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Girlfriend is on 1 month vacation, and is ignoring me while she goes out to party for weeks?
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My girlfriend is currently on her one month trip.. She left June 22 and I will see her July 24..
She spent a couple of weeks with family on her trip and the rest of the trip is with her old friend who she had to move away from. Soon she will be back.. But lately I feel like I am going crazy, before she got to her friends house she seemed fine, she made time to talk to me and she texted me normally and seemed happy and seemed to want to talk to me.
Now it has been a week since she got to her friends house and I feel like I'm losing her.. She is always partying or something and she doesn't make time to talk to me and if i was in her position I would try to talk to her and she hardly texts me.. but I noticed on her twitter she started to text her guy friend that lives here where we live and she doesn't even seem to see my tweets about her or like today I posted on her wall that I love her.. she never seemed to notice and I barely ever do that but I just noticed that. We have been together for 3 months. I told her how I felt and that I felt more friends with her cause of how she treats me and the other night we took a break, well space from eachother and she said she wouldn't do anything with any guys so I believe her but I just feel like I am falling apart and I don't know what to do..
I felt this way before with another girl where i felt i was going insane. I never figured out how to get over it. I have been cheated on before and I think that has caused part of it. I'm not sure what to do to make it these next 10 days from ruining my relationship and i have cried alot lately and I don't normally do that. Any help is appreciated and this isn't the full story cause that would take forever to type out but thank you for help
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Okay, so I can understand not answering a text because of being busy...but for this situation, something's up. It's not right for her to be brushing you off like this. You need to find know if she still has feelings for you. You also need to remind her that you're still her boyfriend and don't appreciate being pushed a side. If she keeps making you feel like this, the best thing to do is to find someone else instead of hurting yourself like this.
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I'm not sure her reasons for not talking to the one she is with. because it is almost the 24th,. I would see how she is acting when she gets back from her vacation. if she continues to be very distant that i would definetly talk to her about it. not matter what if she is being distant that is not something to do in a relationship and you do deserve better than to be ignored.
~Jasmine*
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You stated you both took a break from one another, What was the reason?
Honestly, It sounds like she may be developing feelings for someone else.
I think it is cowardly that she couldn't come forward and be honest.
From what it looks like, She waited until her vacation to ween her way out of the relationship with you. I know it sucks, Trust me. I've been there plenty of times and I've cried too but I would maybe try one more time calling and leaving a voice mail. Don't assume that you are loosing her, Say something along the lines "Hi I'm just calling to check in, I haven't heard from you in awhile I miss you when you get a chance call me" This way you don't sound like you are attacking her with assumptions. If you don't hear from her within a few days, I might start to wonder whether she is maybe eyeing this other dude. If she is, You deserve better.
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