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tighten up abs


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 2:51 am

well im 15 and 5'9 .. i am skinny, but have a tiny pooch, and i have big hips so i have little love handles, also i have big ribs so i cant be as skinny as i want because im built big, but does anyone have any tips on how i can have tight abs and get rid of my tiny lovehandles?

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How to make peace with the past?


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 1:22 am

25/F/US

Three years ago, I met a man. Our relationship was brief but very intense... I don't entertain any delusions regarding love; I didn't know him long enough to feel such a thing. But, when I'm honest with myself, I have to admit that no man I have met since can rival him. I've never been more attracted to a person, on so many different levels, or felt myself connect with a person emotionally and mentally so quickly, so easily.

During the past few years... I've tried to move on. I've dated. I've fallen in and out love. At one point, I was even engaged to be married. I can go for months without thinking of him at all... But once he runs across my mind, he's hard to push back out again. And I can't push him...

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fighting a lot.


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 1:18 am

for about two months now my boyfriend and i have been fighting a lot. well, not really fighting, like throwing things at eachother or screaming. its more of where one of us gets annoyed with the other and we just sit there, silently being pissed. eventually one of us breaks the ice, most of the time its him. im a lot more hardheaded.

and most of the time, its me being mad at him. im a very depressed person, and he'll always ask me whats wrong or if im ok. it gets really really annoying and thats when the cold shoulder starts up. even when nothing is wrong with me, or im kinda quiet, he'll keep asking over and over and over if im ok!! and then ill start being mean and he'll get pissed, and its a really vicious cycle and im tir...

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bad smelling cigarettes.


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 1:05 am

i started smoking a year ago. recently, whenever my boyfriend lights up a cigarette or i smoke a cigarette, it smells really funny/weird and i start feeling nauseous. and also my boyfriend smokes a lot in his room, and if i stay in there too long i get a headache. this started happening about 4 or 5 days ago, and its really confusing me. does anyone know what is wrong?

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The "EX"


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 1:04 am

Female.
So me and my boyfriend of 3 months broke up two weeks ago because he lied a lot and was just constantly drama. A couple days after that he was telling me he still loved me and wanted to get back together and he was depressed and missed me and i told him we needed to focus on moving on. So it took a couple days, but we decided we could be friends. So on the 5ht day after we broke up he told one of his friends he wanted me to die, that i was a bitch, and he hated me for ruining our relationship.

He acted like he didnt care about me in front of everybody and didn't even talk to me; which was fine because i quit texting him and talking to him also. But then he started sending me messages saything that he missed me...

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my kitten...


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 1:03 am

my cat is about a year old. shes very tiny, and has always been on the thinner side. there was even a time when someone made a comment about how "fat" she was getting.

well, a while back, she started throwing up. a LOT. like almost 3 or 4 times a week. she'd eat waaaay too much and end up not even chewing up half of it, and then she'd turn around and throw up anywhere.

since that has been happening, she hasn't been getting much nutrients. and shes also eating less and less and losing waaaaay too much weight. she's getting so thin and bony. she still goes outside and runs around and stuff, but im concerned about her weight. if she was a person, id call this bulimia. but shes not a person...shes a kitte...

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Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 12:36 am

this guy that i like asked me to tell him how would he say that a girl is attractive in spanish since im puerto rican and i can speak both languages i dont know if he was being flirty or just being nice buti like him alot BUT I have my doubts if he feels the same way hes my dentist but now he just wants to have conversations in spanish. after were done he toches my shoulder we seem to have alot of eye contact but it did really keep me thinking why did he ask me what was the proper way to say that a woman is attractive but he ask me that in spanish i was thinking maybe he was trying to tell me that im attractive but not directly and his helper was there and she asked me are you guys talking about me but she was kinda laughing and i said no b...

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i think he is flirting but im not sure


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 12:25 am

this guy that i like asked me to tell him how would he say that a girl is attractive in spanish since im puerto rican and i can speak both languages i dont know if he was being flirty or just being nice buti like him alot BUT I have my doubts if he feels the same way hes my dentist but now he just wants to have conversations in spanish. after were done he toches my shoulder we seem to have alot of eye contact but it did really keep me thinking why did he ask me what was the proper way to say that a woman is attractive but he ask me that in spanish i was thinking maybe he was trying to tell me that im attractive but not directly and his helper was there and she asked me are you guys talking about me but she was kinda laughing and i said no b...

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Does he "dig my trousers"?


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 12:18 am

Hey guys. Brace yourselves this is really long. I am 14/f, 15 in June, a freshman in high school, and SOOO confused. Well I am a nerd. I've had this MAJOR crush on a dude; lets call him HM, ever since the first day of high school, and HM's WAY higher up on the social status bar than I am. In fact, he's the most popular guy in the whole dang school. He turned seventeen on the 15th of May, and he's a junior. Anyways, he's SO hott, and funny, and muscular, and tall, nice and… Well I'm getting carried away sorry, heh. So, about two months or so ago, he came up to me one day and started "flirting" with me to see what I would do. His flirting with me is obviously a joke, so don’t worry, I don't have my hopes up on this. Well, I gave...

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enlarged clit?


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 10:51 pm

ok so my partner and i had sex tonight for a longer time than usual. we did a ton of new positions to see which worked best. when we were done, i was examining my vagina and i noticed that my clit was humongous. like it's never happened that bad before. my clit was always covered by the two lips on the side. however, now it is very swollen and sticking out like crazy. it also hurts very badly. so i suppose i am asking, what is going on? is it normal? will it go back to being hidden? thanks in advance.

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confused


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 9:33 pm

this guy that i like asked me to tell him how would he say that a girl is attractive in spanish since im puerto rican and i can speak both languages i dont know if he was being flirty or just being nice buti like him alot BUT I have my doubts if he feels the same way hes my dentist but now he just wants to have conversations in spanish. after were done he toches my shoulder we seem to have alot of eye contact but it did really keep me thinking why did he ask me what was the proper way to say that a woman is attractive but he ask me that in spanish i was thinking maybe he was trying to tell me that im attractive but not directly and his helper was there and she asked me are you guys talking about me but she was kinda laughing and i said no ...

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Bublers and Water Pipes


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 7:35 pm

Is there a difference between a bubbler and a water pipe? I am getting one for a friend and he has a water pipe that needs to be replaced. Thank you for the advice.

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Alibaba.com


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 7:14 pm

http://www.alibaba.com/

I would like to buy something from this site. Has anyone ever used it? Can you tell if it is a legitimate site? Is it like e-bay or something? Thank you for the advice.

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loose body fat fast?


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 6:39 pm

ohkay soo for my birthday which is in like less than a month I am getting my belly button pierced, but I want to loose my fat on my stomach and make it hard. What would be your exercise routine you would give me? I'm not like fat just my stomach is like a little bit big.

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does he still like me?


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 6:31 pm

I use to date this boy about 2 years ago and we dated for about 4 months. Then I broke up with him and he still liked me and he still liked me for 1 1/2 years after the break-up. Every now and then I would go back and have a little thing with him, but I would always end it because for some reason I just started not liking him. Then we got in a big big big fight and he never wanted to talk to me again and he started dating another girl. Then he broke up with her and started talking to me again and telling me that he wanted to be friends again. I had liked him at this point and even before he started talking to me again. And I told him that and he said that he didn't want to date anyone right now. But he never gives me any signs that he still likes me...what should I do.

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Moviess


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 5:26 pm

Does anyone know of any websites that you dont have to buy the movies or download anything on your computer but it plays the whole entire movieee. If you get what im sayingggg.

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Mind games (how to)


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 5:11 pm

Okay first of all a quick bg of the story is that my friend is datin this guy that makes her feel like s**t!! she nos hes not right for her and she nos that I feel the same, but he recently told her that if he ever were to hurt her it would be through mind games and not physically!!
What I would like to know is how she could get him back via mind games as he has now made her question herself in all aspects like is she pretty enough, is he 2 good for her etc!! she is a wreck and needs to get him back at his own game!!
So any one who knows how to do mind games please help!! she needs to get back her sparkle which has been lost because of him!!
Also not 2 b cheeky but please dont write to tell me not to meddle in her lovel...

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Boyfriend's judgemental parents.


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 5:08 pm

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, but we were friends for years before that. I've never loved a guy this much, and our relationship is pretty serious. He lives with me, but he has a room outside of his parent's house that he pays rent for (it's in like a shop thing on his parent's property). My family is fine with us living together, but his parents are huge Christians. We live with my grandparents, but sometimes we like to stay over at his place just to have a little more privacy. His mom doesn't say anything, but his dad says that no girls are allowed to say overnight with him on his property. I respect his dad's religious beliefs and go out of my way to please him. He doesn't allow women on his property to wear anythi...

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Sexy Talk Through Texting


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 4:41 pm

I want to start using "sexy" talk on my boyfriend. As he is going away for the weekend i hope to send him a few texts just to show what he is missing HAHA!

However, i want to just speak "sexy" not dirty, i don't want to send dirty messages because there is always a chance of someone reading the messages. So i personally feel that sexy messages are much more acceptable than dirty message, Just my personal preference.

Me and him have this personal 'joke' that I am going to turn gay and go with girls, so maybe i could build that in to the texts? (because i know he definitely likes the idea of me and another girl haha)

Have any of you got any ideas on how i could tease him through texts?

thanks! xo

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I hate my mom.


Posted Friday May 22 2009, 4:20 pm

Like shes this really big b*tch. Just 5 minutes ago, i heard her talking to my dad (I know that she wanted me to over hear) and she said, "Shes not my daughter shes yours". I was like okay.. rude much? Didn't say this but really! Last night she was screaming at me to empty the dishwasher, so while i was emptying it, I had a stack of bowls, and one fell off the top, hit me in the head and fell on the ground and broke. I started to clean it up, and the vacum wouldn't work. She started getting even more pissed at me thinkin i dropped the bowl on purpose, so i said "Yeah, cuz thats smart, drop it so then I have to clean it up." She like freaked out about this, and started threating me that should could beat my a$$. Then I wa...

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