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Sexy Talk Through Texting
I want to start using "sexy" talk on my boyfriend. As he is going away for the weekend i hope to send him a few texts just to show what he is missing HAHA!
However, i want to just speak "sexy" not dirty, i don't want to send dirty messages because there is always a chance of someone reading the messages. So i personally feel that sexy messages are much more acceptable than dirty message, Just my personal preference.
Me and him have this personal 'joke' that I am going to turn gay and go with girls, so maybe i could build that in to the texts? (because i know he definitely likes the idea of me and another girl haha)
Have any of you got any ideas on how i could tease him through texts?
thanks! xo
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I have to second Witty, especially AS a woman who HAS been with other women.
It's just not a great joke to make. It can come back to bite you in the ass.
It's not just mean to a guy, it confuses them, permanently.
Many guys, especially the younger ones, struggle to understand fluid sexuality. I am now at the point that when I begin to talk about sex with a guy I'm seeing and I feel I need to be honest about having dated girls, I always say “Yes, I've been with women. NO, I am NOT having a threesome with you. Ever.”
Some of them have been a bit offended by this, but ALL of them have had the sense to admit after the fact that it was good I said it. Some of the ones who were 'offended' by the strength of this statement, also needed to be REMINDED of it later. So, it's important that its out there front and center and honestly.
Think about that: I'm an adult dating other adults and even THEY get confused about this issue. You really should be very careful about how you use this 'idea' to amuse your boyfriend. If you plan on making this 'joke' anyways, do yourself a favor and before you do it, TELL HIM YOU ARE GOING TO AND THAT IT IS JUST A JOKE, before you make even the first tiniest joke about it.
Tell him firmly. Remind him if he ever seems to be confused about that.
I don't want to imply that ALL guys want a threesome, I'm sure there are some out there who don't like the idea at all, but I haven't met one yet who didn't get intrigued by the idea.
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I'm going to speak up for the men in the world, and say that unless you're leaning bi, you shouldn't tease about it.
You'd be giving him hope. Its mean.
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Its still mean.
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