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Is it ok to give a friend a sex toy as a gift
Hello I am a women that has known another women for a very long time. Her and i both had husbands and kids. Her husband died. She still likes sex but she has no selfisteen so she is going out with a man who treats her like crap.I think she just keeps him around for sex.She tells me hes no good all the time and them she sneeks around and gos and see him. Do you think if i went and bought her a sex toy she would leave him alone and what would she think of me for geting her this kind of presents
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you are unsure, ask her. Instead of you going and buying something for her, have a girls date and go together (if she is down with the idea).
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Sex toys don't replace people.
They are fun and great, but they don't, and shouldn't, replace people. If this woman has no self-esteem, she isn't just keeping him around to get her off sexually. She is keeping him around because he makes her feel better about herself. Silicon doesn't tell you that you are pretty and sexy.
Give gifts to be apperciated and enjoyed. Don't give a gift to change a person.
Would you give someone a dieting cook book to make them not be lazy and eat fast food?
That's not a gift: That's an insult and they would resent you for it.
Sex toys might be a great gift for her if you knew she was interested in them. It might be great gift for her if she had expressed to you how much she would like one.
Sex toys are NOT a good gift if you are hoping to replace her current man. That's simply presumptious and rude. Give her a gift you think she'll enjoy, not one you think she SHOULD enjoy.
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