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im just 11 and a guy name hunter ask me out he said he was going to dump his girl for me but i dont really know can some of you tell me what to do he really says in my face i love you and i say o wow so stupid but he said he would die for me and i said i stell dont no it has pass5 days and thanks
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Try to step back from the emotion of all this. Doesn't something seem wrong about this situation? Here is a list:]
1. You seem to be getting off on taking another girl's boyfriend away from you. Don't you think that's counterproductive?
2. At 11, you're too immature to be in any sort of love relationship because you just don't understand not only who you are, but the nature of other human beings. The human brain will keep developing until about age 25. That means your thoughts, hopes and interests are going to go through quite a number of changes over the next decade and a half or so. You might want to consider stepping back from having any kind of love relationships until you have more information from which you can use to make better informed judgments as to what you want and/or need.
3. "I would die for you" is stuff characters say in soap operas, romance novels and pop songs. It is not rational reasoning, especially when you begin blurting melodramatic stuff like that at 11.
So save yourself a lot of drama and maybe even heartache and step back, observe how people operate, do a lot of dialoguing with people and reading on the subject and, some years down the line you will have a better foundation on which to build a stable and mutually fulfilling relationship.
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So I know you don't want this answer but you should not be focusing on boyfriends right now, your so young! Boys shouldn't be asking girls out, where would you even go anyway? And if he says he love you thats a lie, you can't possibly know what love is when your that young and you guys haven't even hung out! So he is just trying to suck up to you! Also, if he is saying he will break up with his current girl friend, think about if you say yes, he is just going to go say that same thing to another girl and than dump you! He clearly doesn't respect girls if he would do that to his girlfriend.
Just think about this the next time he does that to you.
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