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Friends or More than Friends?
Posted Tuesday July 17 2012, 3:11 am
Well me and this guy used to have feelings for each other, feeling like we were more than friends. But then he went to slow, the biggest thing we did was he danced with me at a dance and our "thing" went on for 4 months. Then I ended it because it was going to slow. It was kinda awkward at first but after about a week we were back to friends. Right now we are best friends, as close as brother and sister and it's been about 7 months since our "thing", but now I think I have feelings for him again. :/ The other problem is him and another have this "thing" but he told me he doesn't like her that. But I'm the only one who knows so if I intrude everyone else will think I'm trying to get in their way. I don't know if...
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Old hs classmate i never talk to shows interest 3 years after?
Posted Monday July 16 2012, 11:01 pm
Ok, so his name is [john], we went to the same middle school and high school and never really talked, we graduated 09and he facebooks me, eventually we end up hanging out, it was not awkward, as if we just hung out a couple days ago,he ended up kissing me, and he was kinda rubbing up on me, im not gna say i hated it, but i feel it was a little too soon. I feel like i have a connection with him, hes an aries and im a cancer. He was showing interest that night till he went home and dropped me off. The next morning the texting was lagging, show little signs of interaction, hey, i'm a girl, I am going to think about this lol. I haven't dated anyone for about 2 years only because i got out of an emotional relationship and no one really catched m...
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what should i do about my mean boyfriend
Posted Monday July 16 2012, 9:11 pm
So I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and he's been getting really mean lately. He's never been physical with me just always putting me down for something and calling me names and just really hurting my feelings. Hell always yell at me just for any reason at all and I try to ignore it for the most part and ill ask him to stop and then hell tell me that I'm the one who's mad and I need to chill out. And I've been applying to about 6 or 7 jobs a week for the past month and I've had 1 interview and a couple odd cleaning jobs. So I'm trying. But he always tells me how lazy I am and how I useless I am since I don't have one yet. But the only reason he has a job is because he works for the company his dad works for. I really tr...
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Why can't he be excited about things I'm excited about?
Posted Monday July 16 2012, 6:15 pm
21/F
I've been dating this guy off and on for 4 years. Recently I've noticed he never seems happy about anything I'm excited about. For example I got a really good grade on a final that he knew I was stressing about for weeks and all he said was good job and diverted the conversation.. Another example is I just bought my very own new car and I was so excited when I signed the papers and I called him up about it and all he had to say was "it's only a V6? You're excited about a V6"... Idk but little things like that make me upset about him because when he's excited about something I'm just so happy that he's happy but it never seems like he does the same for me. Do I just care more about him than he does me? I mean I've talke...
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I have a boyfriend mum does not know. Should I tell my mom about my boyfriend?
Posted Monday July 16 2012, 3:00 pm
I am with this guy I love him so much! My mum knows I like him but she doesn't know That I am with him Shall I tell her I think she would go crazy! Thank you.
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i need to get over a boy
Posted Monday July 16 2012, 4:30 am
There is this boy I've dated 6 times this passed yearand I totally liked him a lot but he keeps going out with my friend and I found out he really liked her. I want to know if he likes me still? If we could still go out?
I know I should be over him by now but I. Can't get him out of my head. What do I do? How do I get over him? Or how do I get him to like me?
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To suffer this night for my boyfriend, or to not
Posted Sunday July 15 2012, 10:18 pm
22 F Boyfriend 19
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 11 months now. I love him to death and he would do anything for me and loves me endlessly. But his mom is getting re-married in almost 2 weeks. This wouldn't be a problem if his mom stole $5,000 from him and lied to him about it behind his back just a few months ago. Him and his mom were close before this happened but now he won't answer her phone calls and can't even look at her face to face. My boyfriend respects and likes his soon to be step-dad. He doesn't know if he is going to be in the wedding though due to what his mom did behind his back. I told him I didn't think he should go and then he has his family who knows it's not right what his mom did but st...
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HEEELP! Does this sound like mind games?
Posted Sunday July 15 2012, 8:21 pm
I have a best guy friend who I have secret feelings for. He's so pride full and likes when girls beg him. Sometimes he dropped hints and I feel as if he likes me. Most of the time though hes such a jerk. Does this sound like mind games?
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Highschool relationships
Posted Sunday July 15 2012, 3:32 pm
My boyfriend and I met in 8th grade and we're both going to be seniors in high school last night. We never worked out in 8th or 9th grade, we were always on and off. We never offically dated but we are now. We started going out June 6th. He means everything to me. He takes words very seriously. Last night he came over and he saw on my phone that a guy cause love u and i said it back. He took it so seriously and broke up with me. I don't know what to do. He ended up forgiving me but then today he told me I broke his heart. I'm even looking at colleges in philly because that's where he wants to go to school. Upenn. Idk what to do anymore. Im 16 but i believe in forever and i believe in highschool love. He's never hurt me. I just want to make ...
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He's gone now
Posted Sunday July 15 2012, 12:11 pm
Last night my boyfriend and I decided to put an end to our relationship and this time for good.I feel that he's gone forever this time.
The thing is that we have always had these terrible arguments and misundestandings all the time,and he didn't trust me and neither did I.
Trust was missing in our relation and arguments had become the norm.
We both felt like it was over and decided to dump each other.I didn't even looked at his face when I left,and now it's really weard since I'm not missing him and I'm not expecting him to call me or text me either.
Is this time for real?Shall I start thinking that this is it?And that from now on my life's gonna be different?I mean,that I'm gonn...
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His mom walked in on us!
Posted Sunday July 15 2012, 12:21 am
18/f
I was hooking up with my boyfriend the other day and we were both down to just our underwear when his mom walked in on us! I feel super awkward and embarrassed and now I don't want to see her because I feel like she's going to hate me or something. What can I do?
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Conflicted mess: Is he going to leave his girlfriend for me? If so, then what do I do?
Posted Saturday July 14 2012, 9:06 pm
I've recently found myself starting to develop very strong feelings for a friend of mine...trouble is, he has a girlfriend already...however, I get very strong vibes of a mutual attraction, and all the signs that guys show when they like a girl...I've always been a very good judge of whether or not a guy likes me or not, and my heart tells me he does...and that's not just wishful thinking on my part because I like him.
And let me just say, he knows that I like him, BUT, he also knows, because I adamantly told him, that I will NOT try to break them up, and that is nowhere near what my intentions are. I do NOT want to be "that girl"...and I can't stand the thought of being responsible for someone's misery in that typ...
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Girlfriend is on 1 month vacation, and is ignoring me while she goes out to party for weeks?
Posted Saturday July 14 2012, 8:13 pm
17 male
My girlfriend is currently on her one month trip.. She left June 22 and I will see her July 24..
She spent a couple of weeks with family on her trip and the rest of the trip is with her old friend who she had to move away from. Soon she will be back.. But lately I feel like I am going crazy, before she got to her friends house she seemed fine, she made time to talk to me and she texted me normally and seemed happy and seemed to want to talk to me.
Now it has been a week since she got to her friends house and I feel like I'm losing her.. She is always partying or something and she doesn't make time to talk to me and if i was in her position I would try to talk to her and she hardly texts ...
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My boyfriend lied about something very serious.
Posted Saturday July 14 2012, 9:51 am
Please help me;
I have been with my boyfriend for four months, but I fell in love with him well over a year ago. I had just gotten out of an extremely abusive relationship: my ex-boyfriend beat me, starved me, raped me, and every single thing that came out of his mouth was a lie. I suffer from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder from what I went through with him. Before that ex, I had another boyfriend who also lied about every single detail of his life and fed me lie after lie, and also robbed me of plenty of money to feed his drug addiction. So, I was really happy to be in a relationship with my long-time crush... For the purpose of this question, I'll call him Bob. I love Bob with all my heart, and I tell Bob everything and nev...
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how do you have phone sex lol.
Posted Saturday July 14 2012, 2:34 am
So, me & my boyfriend have a long distance relationship. & since I told him I don't want to loose my virginity for awhile, I don't wanna bore him, so I wanna try to spice our relationship up. I wanna try phone sex, because it seems fun but I'm not sure how to & I DON'T wanna make a fool of myself. But anyways I just need the basics of it! Someone who actually has experience please help me! & how to enteratin him. Thank you (:
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Torn between them...
Posted Friday July 13 2012, 11:28 pm
There are 2 guys....let's call them J and K.
J is my bf of almost 5 months. He sees a future with me, kids, a house. He is a nice guy. Very sweet. But makes big mistakes in our relationship...like hanging out with girls, texting them, stuff like that. He says he loves me with allhis heart. But I honestly don't know.....J and K both hate eachother with a burning passion btw. Enough that J told meto stop talking to him. I've known J for 6 years. He seriously liked me ever since this year. Saying he wanted a future and stuff. Even though we've dated before and it hasent worked out. He never liked me like this when we dated last year.
K is my best guy friend. We tell eachother anything and everything. I've...
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Confused... Very sticky romance situation.
Posted Friday July 13 2012, 10:10 pm
Me and a group of friends decided that me and a guy would pretend date to pull a prank on his sister. She's really nosey and gives him no privacy, so I figured I would help him out and teach her a lesson on minding her own buisiness. (I am close friends with the sister) But a problem came along... I fell for the guy. Like I don't even think of it as pretend dating anymore. What do I do?
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I need a good nickname!
Posted Friday July 13 2012, 10:51 am
What are some good nicknames for my boyfriend tim??
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my partner has left me once again
Posted Friday July 13 2012, 9:58 am
um hi, im new here, so hello every1! well im in a bit of a mess as iv started post traumatic stress disorder therapy just recently as i witnessed my elderly dad beaten to death + i cudnt stop it. im 33 with 2 children. i have been with a guy for just over 15 months. hes almost 38 with no kids and lives with his mum. he keeps saying he lives with me but he leaves everyday to go c his mum, she is well and only 61. im also bipolar and told him frm the start that life can b a little difficult with me. i was honest frm day 1. he told me im his miss rite etc, but he takes his stuff at least once a wk. i told him that if he left again +took all his stuff there wud b no coming back. well i had therapy yesday+ was in a bad way + this morning he pac...
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hot and cold
Posted Friday July 13 2012, 9:51 am
hope someone can help-
this guy we were friends like way back.. then lost contact for ages.. suddenly has been getting close and really giving me all the attention thru texts and dinners... i know for a fact he can be busy... but he does have time to text me like 100 times a day (exaggeration) but u get it, a certain good morning to start the day and definitely a good night to end it...and lots in between...
OUT OF NOWHERE this all disappeared.
fine.. we never discussed what we were or what that was about. we were just nice and sweet.
BUT NOW I MISS IT
and i have no idea what ever happened!!
he sometimes says hello been busy ... then i reply then NOTHING EVER anymore...
so i kinda tol...
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