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what should i do about my mean boyfriend
So I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and he's been getting really mean lately. He's never been physical with me just always putting me down for something and calling me names and just really hurting my feelings. Hell always yell at me just for any reason at all and I try to ignore it for the most part and ill ask him to stop and then hell tell me that I'm the one who's mad and I need to chill out. And I've been applying to about 6 or 7 jobs a week for the past month and I've had 1 interview and a couple odd cleaning jobs. So I'm trying. But he always tells me how lazy I am and how I useless I am since I don't have one yet. But the only reason he has a job is because he works for the company his dad works for. I really try my hardest. I clean the house, ill make him or get him anything he wants. But its still not enough for him to stop putting me down for everything. He's cheated on me before(which he later changed his story to saying that he just made it up to hurt me). I moved to a new state where I don't know anyone for him and he gets mad and acuses me of cheating on him if there's a guy looking at me, even if I never look at the guy. So I have absolutly no friends. My friends from home don't like him. And I've left him twice before but I let him talk me into coming back because he said that he would change. Things were good for a bout a week and got bad again. Its so hard for me to leave since I'm 700 miles away from anyone I know. also what's keeping me from leaving right now is we got a car and its in my name since his lisence is suspended but I haven't paid a cent for it so id feel bad taking it. But I legally can't move from the state while its in my name and payments are still being made. I just feel so stuck. I know its not a good relationship and his dad has had problems with getting physical with him and past relationships. So I'm worried if I stay longer that my bf would get physical with me. Someone please give me advise
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If you don't like the way he's treating you then LEAVE! You are keeping yourself with him for no reason. Go out and find somebody who really loves you and will take care of you.
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~Andrew~
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You need to leave him for good
Your boyfriend is emotionally abusive towards you and after two times of going back to him he is NOT going to change. You are clearly intimidated by him it points it out right here "So I'm worried if I stay longer that my bf would get physical with me."
Even if you are trying, It is not you with the problem it's him. You've always stated that he has cheated on you before which clearly the relationship has no trust. Seriously, End it and cut contact with him. There is a reason that your friends don't like him and that would be he's nothing but an asshole. As long as you are with him you are allowing him to abuse you, Over time your self esteem with be down the shitter. If you want to be happy then you have to allow yourself to make the choices too become happy. This guy is controlling and does not deserve you. Also, He doesn't deserve you in a relationship he most certainly does not deserve your friendship either.
A relationship is about partnership, love and communication. When you are down, He picks you up vice versa.
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Leave him. Please leave him, any way you can just leave him emotionally and physically. This relationship is in no way healthy, relationships are supposed to be about love, and caring and taking care of each other, not abusing and acting this immature and irresponsible. You can definitely get someone much, MUCH, MUCH better! Don't ever settle for someone who hurts you in ANY way! No human being deserves that. Use whatever you need to go, and don't go back if you want to live a healthy life. Don't feel bad because you want what's good for you, feel bad that you stayed there long enough. Stand up for yourself honey, you're worth millions and you should be treated like it. Best of luck! {:
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