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bored of sex
is it normal to be bored of sex all of the sudden? me and my boyfriend were having sex (the safe way don't worry), but after a while.. i just got bored and just laid there looking around the room. two days before, i was watching a video and the person was giving advice to somebody who said what happened during sex which was that she started bleeding and everything. that kinda turned me off and i just wasn't in the mood. was that the reason why i got bored of sex or something or got turned off? is this normal?
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its abosoloutly normal but dont let that put you off because sex is just another part of life every woman ,younglady or girl goes through.
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ps:keep having sexx(have it har core)
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It's absolutely normal to become bored with sex, or anything else for that matter. It doesn't mean that you don't care for your boyfriend; some things just start getting old. I think that you might have gotten bored of the same old, so I suggest you and your boyfriend start trying different stuff out. I cannot give exact pointers, but you can try different positions, fantasies, sex toys, etc., anything that makes you feel more in the mood. You don't have to tell him that you're bored of sex- it's a much better idea to randomly try something out, like maybe a striptease or different position, and see how both of you like it. If he asks, you can just say that you'd like to try different things to add variety and turn both of you on more.
It's always a good idea to experiment and try new things in the bedroom- we simply are not programmed to enjoy the same exact thing, time and again, mostly because it's no longer novel and we know what to expect. Oh, and as for your second question, if you were thinking about the video you watched while having sex, then chances are it affected your mood and took your mind off of what mattered- the sex. You should not focus on anything stressful, boring, etc., while having sex-- relax, take your mind off things, and focus solely on making you and your boyfriend feel good.
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it is common to become bored of sex. some girls dont have a huge sex drive. if you are birth control that can weaken it too. i am pretty sure when you want it, you will get it. it will come around just do it if you dont really want to.
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