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i'm so confused about what's going on with him, no one tells me anything
I'm with this boy, we arent' dating or anything but we are a "thing" lately he hasn't been himself. I'm really good friends with his best friend and he's dropping hints like "trust me i know him, just keep your guard up" and when i ask him to explain all he says is "I can't really say much on this subject but just know i have your back" i'm not being told something important and apparently i'll find out "sooner rather than later"
i know there is something going on with this guy i have a "thing" with but i don't know what.....is my guy friend preparing me for a hearbreak?
i am 16 and a female
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It's hard to say but those aren't good signs from what you have written. I would say this is a red flag and that you should run. First off this "thing" you have...why can't he be your boyfriend? Was it his idea to be a "thing"? If that's the case than he either has commitment issues or he doesn't really want a relationship he just wants a hook up buddy.
Second off if his friend is warning you about him that's a HUGE sign to walk away. If his friend is telling you to keep your guard up than you know something is up with this guy.
I was with a guy for 7 months...can you believe it? 7 MONTHS!!?! His friend kept warning me about him and I just ignored it. We never made it official I guess you could say we had a "thing". Finally one day I realized I could do better and I moved on.
I'm sorry to say but this just sounds bad and the sooner you walk away the better. You don't deserve to be treated like that.
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well for one thing be careful because friends aren't always reliable. His guy friend might not even be a real "friend" whether he knows it or not. so in this case talk to the guy yourself. ask him whats going on. why he has been acting different but do listen to what the guy says about keeping your guard up because depending on whether he drops a bomb on you (tells a not so-good truth), confirms his friend is a liar, or makes it even more obvious he is hiding something... you definitely want to expect the unexpected.
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It sounds like it and if your dont want to be hurt as bad I would confront him. It hurts less coming from you, Tell him you have heard some things and you have been actting different. I just want to know what is going on i deserve to no the truth
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