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hey someone please help..i am a virgin who was fingered just the other day..when my boyfriend did that i felt so good..two hours later i started having stomach pains till now like seven hours later. am in so much pain. is it normal to have such pains? my lower stomach really hurts
Honestly it depends on the pain, if its an extreme amount of pain then you should go see a doctor :/ but other then that you should be fine.
should i have sex with a gay guy yes or no?
Ummmmmm , Are you gay ? do you have any interest in gay men ? Are you a man ? if yes to any of these questions go for it ? If not no.
I just recently started taking birth control after experiencing a pregnancy scare.
The pill that I am on is mononessa, and I am scared because although I have not missed taking any pills, sometimes I take them an hour later than my scheduled time. My own research told me that you should not take the pill any later than 24 hours from your last time.
I have an upcoming pap smear and I am going to bring it up with my doctor. The only concern I have is that I tend to not like condoms when having sex with my boyfriend, and I thought that birth control (which is supposed to be 99% effective) would work at preventing any unplanned issues.
If I take it an hour later than usual is that okay? Should I use back up?
I'm honestly not an expert on this but you should be fine if you do end up taking it an hour late.
Sorry if I wasn't any help. /:
Hi,
I'm 20 yrs old female. My boyfriend is 21 years, and Chinese.
Lunar New Year is coming soon, and I thought it would be nice if I celebrated it with him and his friends (his family is in China at the moment). However, he said he doesn't want to celebrate with me because he thinks it's only meant for "Chinese" people. I think that's absurd because even though I'm Filipino, my culture still celebrates it. I'm just a bit upset because I know that this event is important to him, yet he doesn't want me to be a part of it.
He thinks I'm not upset about it anymore, but I still am. I really want to celebrate it, and I might do so with other people. But I wish he'd be with me too.
What do you think?
I think I would have felt the exact same way. You can't really push the issue too much though considering that's how he feels you know? So you should try talking to him about it once more and if that doesn't work you should have fun and celebrate it with your friends or family:)
23/f
I feel like everyone who is going to read this is going to think im stupid. I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. I live in new england so we just had this huge snow storm. I was just at his house on sunday and i havent been there because he was working in the snow. I finally saw him today (thursday) and i went over to his house. I have a key to his place and i walked right in i noticed that there are two picture frames of us by his tv. I noticed they were gone, so i was upset. I noticed that there are pictures on his fridge and the one of us was taken down. I got upset and couldnt wait for him to get home and i texted him why did you take my pictures down? He responded with "i cleaned the tv stand lol" i looked for the picture frames and they were put away in a draw. I told him that my feelings were hurt and i am very stubborn so i was giving him attitude. He got so devisinve and bad saying your really going to get mad over a picture? and i felt guility and shut my mouth up. My feelings are hurt. i dont understand why he would do that. My only thought would be if a girl came over. We have been together for so long that everyone kind of knows that we are together. I am just confused because he was working for the past 4 days. I am trying not to be indenial but thats the only reason i can think of. Im just upset. Thank you for anyone who is reading this i just needed to vent to someone about it.
To be completely honest. You're a very strong minded girl & I would have reacted the same exact way. Something seems a little fishy. Like why were the frames in the drawer if he was "Just Cleaning" you have every right to be acting the way you are. Eventually if you see the argument not getting anywhere as much as it may hurt you, you have to do what's best for you and in the end you'll feel a lot better.