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about dating: what is a truly free dating site?


Posted Saturday October 27 2012, 5:17 pm

well which dating thing is free without paying money can you tell me



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Do I Have a Chance With My Ex?


Posted Friday October 26 2012, 10:03 pm

I really like my exboyfriend....I dated him a couple years ago. We just got back from a field trip and he seemed interested in me more than he usually does. I kept catching him watching me and seemed to make an effort to be around me. On the way home, he sat next to me and let me fall asleep on his shoulder. Do I have a chance? If so, what do I do?

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;( Help ASAP!!!!


Posted Friday October 26 2012, 9:33 pm

12, Female

Hello, i'm Melanie. My bestfriend's name is Lily. Ok so she had a boyfriend named Jake. Well, I've liked Jake for a long long time.. Now I think I love him. I'm serious, here. I can't ever get him out of my mind, i've written SO many songs about him, I listen to songs about him, ect. Well, Lily still likes him. At least I think she does. Anyways, I think Jake And Lily will get back together!! If they do, i'll cry so much.. What do I do? I feel so bad for loving him when she likes him. What do I do?!

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We were really close but then we both got into a relationship...


Posted Friday October 26 2012, 8:16 pm

Okay so me and this guy (let's call him Bob) were really close. We could talk about a lot of stuff but he got into a relationship. I liked him for the longest time even when he had a gf. We flirted a lot. But in April, I got a bf and we stopped talking as much because bob hates my ex. Well we are both broken up with own bf/gf and I realized, I still like him. But we barely talk and I was wondering, how can I talk to him again without it being awkward. I have tried but I can't get a full conversation outta him. So please help with anything! (: thanks in advance!

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My crush doesn't like me back, and I'm humiliated! :c


Posted Friday October 26 2012, 11:29 am

Okay, well I liked this guy in one of my classes, so I decided to talk to him first. I eventually gave him my cell phone number, which he actually texted me back, I was shocked. Things were going pretty great, we would text for hours at a time. Every day after class he would wait for me, we would walk to our next class together, he walked close to me, the body language was good (I know body language pretty well). We worked together in class, he would wave, and act shy and dorky around me even. A girl in our class would nudge him, grin, and joke about us when we would talk to each other, he even turned red. I was pretty sure he liked me, but then again I really don't have any good traits, I'm not pretty either, so I figured he probably didn'...

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Should I forgive and trust my boyfriend?


Posted Thursday October 25 2012, 5:16 pm

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months. It was going great we love eachother very much. He is an amazing guy and I am head over heals for him. BUT In the startI noticed he would only introduce me to his friends as his "friend" He said it was because he was scared to get hurt again (he said he got hurt in his last relationship) So it took him quite sometime to call me his girlfriend. He has always been very secretive with his cell phone. Told me I know pretty much everything about him that his cell is his last means of privacy. He tells me he loves me and wants to marry me. But he is a very selfish lover though :( even though its amazing! Anyway one day I was on my computer and he had left his Facebook on....well I d...

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Loving someone overseas?


Posted Wednesday October 24 2012, 10:29 pm

Hey Everyone!
So my friend hosted a foreign exchange student from France about 6 months ago. When we first met, I really liked him. He was only here for a couple of weeks but we spent a lot of time together. He did the sweetest things for me, and everyone knew that he liked me. When people asked me if I had feelings for him, I would simply say "I can't like him. It would be worthless. His home is so far away". I tried to not like him, but every time we hung out, it felt so perfect and so right. He played his french music in my car and we drove home everyday together. I would stay up to midnight on school nights just to hang out with him. When he left, I was devastated. I had never felt like that before. When I broke up with...

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am i pretty ?


Posted Wednesday October 24 2012, 2:50 pm

okay so i know this is stupid of me to ask but i feel like when i ask people i know i don't get an honest answer. im 5'2 i have light blonde hair that ends right at my boobs its usually curled or in beach waves im a 34DD in a bra i have light blue eyes i usually half to get like a size 8 in dresses since my boobs are so big and have the dress made smaller in the waist i definitely have curves and a butt my waist is smaller and i have big thighs i get really nervous and awkward when i half to get in a bathing suit because i have 2 scars on my stomach. i get told im pretty all the time but i just can't bring myself to believe it i also hate going places because i feel like everywhere i go im being judged

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Did I ruin the chance for a first kiss?


Posted Tuesday October 23 2012, 8:26 pm

So my boyfriend and I were hanging before a mixer and then we got to talking about kissing. He's had one and only one kiss, but I haven't had any. So we both discovered we want to kiss each other and he put and kept his arm around me and kept walking like that, but he kept jokingly trying to kiss me, then he held his face directly next to mine so when I turned my head up I'd end up kissing him. Evidently he thought I wouldn't notice this, but I did, so I kept looking at the ground probably blushing for once. I was so nervous that I think by the end of the night he ended up thinking I didn't want to kiss him and we've hung out after that but it's not as close and cute as we were and he hasn't tried to kiss me anymore. We've got a best friend...

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Commitment in Relationships


Posted Tuesday October 23 2012, 7:38 pm

I would like to know something, at what point in a relationship do you become committed to someone? My gf and I broke up after dating for about 5 months because she had issues with clinginess and whining about being the perfect person. She told me she was committed to me and I said that I was committed to her. However, during the relationship, she would do these such things and I also do things often that I would be busy to talk a times and she had a problem with that. But then I told her tonight that I didn't feel quite committed to her yet. Did I do wrong? I think this whole relationship thing can stress me out. She was my third girl.

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I want to love him but I can't


Posted Tuesday October 23 2012, 2:02 pm

19/f
I dated this guy about a year ago, I ended up breaking up with him after a few months because I felt no sexual attraction. We have been friends ever since, and I know that he is honestly the perfect guy. I know he would be the best husband and best father and if I went out with him he would want to marry me in a few years. He really likes me, and I really like him too. He is perfect at everything, he loves God and he is the best influence on me, he brings out the best in me. He is cute too, but for some reason I can't find him sexually attractive. He is a bad kisser, and that's a big deal to me. I know I should be with him, and I really want to, but I don't know if I can. He is very touchy, I just don't feel anything when he tou...

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stuck in my mind


Posted Tuesday October 23 2012, 1:50 pm

so there is a issue that i'm dealing with right now..

this guy where i'm fwb came over my house last time and when he came over, we got caught by my mom in the act tho.. but my mom was talking to me while he was hiding against me under the sheets. and when my mom left he got very mad at me for not telling him the truth -_- that i wasn't alone but anyways the reason i asked him to come over was because he was complaining about his feelings.. he was saying that he wants to go back to his ex.. who he cheated on with me.. i don't believe him.. but he told me he broke up with her because of me.

but he said before the summer holidays that he was going to break up with her because he was going to study acting (in th...

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How am I supposed to Break his heart without breaking mine.


Posted Tuesday October 23 2012, 12:09 pm

I've been dating this guy for seven months and there isn't a bad thing i can think to say of him. he's absolutely amazing and I am so so so in love with him. I just know it won't work out in the long run. We both have different goals in life. We are best friends and having him in my life as my boyfriend has been the most secure feeling ever. I just want to do the right thing and not date him anymore when i am 100% confident it won't work out. But i know he'll be super crushed and I will too. I get so depressed when I think of us not together or him in my life. How do i do this without hurting him &myself?

Thanks so much!

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How can I get my boyfriend to quit smoking?


Posted Tuesday October 23 2012, 12:37 am

So my boyfriend(more like fiance) is a smoker and has been doing so since he was 19 or so(he's 35) and I wanna get him to quit.
He's not a huge smoker. When he's not sharing he probably goes through a pack every 2-3 days or so but I still want him to stop.
However, he lives with two smokers, and says quitting until he moves out is "not gonna happen".

Is he right to say that? Is that a realistic thing to say or more an excuse?

He says once he moves out he'll work on quitting. I kinda want him to stop now but I wanted your guys honest opinions...

thanks!

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My boyfriend never NEVER tells me I'm beautiful. WHy not me?


Posted Monday October 22 2012, 1:43 am

My boyfriend never NEVER tells me I'm beautiful. I know he thinks it and I really don't need to hear it, like I am confident and secure with myself but all my friends boyfriends are always telling them how beautiful they are. I tell him how attractive I think he is all the time. And he calls other girls beautiful..a lot. Should I be concerned? I am a little and frustrated. What should i do?

Thanks so much in advanced for any suggestions or advice (:

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My boyfriend said he doesn't think about me as much as he used to.


Posted Sunday October 21 2012, 11:47 pm

So I have been "dating" this guy for about a month now but we had been talking for a couple of months before. It is a long distance relationship and I haven't seen him in almost two months. Last week we did not talk as much and this Friday he told me he doesn't think about me as much as he used to do. That text made me so sad and he said he knows that if we see each other everything will change but we can't see each other for a while. I have been sad since Friday and I feel like he doesn't miss me as much as he used to do. What should I do to go back to the old good days that he would call me everyday and text me beautiful stuff?

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because of guys


Posted Sunday October 21 2012, 6:40 pm

im just 11 and a guy name hunter ask me out he said he was going to dump his girl for me but i dont really know can some of you tell me what to do he really says in my face i love you and i say o wow so stupid but he said he would die for me and i said i stell dont no it has pass5 days and thanks

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Are we more than friends? What do you think?


Posted Sunday October 21 2012, 3:14 pm

Sorry if this is long. Ok so here is a bit of background information: I have this best guy friend, we are just so close. We've only known each other for a year but we text practically everyday from the time we wake up to the time we go to bed.  He started sending these cute "best friend" pictures so then I started to as well but then he started to see more "love" pictures that were saying "I love you" in all these cute different ways so once again I started to as well. I have always kind of liked him but I just valued our friendship so much more and stopped thinking about anything happening between us. He has crushed on two of my friends and because we r good friends he told me and I told him who I would be cr...

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I dont know how to handle or react to this ! HELP .


Posted Sunday October 21 2012, 2:38 pm

My name is Chris. I've loved this girl since last year from the very moment we kissed. Something about that kiss really made me attracted to her and want to pursue a relationship. I love her personality, we really get along well. We ended badly in the summer. She hurt me by ignoring me and as a defense I said some pretty hurtful things. We didnt talk all summer but we ended up in the same highschool class. At first we didnt talk but I would catch her staring at me and I determined she still had feelings for me, as I did for her. My bestfriend got us talking again and ever since, things have been even better than last year. I played my card out right with this girl because I felt i got a second chance at her heart, and i dont want to mess it...

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He said he was between like and love?


Posted Sunday October 21 2012, 9:20 am

The guy I've been talking to told me he was between like and love with me. I'm not really sure what this means. Advice?

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