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I hate my mom.
Like shes this really big b*tch. Just 5 minutes ago, i heard her talking to my dad (I know that she wanted me to over hear) and she said, "Shes not my daughter shes yours". I was like okay.. rude much? Didn't say this but really! Last night she was screaming at me to empty the dishwasher, so while i was emptying it, I had a stack of bowls, and one fell off the top, hit me in the head and fell on the ground and broke. I started to clean it up, and the vacum wouldn't work. She started getting even more pissed at me thinkin i dropped the bowl on purpose, so i said "Yeah, cuz thats smart, drop it so then I have to clean it up." She like freaked out about this, and started threating me that should could beat my a$$. Then I was going up to my room and she threw me agianst the door grabbingt my arms so hard that they left her read hand prints on my arms. And screaming at me that I need to give her respect. Personally, I will never respect her, shes a b*tch, and I hate her. Anyway, then I was in the hallway on my way to my room, and she grabbed me agian saying that she'd throw me threw the wall behind me and all this sh*t. Ohh, and just like 5 minutes ago, she was sayint that if i didn't load the dishwasher she'd grab me by the hair and shove my head in the sink. shes ruining my life, and I need to get away from her.
Please don't say that I should stay with relitves/friends for a week or so, because I would stay with my grandma, my moms mom, but all she does is take my moms side. I understand that she is her daughter, but when is she going to wake up and realize that her daughter is a monster. I am 14 and a freshamn in highschool, so i'm stuck here for 3years. I don't think anyone in my family understands, that I want absolotly nothing to do with them once i'm gone.
I have an older brother, who died when he was 55days old. I don't think that my mom understands that shes lost one kid, and now after today and last night, shes lost another one, my older sister is on the verge, and she still has my younger brother, but only because hes the baby and the only boy.
She plays favorites WAYY to much, and its not fair. LIke she honestly hates me, and at this point I don't care. Shes a terrible mother and person.
So I guess what I am trying to ask, is what do I do. I need to get away from here, but I have no where to go. How do I put up with her. Even if I'm not doing anything she picks fights, like if I say one thing she starts screaming at me. I can't even keep my distence, because she like comes after me when she decides to. I'm sick of it, and I don't know what to do. If I could afford to live on my own, I'd divorce her as my parents. What do I do!
**This isn't the first time shes gone this over the top.
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Your mother is abusive, and irrational. Either call CPS, or talk to your father. What your mother is doing to you is not right. The next time she puts her hands on you, or threatens you, record it. Record it so that you have proof to show of the abuse she's putting you through.
If you gather enough and show it to CPS, a lot can be done. If they see that the situation is harmful (which it is), they'll probably put you into foster care.
Your mother sounds like a disgusting human being. I'm really sorry you have to deal with that sweetie, but CPS is there when you need them.
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Try talking to your Dad about it. If he doesn't help, then just avoid your mother as much as you possibly can. Stay out of your house and hang out with your friends. Plan your day so that when you're around the house she won't be.
If your mother ever tries to seriously hurt you, don't be afraid to call the police.
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kay.
how is your relationship with your sister? does she take your side or your moms? cause you could always have her help you out.
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You could brown-nose your mom and do all these really good things like with out her asking you
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You could go to social services or the councilors at your school at tell them your situation.
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You could run away. Pack your bag for just like an over night and then go someone where just to give your mom a good enough scare that she will stop pulling all this s**t on you.
I'm sure you don't deserve it.
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Yeah my dad's the same way & this is just part of the teenager life. I know you think no one elses mom does this blah blah but yes they actually do. Most parents are like this, because they have stressful lives now with money and what not. This is what I do to get my dad off of my back, just agree with anything he says and do what he says. I know you're thinking wow I hate her so much why would I want to do anything for her, well if you do what she asks it makes it easier on both of you and she won't be as harsh towards you because you did what you can. And theres no way you can get rid of her anytime soon, so just suck it up and do what she wants, its her house, her rules. I hate having to be a slave but it is what it is and you have to put up with her until you are on your own. Hope I hepleddd.
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