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depressed about break up


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 10:58 am

i hope this is the right category.
16/f
sorry its so long.
so this is the story: my (ex)bofriend and i met in a class that we have together and we fell hard and fast for each other. i love him. he has a terrible home life and he told me was moving so we decided to break up so it wouldnt so hard when he left, but i still loved him and it was sohard to see him everyday and know that i'm not with him. shortly after we got back together because he said hes not moving. i was so happy, the happiest i've ever been in my life. i was attracted to him in everyway physically and mentally. i loved about him the most that we had the same perspective on EVERYTHING and we could talk forever and about everything, it was astounding. but...

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I feel like i want to die


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 5:26 am

I've stayed up all night tonight, i can't sleep. i just drank this situation away,but i know that never lasts, i just need to vent and ask for some advice on here.
I've loved him for 5 months, and yesturday i had so much hope. I talked to his bestfriend, and he told me straight up that *he really did like me. his best friend, said it was always me. i was going to talk to him today. But ah, today. One of my bestfriends comes over, and i mention him to her (they're related- so they're close) and how i felt about him. Then- she tells me her other good friend made out with him just the other day and he was interested in her. (yet his BEST friend told me that *he only "flirts" with her to make her feel better). I feel mind fuck...

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bored of sex


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 5:03 am

is it normal to be bored of sex all of the sudden? me and my boyfriend were having sex (the safe way don't worry), but after a while.. i just got bored and just laid there looking around the room. two days before, i was watching a video and the person was giving advice to somebody who said what happened during sex which was that she started bleeding and everything. that kinda turned me off and i just wasn't in the mood. was that the reason why i got bored of sex or something or got turned off? is this normal?

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Why can't i let go?


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 4:55 am

i been with my man for 3 yrs. i love him still i think, but there is so much pain in our relationship no matter what i do i end up crying every day. i don't have any friends any more any rarly talk to my family.i don't no where to turn it scares me because my hole life i've never had any thing good, i loose it. i don't no if i'm happy any more, i dont know if i even still know myself. Everything i do is for him, why do i do so much with nothing but pain in return. He won't let me leave him and even if i did i always go right back. Why? I just want to be happy with my life again, I don't want to cry any more. But i don't have any one to turn to any more i lost everything and one for him, and i don't think i ca get them back. why do i stay wh...

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am i getting bored or what exactly is going on?


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 4:45 am

16/f

i actually don't know how i feel about my boyfriend anymore, i don't know why but when i see him nothing really pops up, it's just normal.. it feels like it's an everyday thing or something. he even started noticing that i didn't seem so happy to see him or be with him, so now i act like i am. usually we get into arguements, but i'm tired of it so i end up avoiding any sort of conflict and stuff. i don't really want him to touch me as much or a kiss just seems like a regular kiss. i'm not sure whether my mind is just bored and wanting something new and if i'm just acting like i'm happy. or if i really am happy but i think that i'm bored, if you know what i mean. for example, you don't know what you have until you lose it...

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Brazillian wax or Bikini Wax


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 2:24 am

Hi so i know what a bikini wax is but i was wondering what exactly a brazilian wax is.
I know is tales a lot more hair off but is it like everything? Someone told me they wax your ass too so i'm a little confused haha.

also i was wondering from personal experience from girls which do you prefer and guys... which do you prefer lol alright thanks!

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i lost my virginity and need to get myself out of the situation...but can't


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 1:27 am

15/f

I recently lost my virginity to a guy who I thought to be a good guy. Now I learn he's a tweaker, he's a stealer, he's a liar, and he's an asshole. All of this I gathered from other people and although some may see that as an inappropriate source, its from people who care about and so I don't doubt them. They've known him longer and have been his close friends. I believe them.

I know I should leave him. I know I need to leave him, but it's just...it doesn't feel that simple to me. He was my first and for some reason I feel attatched to him. Even though I have no real relationship with him, I'm afraid of losing him and I don't understand why.

I've never felt that vulnerable in my life and fo...

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what is this..


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 12:43 am


Okay, I'm kinda creeped out. Around December 8th I had a pimple on my leg which I noticed when I was pulling my pants down to go to the bathroom. It was really painful when the fabric rubbed against it. I mentioned it to my sister, and she said that it was probably an ingrown hair. A couple days later, it got worse. There was a black looking dot in the middle of it.. and the redness surrounding the 'pimple' or whatever was became a huge welt. My mom looked at it and freaked out and told me to squeeze it because there was probably an infection inside of it. I squeezed it and sooo much bloody pus came out. I put neosporin on it, hot compresses.. bandaged it up.. and it would continuously leak out.. all the pus. Anyways, everyday I wou...

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hair weave


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 12:34 am

My current weave is getting in bad condition.

-For those of you who do not know what a weave is, it's hair extensions that are sewn in on a track (a track is are horizontal cornrows-

My current ones are medium brown, Silhouette brand, and 18 inches long.

I want 20-23 inches, brown hair, good/awesome brand, and ones that are a weave (sew in).

I am looking for a website, ebay doesn't help & I am getting impatient on my search.

Thanks

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sex life


Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 12:32 am

I am engaged to this guy i have been with for almost 5 years. Everything I love him about him, but the sex life. That honestly gets me questioning this whole marriage thing. YES, I know sex life isn't everything, but it is a big something. I honestly think it's that he's too small. I haven't been with anyone else, so I can't fully say that thats it, but he is below the national average by a hair. (6 inches) Please, This is serious, but dumb, yet again a very serious issue. PLease give me any insight. Any is appreciated as long as its kind.

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I bleached pieces of my hair.


Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 10:52 pm

I bleached pieces of my hair. I have medium brown hair. I have a lot of layers and i was wondering what would be some good places to put the blonde ?
I put some underneath my hair, some in my fringe, and some on certain layers.

I just bleached my hair tonight, and I used toning shampoo to get rid of the brassy tones, but it didn't get rid of all of them.
I can cut some of them out though, it's mainly the ends that are brassy. I was wondering if in 24 hours, I can make some more bleached places in different parts of my hair, also to take the dark brassy places and rebleach them for a few minutes?

afterwards i use that special brassy tone removing shampoo, deep condition moisturize them, and then i...

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AHHHH.


Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 10:07 pm

OKAY. Had the same boyfriend for..4 1/2 months now. I'm really starting to have these intense passionate feelings for him. We're even starting to talk about having sex. Like, i feel like i love him. But i CANT trust him. Like, i have this friend. she's seriously..the biggest slut you will ever meet. and i guess he was with his friends and they all hung out. so when this happened i TOLD HIM UPFRONT i don't like him doing that, and that it makes me real upset..so..now..on facebook..hes TALKING to her. like honestly, WHAT THE FUCK. Also..whenever im with him..his phone goes off like 200 times. and its all girls. and it just like..i don't know! He gets mad at me for not trusting him..but honestly, how can i! I talked to my bestfriend about this...

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myspace fake friend


Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 9:08 pm

so when i woke up earlier i had a friend request on myspace from a guy "bob".
i went to his profile and me & "emily" were his only friends, & he only has two pictures.
there is another girl that was my best friend last year and she made a fake profile of a guy named Jake and i found out that it was her. my [ex] best friend hates me & "emily" like really bad so im thinking that this "bob" guy is just a fake profile that she made because its kinda obvious because his only friends are me & "emily" which she hates. its hard to explain but i dont know how else to do it. how do i find out that its her. it has no use to send a message because if its her then she will j...

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Where do all his hormones go!?


Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 8:58 pm

My boyfriend, 15 and I, 14 are very close. We've been together for a year and a half. He's NOT gay. I'm just wondering why we don't do anything. We've never been on a date. Well, football games but nothing specified, "date" material. We HAVEN'T KISSED. We do some things though. We touch each others legs? I've kissed his neck? We hug (: haha. I just want to KNOW that i'm turning him on. He says I do but... I'm just not too sure. When we're at lunch, I'll touch his leg and as my hand gets more "up there" (not his penis just upper,upper thigh) He won't let. He'll move his legs closer together and he'll move to holding my hand instead. What does this mean? Do I turn him on? I know this is a good guy, but... seriously?
...

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Is it ok to give a friend a sex toy as a gift


Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 8:25 pm

Hello I am a women that has known another women for a very long time. Her and i both had husbands and kids. Her husband died. She still likes sex but she has no selfisteen so she is going out with a man who treats her like crap.I think she just keeps him around for sex.She tells me hes no good all the time and them she sneeks around and gos and see him. Do you think if i went and bought her a sex toy she would leave him alone and what would she think of me for geting her this kind of presents

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Where can I get a dress like this?


Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 7:07 pm

http://tinypic.com/r/fk5dol/6

She's wearing some lace off the shoulder dress thing, I was wondering where I could possibly get one like that? I love lace and that it's off the shoulder.

Thanks :)

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Facebook


Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 5:17 pm

Ok so I made a group on Facebook. When I post on my group wall it comes from me insted of coming from the group if you know what i mean. How can I change that and make the posts come from the group instead of me (You know when people who made the group post stuff on the group wall and then the post is on the members wall coming from the group...so how do I do that?) Sorry if I didnt write that clearly!

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Justin Bieber


Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 4:36 pm

Is there anyway in the world that I could contact Justin Bieber? ANYWAY!?!?! Please, please, please! Email, Facebook, Myspace, cell, ANYTHING PLEASE!!!!!!

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Dads a dick. What do i do?


Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 3:40 pm

Okay so lets get one thing straight first. I HATE my father, he didnt want me in the first place but now he wont seem to leave me alone. Anyways, it started in september, on september 11th to be exact, went to school normal day yada yada yada and me n my dad wernt talking for about a month now. We fight alot n long story short i got sick of it. Three nights before, my stepdad kicked my mom out of the house because he wanted to live with his mom and we wanted to live closer to my highschool. He demanded that i stay there with him n his mom or "he'd do what he has to do" i went with my mom by choice and we didnt have a place to live so we stayed with her friend who is also my godmother, an hour away from my highschool. Still didnt t...

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Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 3:30 pm

is true...i think am just going to let things go..if he actually wanted something with me he would come back..back he never did..and i give him a chance he is going to do it again ;(
--there is this other kid i liked, we started texting since novemnber,my friend told em his ex cheeted on him too. but then i found out he was talking to another girl..i was really dissapointed because he always askes me to go to the movies with him and stuff...and 2 days ago he asked me to chill this weeked..so am kinda confused..but he really wants to meet me which is a good thing, and he calles me sweety and in the night if he fallas asleep he text me in the morning like at 1pm telling me he is sorry that he felled asleep..maybe he just wants to see what girl is right for me...humm what do you think?

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