know I probably shouldn't have sex with him until he's known, but I'm terribly scared of ruining the possibility of a future with him.
I'd appreciate any thoughts and advice,
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Look if you really do love your boyfriend like you say you do, then you wouldn't have cheated on him with some random son of a bitch in the first place. Sex isn't supposed to be meaningless. It is supposed to be with someone that you love and preferably when your married. Yeah I know sounds old fashioned right. Well the old fashioned way makes things way less complicated. Just because you two are in a long distance relationship doesn't mean that it gives you the right to mess around with some other guy that you don't even give two shits about. Regardless you should tell your boyfriend the truth face to face. If he breaks up with you remember that it is not his fault and that you were in the wrong. Also remember that there are plenty of fish out in the world to choose from. So don't think that this is the end of the world by losing your boyfriend. Remember that there are always other options. By the way, do you even know if he has been with anybody? And how would you feel if he cheated on you? Put yourself in his place and think about whether carrying this secret is healthy in your relationship. Quit making bad decisions and start making the right ones for yourself.
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so I've written a song (I know I know, it's cheesy as hell) for the person I like. Some people have told me that it's cute and all that I took the time to write a song for her even though it's in the style of Hey there Delilah with my lyrics. But they still think it's cute. But I feel really embarrassed because I'm not the type of person to be sentimental and express my emotions often. And every time I always think, "Hey, I'll sing it to her!" but I don't want her to think of me as sappy or sensitive cause I don't think I'm like that at all. suggestions? (link)
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Hey man don't be embarrassed by the song or the lyrics that you wrote. Be proud of it. Especially when it comes from the heart. After all that is a very important part of being a musician. Also don't be afraid of singing your song to your girl. Young women love that kind of attention. You are sure to win her over every time.
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I recently had sex with a guy on Jnauary 17th, he came inside me. My period ended on the 9thof Jnauary, not too sure when I ovulated. A week later on the 26th of January I had sex with my ex, he came inside me as well. I took a pregnancy test on Saturday the 7th of February because my period was late & it came out positive & it was one of those clear blue ones that tell you how many weeks since ovulation. It said 1-2 weeks, im working things out with my ex & I really hope it's his! Please give me advice on WHOS baby you think it is? (link)
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The ovulation period occurs sometime usually within the second and third week after you've had your last period. It is most likely that your ex is the baby's daddy according to the time frame. Although you shouldn't totally rule out that the other random bastard you slept with isn't the baby's daddy either. Because some women can ovulate early and other women can ovulate late. Until your baby is born. You may never know whom the fathers child actually is. The best and 100% way to find out is by having blood tests done to both the baby and the two men that you slept with. In the mean time you have got to be honest with your ex. Especially if your trying to work things out with him. Because most lies can come back at you and bite you in the ass later in life. Relationships require nothing but honesty. Also to make things easier for you next time you get pregnant. Make sure that you are in a properly well balanced and finationally stable relationship with someone that will want to be with you for the rest of your life. Also to avoid further problems like this one, make sure that you use proper repercussions such as condoms and birth control to prevent this kind of shit from happening to you. You shouldn't just want any Tom, Dick, and Harry to just cum inside of you like that. It is both unsanitary and can further complicate things. A good example of what I am talking about. My grandma on my dads side of the family slept with a lot of random men. She whored out herself so much that she didn't really know whom my dads own dad even was. My dad had 5 other siblings whom were in the same boat that my dad was in. Each sibling had a different dad. The bitch would do nothing but lie to all of her kids who their real dads actually were. Two of her children were both from black men and back in that day a half black child was not even remotely acceptable due too so much racial tension. Her two black kids were treated like shit. My dad went to school with his half black brother and had to endure racial tension. They called him a nigger lover all through out school because of his younger half black siblings. Later on in life the two half black siblings grew up to be drug addicts and were in and out of prison. One of my dads siblings did the same thing too her own children, and one of her own children did the same thing to her children. I could go in to more horrible unpleasant details. But nevertheless I think that you get my point. Anyway good luck to you and your unborn child and sorry if I was being a bit too harsh on you. Hope everything turns out good for you.
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What jobs can gay people get? (link)
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It shouldn't matter what your sexuality is. If someone wont hire a person because of their sexuality, then that is a form of discrimination. Although the only jobs I can think of where someone wouldn't hire a homosexual or a bisexual person would be religious work place organisations.
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Hi everyone, this is my 1st time using this website & I'm hoping to get some substantial advice. Basically, my parents are divorced & me & my younger sibling (very attached to them) live with my mother, who had depression and anxiety. She wants to move across the country because of family who can support her there. But, I'm an AP student & would lose credits, GPA, & ranking if I moved. Naturally, I want to stay here (also because of a long term relationship with my boyfriend) but also because I want to go to college here. Any advice? Is it smart to move for family when you truly don't want to? Also, I'm in an interraical relationship my mom doesn't approvd of because of old fashioned thoughts, but it's been 1 yr & he's a really good kid. She's been on board/ off board about it constantly. I come from an old fashioned Arabic family who's extremely judgmental and I don't want to lose my family, but I don't see how it's okay for them to think that way because he's black? Please try to put yourself in the situation because I've gotten advice but not from people who really, really thought my situation through. It would be really appreciated and probably save me from seeing a therapist for all my probkems. (link)
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My advice for you is this. Stay in school. Especially if you are doing so well. You are an adult and there for should not let your family control your own life. Although family is very important to have. Sometimes you have to move on and better yourself. That is just a part of becoming an adult, even though it may be hard sometimes, we all must move on. As far as your relationship with your boyfriend goes. As long as he treats you well and you both love one another then race shouldn't matter. You can not let your family control your own life or you will go no where in life. Hope my advice helps you. Good luck with your education and your boyfriend.
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I raped someone I want to turn myself in immediately. Tell me what I need to do. I need to be punished. I will not say how it happen and why. I can't make up any excuses. I was drunk but it doesn't change anything. The person who was hurt doesn't want to do anything and prefers to just forget and move on, but I can't . I need to be punished and I want to turn myself in. The person wouldn't have to worry about trial or publicity. I just need to know what I have to prepare for. (link)
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If you turn yourself in. You will go to court. Then what ever the judge decides what time you will spend you will go to prison for awhile. While in prison you may get raped yourself. Things will be very unpleasant for you. Once you get out of prison you will have to register yourself as a sex offender. You also wont be able to live near a school or have a decent job. You will have no quality of life anymore. I have been a victim of rape myself. That is how I know what will happen to rapists. Regardless whether you don't want her to go to a trial or not. She will have to attend. My advice to you is don't drink until you are going to do something so fucking stupid that you will regret what you have done in the future. Stay out of trouble and quit being a dumb ass. At least unlike most rapist you seem to feel and have remorse for what you have done. GET HELP DUDE!
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So I am 17 my gf being 16 things are a little complex. So to cut the middle story out I am not gonna beat around the bush I want to take her virginity. I am a lesbian. She like the idea of sex and stuff it's just me penetrating her just turns her off. To answer questions. She is ready I am ready i am not used to dating virgins I have a strapon I wish to use with her it is named tiger she likes to give oral with tiger cause she knows I like it. Problems: she told me she rarely gets wet, we have done some things like dry hump I can come she has never came, what if she bleeds, what if she breaks up with me, where do I take her first time, what if I hurt her worse then normal, what is gonna happen,
Please help a baby lesbian out
No homophobia !!!! (link)
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If your girlfriend is a virgin and she is scared of penetration, first things first is to make her wet. Try focusing on her clitorus. Finger and use oral to stimulate her clit. That should make her really wet. Try mixing it up with a little dry humping. If she is scared of penetration from a strapon try penetrating her vagina with your fingers first. Try to stretch out her vagina with smaller objects before putting something as big as a strapon inside of her. Sadly the first time is almost always painful for women. So take it slow and one step at a time. Also try and wait a couple of more years before you have sex with your girlfriend. It is not wise to have underage sex with your partner. I would hate for you to be a victim of statutory rape. Plus the both of you are so young. Anyway hope my advice helps. Hope you have a long lasting relationship with your girlfriend. Take care.
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Feeling like my mum doesn't give a damb. I am in agony because of the emotions I have that are because of being hurt by my stepdad physically and emotionally. The pain is geytwto the stage that I won't be able to go to school and will end up back in the shit hole called hospital. It is getting worse every time he's near me and my family. I just can tell if he's near them weather asleep. One minuite I am having a brilliant dream then I wale up in agony and hear del downstairs. I cannot cope much longer and need to get away so that I don't go to hospital for months on end again. I know my family needs him to see them but they know full well I despice what he has done to me for all my life he's sadly been in. I want to leave this world half the time to get away. I feel that my family would rather have me in hospital than at home that that del can come back so I'm going to go and live with my dad before I do either, get out this world or in the shit hole. I've tried non stop to try and get through this with my family but every time I try it is thrown in my face. I've just talked to mum and she I mad at me because she is 'annoyed that I get angry when dels here'. The only people who, even knowing Everything about how ALL the family fell, still don't understand how mum can be wanting del around after emotionally hurting me all my life. All my life mum has always said that if anyone hurts her kids, in any way, no matter what they'll be out her life. But it must be worse that someone that is meant to be there parent hurts a child, especially with disabilities. The only way I can be relieved is on my PS3 or doing it/art. Please if you can give advice on what to do. I've got two sisters who care about del, some how, but hate and blame me for what's going on.
I've told mum everything about how I fell except suiccide and hatmfull thoughts but makes no difference. Social services are involved but don't feel able to talk to them. Please give me advice as I don't know what to do. (link)
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Oh sweetie you need to get the hell out of that situation. Sadly no one is going to help you if you don't tell Social services or the police what is going on. Find your inner courage. Remember you have a voice. If someone is maliciously hurting you don't be silent about it. Also please do not kill yourself because of this asshole. You deserve to have a good and decent life like anyone else does. Don't be a victim in life. I hope everything turns out good for you.
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How long do hickeys normally last? (link)
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Hickeys usually last at least a week. They are basically bruises. If you are desperate to cover it up and get rid of it right away, you can use make up. Try to find a concealer that matches your skin tone. Apply and blend to the area that is infected, and presto your hickey will disappear. Try to refrain from getting a hickey from a lover. It can be painful, as well as not good on your health, and it sure makes you look like crap especially if you have a job.
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To make a long story very short, I was in a relationship with this guy and we broke up about a month ago. The breakup was bad, because he broke up with me for another girl that he unintentionally got pregnant. He apologized later and I have since forgiven him. We started to become friends again, and it was good. A week or two goes by and he starts talking to me about liking this other girl. That would be fine in most circumstances, but he also said he still had feelings for me. That confused me for a while, but then I figured out how much of a liar he was in the relationship. The next week I told him that I still loved him and how I felt about his lying behavior. I told him because I couldn't get the thoughts out of my head and it was driving me crazy. After we talked about it, now he acts like we aren't friends. He says "we're cool" and there are no grudges or anything, but he won't hang out with me outside of the events I have to see him at. Those events are weekly, by the way, and now I'm left feeling like I have to pretend everything is fine in front of all of our mutual friends. Its not fine, and if those people knew what he did they may not want to be his friends. I know this sounds really messed up, but I still want to be his friend in spite of all the things we've been through. My real question is how do I go about rebuilding this friendship if I can? Should I apologize for telling him how I felt, and making him feel weird? I mean whatever I do, I know this guy will lie to my face, because I've caught him so many other times. However I don't want to loose a great friend I used to have, I've already lost him as a lover, I can't stand to loose him as a friend too. Is it hopeless, or is it fixable? (link)
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Sweetheart, Don't get yourself mixed up with a guy like that. He is a liar, a cheat, and not a good friend at all. He will keep playing you for a fool regardless if you just want to be friends with him or not. Ask yourself if that is really someone that you want to be friends with. He should just be somebody that you use to know. Just like the song. Find a person who will treat you with respect. As far as your question goes your situation with this asshole is quite hopeless. He is not worth your time or effort. Also try getting to know someone better before you date them. Anyway find some new friends and move on. Forget about him. Anyway I hope my advice helps. Keep your chin up and have a great day.
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