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Friends or More than Friends?

Question Posted Tuesday July 17 2012, 3:11 am

Well me and this guy used to have feelings for each other, feeling like we were more than friends. But then he went to slow, the biggest thing we did was he danced with me at a dance and our "thing" went on for 4 months. Then I ended it because it was going to slow. It was kinda awkward at first but after about a week we were back to friends. Right now we are best friends, as close as brother and sister and it's been about 7 months since our "thing", but now I think I have feelings for him again. :/ The other problem is him and another have this "thing" but he told me he doesn't like her that. But I'm the only one who knows so if I intrude everyone else will think I'm trying to get in their way. I don't know if I want to go for it again or just let my feelings go. So I would really like some on advice of what I should do? Thanks :)

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holla13 answered Tuesday July 17 2012, 11:14 am:
I also had a "thing" with my Best guy Friend-12/m.-me-13/f, and it went on for 2 months. I was being stupid, cz I was sorta dating well, not really we took a break....but I ended it quickly with Best Friend cz my BF and I got back together. I was so hurt cz he realy hates my BF, so I sed i cudnt go on cz my BF and I r back together. Then, he sed fine whatever. I screwed up I cried for weeks cz he wudnt talk to me and he saw me break down wehn one of my friends asked me if i was ok, i wasnt and cried my eyes out. He was also dating, but he dint like her like dat and it was ok Anyways, we're ok now and I'm single.:) happy to be single. just ask him out no one'll think ur intruding its her fault for not being a good GF. lol. just go for it

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Drewb13 answered Tuesday July 17 2012, 10:38 am:
If he's not dating the other girl, then you can ask him if he wants to go out again. But some relationships are slow. My parent's dated for 9 years before they got married. And you're not intruding on anything because he said he didn't like her like that. So that leaves open a window of opportunity for you. But it's your choice. If your heart wants more than a friendship with him, then go for it.
I hope this helps.


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