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Do I Have a Chance With My Ex?
I really like my exboyfriend....I dated him a couple years ago. We just got back from a field trip and he seemed interested in me more than he usually does. I kept catching him watching me and seemed to make an effort to be around me. On the way home, he sat next to me and let me fall asleep on his shoulder. Do I have a chance? If so, what do I do?
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I'm a strong believer in "There's a reason why you two broke up in the first place and you'll just find out why you're not with him again the second go-around"
So I wouldn't really even try to be honest. Unless you want to learn the hard way, feel free.
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Two things have to be true in order for a former relationship to work a second time around.
1: You have to BOTH want it to, not just one of you.
2: Whatever it is that caused you to break up the first time must be fully resolved, or no longer relevant. This is not something you'll be able to fake; it must be really, truly, completely resolved, or it will come back again with a vengeance.
So long as those two conditions are met, you have a pretty good chance. What you do is make sure that they are met by talking honestly and openly with him about it. And if he says it's just not going to happen... you will probably have to get used to it just not happening.
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