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Should I go to my ex's family function?


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 5:21 pm

My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about a few months now and everything is okay between us. We don't talk or anything, although a few weeks ago, he sent me an apology for everything that has happened with our breakup. His family knows some of my church friends and their parents as well. Anyway, his grandmother is celebrating her birthday this Saturday and my family and i was invited. My parents cannot attend, but I would like to. My friends will be there but then again, so will he. I am invited to parttake in the ceremony but I am unsure of whether or not this is something worth attending and worth bothering to go to. Will I look pathetic if I go?

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We made out..


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 4:08 pm

Ok so yesterday, me and my boyfriend hung out in town. We have only been dating for about 2 weeks. Im 13/f and he's 14. We hug and occasionally kiss (mouth closed) and so we were cuddling and he kissed me and I kissed him back and he tried to make out with me but a few days ago I told him I wasnt ready. We were walking together last night and while he was walking me home, he stopped beside the abandon bowling alley and I went over and asked what he was doing and he said it was warming against the wall of the building. We stood there and out of no where, he said "I know you havent made out with anyone before but just do what I do" I said ok and so we started making out. Apparently Im good at it. He was pulling me closer and had his...

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What are some quick, easy, painless ways to die?


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 3:53 pm

I am A 13year old female. And i would like to know if anyone knows the easiest way to die?. I've just really had enough of my life to be honest. There is no point in me being alive. I am NOTHING. I have my GCSE'S coming up this summer and next year, I've been put under so much pressure I cant handle it. Im not ready to face failure. And On top of that I am in a relationship with this really nice boy. we recently started dating and its going quite well, however i still love my ex. me and my ex had a quite sexual relationship and its hard to accept the fact that we cant be together anymore. i cant break up with my current boyfriend, i'll feel like a bad person. AND BASICALLY IVE JUST HAD ENOUGH OF LIFE. SERIOUSLY DONT WANT TO BE HERE. AND I F...

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Problems in Relationship


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 2:20 pm

15/f My friend was in a relationship with a guy who was 12 years old. She has been having hard time gating over him. He told her he doesn't like her anymore. I was mad at him but i can understand him.My friend is crazy drama queen she was vote in the senior survey list as drama queen. She talks about her relationship all the time about every guy she dated. But she can't over this one particular guy. Since she sees him everyday at school. She invited him to her birthday and told him she still likes him i told her your making everyone feel uncomfortable but she kept doing telling me she knows she knows. please tell me how i can help her plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!!!!!

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20 y old female with 37 y old male


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 12:50 pm

Dating older men was not zomethibg i planned on in life, however once i started dating i seemed to only find older men attractive.

My boyfriend Jorge and i have been dating since October 2010. We met exercising around our neigborhood. He waz a recent dicorced father of a 2 (now 3) year old. I was a university student who just moved to Florida.

When i moved to Miami we still saw each other 4x a month. Recently he asked me to move back to central Florida to advance our relationship. After much debate, i decided to leave Miami. Now ive been back for 4-5 months and if anything i see him less or the same as i did when i lived ib Miami. Thjngs have not even attempted to advance. I questioned him about it and he act...

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Virginity, Cheating and Lying


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 12:45 pm

For four-five years i have been in a happy relationship with a man, lets call him Bob.

However last year, I did the wrongest thing someone could do, I slept with someone else, lets call him Will.

I first met Will properly at someones birthday meal. I was sitting next to him. I told him that i was a cheerleader just in convosation and his eyes lit up. At this point he began to brainwash me. For the next 3 months he groomed me.

Bob at the time could see this (At this point we were a long distance relationship) and warned me against him. I did not listen.

Will would say things to me like "your such a freak, but your so cute" he'd convinve me to stay up late for him, he even...

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secrets: is it necessary to tell your boyfriend EVERYTHING?


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 12:24 pm

Hey, 18/f
Okay so basically I'm just wondering is it necessary to tell your boyfriend EVERYTHING?
We have been together for two and a half years and he knows pretty much everything about me as do I him.
But there is one particular incident in my past that I don't feel comfortable discussing with anyone. I don't want him to think differently of me telling him about it just isn't an option.
He asked me before had I any secrets and I just said no then he said If I had then all of this is for nothing.
It's not like I'm lying to him or anything there are just certain things I like to keep private. Surely that's allowed?
I asked my mum and even she says she has stuff my dad doesn't know about.
Do...

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lust?


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 1:07 am

female 22 years old.

Ok to start I have been in an almost 5 year relationship with "B" & totally happy.

So my issue is back as early as middle school so like 12 or 13..I have liked "M" Sounds crazy, but just hear me out. It had been like a going back in fourth flirting type of thing between M and I for years, up until like the past 2 years not so much. Always flirting(nothing came of it) When B and I first got together, M & I started talking via text messages, on facebook, and on the phone..& we hung out like once. Mind you B & M are FRIENDS(have been since very small) (we all went to school together our entire lives) Anyhow nothing came of that either and I ended up telling...

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I hate to be ignored by my boyfriend


Posted Monday April 9 2012, 10:56 pm

How Can I make my boyfriend to feel ignored?

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i fantasize about my ex boyfriend way too much. what does this mean?


Posted Monday April 9 2012, 9:41 pm

i fantasize about my not recent ex boyfriend way too much. what does this mean? is it a bad thing? i love my current bf of 2 years but i just cant help but think about him..

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i'm so confused about what's going on with him, no one tells me anything


Posted Monday April 9 2012, 9:38 pm

I'm with this boy, we arent' dating or anything but we are a "thing" lately he hasn't been himself. I'm really good friends with his best friend and he's dropping hints like "trust me i know him, just keep your guard up" and when i ask him to explain all he says is "I can't really say much on this subject but just know i have your back" i'm not being told something important and apparently i'll find out "sooner rather than later"
i know there is something going on with this guy i have a "thing" with but i don't know what.....is my guy friend preparing me for a hearbreak?
i am 16 and a female

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Do guys think it's weird when girls stare into their eyes and smile a lot


Posted Monday April 9 2012, 7:35 pm

This is how I act around my crush! And I can't help but stare into his eyes because his eyes are so dreamy and beautiful, and make me feel really good. I just love looking at his eyes, and we tend to have longer eye contact than normal, and I'm usually umcomfortable about too much eye contact to pretty much everyone, but not with him.

I also act a lot more polite and with more ettiquete than I normally would, because, well, I don't want to give off a bad impression or anything, but I think I come across as looking more innocent than I actually am. But we have a similar, witty sense of humor, and he often tries to catch my attention during class, by just making weird sounds or trying to make me laugh in a goofy way. he's gent...

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My boyfriend pushes me into doing things. what should i do?


Posted Monday April 9 2012, 6:37 pm

My boyfriend loves me and cares about me a lot. The other day we were hanging out and he sat on my chest and pulled down his pants, sticking his dick in my face. He wanted a blowjob but I had previously told him I didn't want to do that. Ive given him a handjob before and hes fingered me, but I don't like doing stuff so ive told him to stop before but some how we keep ending up doing sexual things. Should I break up with him since he promised me he would never push me into something I didn't want to do? Or do I give him another chance? 15/female

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Not sure what to say. Please help!


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 9:17 pm

21/F: So me and my “boyfriend” have had a lot of ups and downs. We’ve been off and on for about 3 years. He has a drug problem and since the beginning of the year has actually been in recovery. While he was in rehab, he called me almost every night and we had hour long conversations of just happiness. He shared like every detail of his life with me and I felt so important because he trusted me enough to really tell me how he felt. But one day he told me that he couldn’t carry on a relationship with me or call me so often because he needed to work on himself but really wanted a relationship later on. Well, here we are a couple months later and I am going insane. It’s not that I don’t think he needs time or whatever. But I am begi...

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gaining trust with my ex boyfriend how can i?


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 1:33 pm

I am 39/f he is 38/m...Ok!me and my ex had been friends for 13yrs before he asked to take it farther.Hed always been the the love of my life,so of course I said yes.Lasted a whole 2months,because all my past relationships including a 12yr marriage were physically and mentally abusive.I guess what happened was I started getting needy and clingy and very insecure,without realizing what i was doing,i let my past mental abuse dictate my feelings.He never gave me any reason not to trust him,but little by little he started withdrawing and getting distant.Scared the heck out of me.The more he backed away the harder i tried.One night while he was in the shower I looked in his phone,which at the time I knew wasnt right but it was like i kept thinkin...

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restraining order


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 8:18 am

I am 25 yrs old and I came from Mexico 10years ago on a visa. My visa expired and I was aware that I could be removed from the country anytime. I met this guy at school and we fell in love right away. everything happen so fast, he stayed at my apmnt once and never left. He loved that I was very independent and a hard worker. He had trouble with the law and he was trying to finish his 4 year probation. Sooner than later I realized he had an anger problem, but I still loved him so much. We fought multiple times were he would loose control and break everything he could. He knew about my situation with immigration and begged me to marry him so I was not on deportation risk anymore. I married him without anyone knowing about it. couple months la...

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depressed


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 12:01 am

I don't know what's going on. I'm really depressed..really stressed I don't wanna live anymore

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Shit...am I really losing feelings for him? He doesn't deserve it.


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 11:53 pm

I have the most amazing guy all to myself as my boyfriend. He is crazy funny, very caring, comforting, and understanding, and I can really be myself around him. I don't ever get scared or nervous around him. It's like I have known him for years. He is thoughtful. He surprises me with cute little trinkets and places I've always talked about wanting to go to. He never lets me down and I have a prince charming on my hands. He always lets me know he loves me and does all these sweet things for me. I hate being away from him, and we've been dating for 8 months. We talk a lot of our future together.

I don't know what it is lately, but I have been getting very annoyed with him. The things I'd normally find cute I find very very very...

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He confuses me..


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 6:13 pm

Ok so I have a boyfriend and we are the standard couple. We fight sometimes but easily get over it. We recently got into a fight because we were talking on Skype and we were on eachothers facebook accounts and looking through convos and I read one on his profile to my best friend that said "Well to be honest, I never really stopped liking you" I was crushed and hurt and we got into a fight about it. I couldnt stop crying because I was heart broken. I love him so much! Anyways, I told him that even if he liked my best friend a bit that I would never stop loving him. Today, he said that he stopped liking her and he loves me with all his heart. Then, he said "Im not gunna tell her that I dont like her anymore though." Why would he say that? He confuses me sometimes :$

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Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 5:55 pm

how can you tell if a man is wanting more than friendship from you

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