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My boyfriend said he doesn't think about me as much as he used to.
So I have been "dating" this guy for about a month now but we had been talking for a couple of months before. It is a long distance relationship and I haven't seen him in almost two months. Last week we did not talk as much and this Friday he told me he doesn't think about me as much as he used to do. That text made me so sad and he said he knows that if we see each other everything will change but we can't see each other for a while. I have been sad since Friday and I feel like he doesn't miss me as much as he used to do. What should I do to go back to the old good days that he would call me everyday and text me beautiful stuff?
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Even i can't give the absolutle answer and i've been there several times and i know how you feel deeply . I hope what i'm about to say won't hurt you . The thing is , those great moments will always be .. moments . Nostalgic moments and it saddens even thinking about it . You can make those moments alive , but it requires both you and your boyfriend to do it , not you alone . Try to ask him whether it's worth it to be like it used to or there's another way but this is the most painful , yet helpful which is getting ready for a sudden break-up . Sometimes , the hottest relationships have the coldest ends and i know you don't want that but starting to be independent now is really important . You keep on missing him , but how would it be comforting knowing that he's not thinking as much as you do ? You can trust him , but don't let yourself go unless you're married . Don't worry , if there is love , distances won't matter . It's the feeling and honesty in proving it . Now , don't cry , Don't . The sadder you get , the lower you'll feel and it'll get nowhere unless both of you make the relationship alive again ! Be strong . Be strong . Do things that you love with your family and love God . Find yourself go , and tell yourself that "if this man's not the one for me, then it means God has been keeping another special man for me, it's just a matter of time ." For now , try to live your relationship again and think that it'll work . If it fails , let yourself know that you can be independent . I could even cry with you now but please just be independent .
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