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AHHHH.
OKAY. Had the same boyfriend for..4 1/2 months now. I'm really starting to have these intense passionate feelings for him. We're even starting to talk about having sex. Like, i feel like i love him. But i CANT trust him. Like, i have this friend. she's seriously..the biggest slut you will ever meet. and i guess he was with his friends and they all hung out. so when this happened i TOLD HIM UPFRONT i don't like him doing that, and that it makes me real upset..so..now..on facebook..hes TALKING to her. like honestly, WHAT THE FUCK. Also..whenever im with him..his phone goes off like 200 times. and its all girls. and it just like..i don't know! He gets mad at me for not trusting him..but honestly, how can i! I talked to my bestfriend about this..and she said its because hes just such a nice guy. But i really feel like hes such a flirt..and like, i can't. this is actually to the point where it hurts. and idk what to do! help pleeeeease!
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Try to think again to why you both are starting to think about sex. Think about if it's worth it. You guys have been dating for 4 and a half months now. You have feelings for him but does he have the same feelings for you? If his phones going off, maybe it's true he's a nice guy or maybe it's because he can't be trusted. First, before making any conclusions, make sure you give him and yourself time to build to that trust in each other. If he loves you and you're his only girlfriend, then tell him you don't like the way he's talking to girls in a flirty manner. You guys should really talk things out rather than you accusing and him denying it. That gets you no where. If you're the only girl for him, he'd make a change for you and he'd understand it.
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Try writing a sentence without the word 'like' in it then think about having sex.
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