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Did I ruin the chance for a first kiss?
So my boyfriend and I were hanging before a mixer and then we got to talking about kissing. He's had one and only one kiss, but I haven't had any. So we both discovered we want to kiss each other and he put and kept his arm around me and kept walking like that, but he kept jokingly trying to kiss me, then he held his face directly next to mine so when I turned my head up I'd end up kissing him. Evidently he thought I wouldn't notice this, but I did, so I kept looking at the ground probably blushing for once. I was so nervous that I think by the end of the night he ended up thinking I didn't want to kiss him and we've hung out after that but it's not as close and cute as we were and he hasn't tried to kiss me anymore. We've got a best friend kinda thing goin' on too, so what should I do? Did I ruin my chance, or should I suggest it more...?
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Looks like you have a golden opportunity for a relationship here as well as that first kiss. What you NEED here is to be honest with him.
Tell him that you want to be kissed but was so nervous and petrified and the timing was off that night. He will totally understand as no doubt he was shaking in his boots too or had the first time he kissed a girl.
He LIKES you so just relax and know that if he's your best-friend now it will only get better and he will catch you if you stumble.
You NEED to let him know all of this or he will go around wondering why you weren't into him when in fact you desire him in this manner. Also, when you're totally ready just ask him if he would kiss you. There's nothing wrong with that and some guys like that.
The other thing I would do is figure out if you want a relationship first and make a pact to remain friends if it doesn't work out. Make sure you are both on the same page.
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It's not ruined. Why don't you talk to him about it? Guys are not mind readers. And he probably doesn't want to make you feel uncomfortable.
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