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pain after being fingered
hey someone please help..i am a virgin who was fingered just the other day..when my boyfriend did that i felt so good..two hours later i started having stomach pains till now like seven hours later. am in so much pain. is it normal to have such pains? my lower stomach really hurts
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Honestly it depends on the pain, if its an extreme amount of pain then you should go see a doctor :/ but other then that you should be fine.
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The two are not related. IF you were going to feel pain from being fingered you would have felt it from the beginning or it would have built up while he was fingering you. It would not have been a pleasant experience for you if it was painful.
Two possible problems could be in play one related to being fingered the just coincidental.
1) IT is very possible you have contracted a stomach virus or eaten something that has not agreed with you. Since it is hard to judge someone else's pain we use a pain line to judge starting at 1 being little or no pain and going to 10 being the worst pain you have ever felt in your life. Based on the number you give a doctor, EMT or Paramedic can judge how much pain your in.
I usually suggest when given a score of 5 or more that the patient see their doctor or we take them patient to the emergency room to be checked out as a score of 5 is considered significant pain.
2)You haven't given your age but I am guessing you are a young teenager age 13 to 15. Your pain is real but brought on sort of self inflicted. Doctors would call it psychosomatic pain brought on over stress or worry. In your case it may be a form of remorse for allowing your boyfriend to finger you. There is no reason to be remorseful.
If the pain gets worse or does not let up soon then it is time to see a doctor.
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Fingering can't hurt your stomach. Since you felt no pain during, he was not too rough so your pains a couple hours later are very likely not related. If your lower abdomen hurts, there maybe something going on in your cycle to cause that. It could be some kind of flu, it may be a period cramp before a period. Since this cant be related to your fingering, it's best to let your Mom know you're having really bad pains in your lower stomach, most likely the reproductive area. I don't know if you get period cramps. If this pain doesn't go away, the parents should take you to the hospital. Let them know how long you have felt this way. They may decide to wait a while yet and see if you feel better or take you to emergency if it gets so bad you can't talk.
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