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How am I supposed to Break his heart without breaking mine.
I've been dating this guy for seven months and there isn't a bad thing i can think to say of him. he's absolutely amazing and I am so so so in love with him. I just know it won't work out in the long run. We both have different goals in life. We are best friends and having him in my life as my boyfriend has been the most secure feeling ever. I just want to do the right thing and not date him anymore when i am 100% confident it won't work out. But i know he'll be super crushed and I will too. I get so depressed when I think of us not together or him in my life. How do i do this without hurting him &myself?
Thanks so much!
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The best thing to do is to be honest with him. It won't be easy but he needs to know that you can't foresee a future with him other than friendship. Does he know what your goals are? Can he see that they clash with his? If not, he needs to know. If he already knows, then that will make it easier as he will also understand. He may even secretly feel the same way. Talk to him. Who knows? Maybe there is a compromise there that you're just not seeing yet. Good luck.
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I think you should go tell him exactly what you just wrote. That is the only way this will work out. Tell him that you love him and you want to be his friend but you don't see a future. Guys like to be told things straight up, they don't want it sugar coated so just straight up tell him exactly how you feel. I know your scared to hurt him, but it will just hurt more if you wait longer.
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