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stargirl51
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Does anybody know any good songs that help them get through hard times in relationships? Or just songs that are empowering to women and talk about respecting yourself and confidence......my bf cheated on me and music really helps alleviate my stress and make me feel better...i would appreciate your suggestions thank you (link)
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Forever&Always by Taylor Swift
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15/f
so theres this guy. i met him at the beginning of the school year. hes been one of my close ,more understanding friends. hes a year older. but he told me a few days ago that he liked me. he also dedicated the song "you & me" by lifehouse to me. hes one of the sweetest guys ive ever met. i never would of thought that i would of ended up liking him. so do you know any songs that would fit this?
it would be great if you knew any songs that i could maybe learn on guitar. like a more acoustic /country kind ? no rock or screamo. lol (link)
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Valentine by Kina Grannis
Perfect Two by Auburn
Two Is Better Than One by BoysLikeGirls
Vegas Skies by The CAB
If The Moon Feel Down by Chase Coy
Bubbly or Fallin' For You by Colbie Caillat
Into Your Arms by the Maine [acoustic version]
Say It Again by Marie Digby
On Your Side by A Rocket To The Moon
Hey, Soul Sister by Train
You and I by Tyler Brown Williams
We'll Be A Dream by We The Kings
I hope I helped:D
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I really need to find out whats wrong with me. Im almost 17 and ive never had a bf or my first kiss. Not to sound conceited, but TONS of people talk about how "gorgeous" and "nice" I am. Some people WONT even beleive me when i tell them ive never had a bf. I always see these nasty, uglier, RUDE girls get ALL these guys. But ive never even had one. I guess maybe its cuz im shy around people i dont know, but if you talk to me im NOT. Ive became more outgoing and flirted with guys.. but i cant seem to find anyone im actually interested in. I just wanna know what it feels like to have a bf. (I dont just want one to have one.) I feel almost like im missing out on my teen years. Sometimes i even get depressed thinking im doing something wrong. Any advice? (link)
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I've always had this problem too. I'm about your age. I'm in the exact situation. I've also realized that all the slutty, rude, obnoxious girls get all the guys is because teen guys only go for sex. Some are actually worth it. But, you just have to wait. There's no harm in waiting. Don't rush to get a boyfriend to be satisfied and just to say, "I've had a boyfriend." It's also some of those rude girls' relationships never last, if you notice. If you really are gorgeous and nice, guys who actually have the potential to be your boyfriend will take the time to get to know you. My mother didn't date until she was 23 so I don't think it's a problem at all. It's normal and nothing is wrong with you. You ARE gorgeous and nice so you should wait for someone who deserves YOU. Take pride that you've never had a boyfriend because in the long run, you'll be happy you didn't let yourself fall for a guy who wasn't worth your time or use you like an accessory.
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what are some good apps for the itouch? (link)
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Tap Tap Revenge is a good game if you like playing Guitar Hero or Rock Band.
Download Unblock Me if you're into puzzles and block games.
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any good sad songs about loving someone who doesnt love you back or havin a crush on someone ? thanks :) (link)
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Crush -David Archuleta
You Belong With Me -Taylor Swift
Teardrops On My Guitar -Taylor Swift
Invisible -Taylor Swift
Stuttering -The Friday Night Boys
Stupid Love Letter -The Friday Night Boys
Catch Me -Demi Lovato
Fallin' For You -Colbie Caillat
Never Had The Courage -Chase Coy
More than Words -Extreme
Dear Jamie, Sincerely Me -Hellogoodbye
6 months -Hey Monday
So close -Jon Mclaughlin
My Last Song For You -Joshua Michael Robinson
Into Your Arms -The Maine
Miserable At Best -Mayday Parade
Mr. Right -A Rocket To The Moon
Gravity -Sara Bareilles
The Man Who Can't Be Moved -The Script
Vulnerable -The Secondhand Serenade
You'll Ask For Me -Tyler Hilton
Always Attract -YouMeAtSix
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what are some cute, flirty or sexy things that i could send my girlfriend just randomly in the day to make her smile? i usually do it but im just running out of things to say
thanks
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"I love you." (it's simple but trite)
"Days like this when I can't see your eyes, I don't even want to open mine." (chessey but still sweet)
"Aren't you tired of running through my head at night?" (i know, cliche but it's cute)
"Damn. You're beautiful to me."
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I don't even want to say I love him, but I think it's true. I don't want to think of him this way. He is my best friend. I can't tell anyone, "Hey, I lied I still like him. Hey, I'm not over him. Hey, I feel empty inside because he said he was going to love me forever, but he doesn't." I can not especially tell him. I told him a month ago that I would never mention "us" anymore, and I've kept to my word. By now he must believe that I am over him. I hope he does think that. But if he truly does, then it truly means he does not care and that he has moved on. It's so easy for him to mope about other girls and talk about them and me to give him advice, to cheer him on, to tell him to not give up. I tell him that he'll meet the right girl someday. I know that it isn't me. It can't be me right? If it was me, then he would know it. I have this break up book and have read some of it. I think it might have made my feelings resurface when I started reading it and actually feeling them again. I think I've tried to deny my feelings thinking that it's the easiest way to make them disappear. Life just changed on me so suddenly and I can't go back. How do I believe anything anymore? I know it was my fault but now I don't know how I'll trust a guy. It was bad enough before, it took me ages to open up to him properly, I'm scared. I'm scared that people lie and that love ends so suddenly without warning. And I thought everything was okay just yesterday. I don't know what to do. (link)
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There'll be times when your feelings will come back and something will trigger your memories and you'll feel the way you've felt like before. I know this from experience. But, you'll have to accept the fact that you may still like him and that you're scared because of your past experience with him. But you're just going to have to leave it in the past and move on. Just give yourself time to heal from your broken heart no matter how long that takes. I think the biggest mistake we make is denying the feelings, wishing they'd disappear but they won't. Accepting them and letting yourself heal will help you. Don't hold yourself back or punish yourself because you're scared of getting heart. We all want to be loved and sometimes, we have to learn it isn't always happy. What I thought was that maybe if I didn't care, I'd never be disappointed. But it'll teach you that there'll be more guys that aren't him, more guys who will not break your heart and love you and cherish you. You're never alone. Just remember that every broken heart is just another step to your true love. As you learn from your mistakes, you learn what perfect isn't and that'll lead you to your Mr. Right.
Good luck, hon!
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OKAY. Had the same boyfriend for..4 1/2 months now. I'm really starting to have these intense passionate feelings for him. We're even starting to talk about having sex. Like, i feel like i love him. But i CANT trust him. Like, i have this friend. she's seriously..the biggest slut you will ever meet. and i guess he was with his friends and they all hung out. so when this happened i TOLD HIM UPFRONT i don't like him doing that, and that it makes me real upset..so..now..on facebook..hes TALKING to her. like honestly, WHAT THE FUCK. Also..whenever im with him..his phone goes off like 200 times. and its all girls. and it just like..i don't know! He gets mad at me for not trusting him..but honestly, how can i! I talked to my bestfriend about this..and she said its because hes just such a nice guy. But i really feel like hes such a flirt..and like, i can't. this is actually to the point where it hurts. and idk what to do! help pleeeeease! (link)
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Try to think again to why you both are starting to think about sex. Think about if it's worth it. You guys have been dating for 4 and a half months now. You have feelings for him but does he have the same feelings for you? If his phones going off, maybe it's true he's a nice guy or maybe it's because he can't be trusted. First, before making any conclusions, make sure you give him and yourself time to build to that trust in each other. If he loves you and you're his only girlfriend, then tell him you don't like the way he's talking to girls in a flirty manner. You guys should really talk things out rather than you accusing and him denying it. That gets you no where. If you're the only girl for him, he'd make a change for you and he'd understand it.
hope i helped:)
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17/m
Ok, so I really like this girl, and I want to tell her how I feel. I feel that she needs to know this. I want to know a good way to tell her this. If she doesn't feel the same way, that's fine, I just want to tell her, but I don't want to ruin our friendship, because we're really good friends. So, what's something I can say so she can know how I feel, but not ruin our friendship if she doesn't like me too? (link)
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Sami answered this very nicely. I think it's good to tell her straight forward but slowly so you don't scare her off. Go with Sami's suggestion because I was going to say something similar to that. Just remember to keep a good eye contact and don't rush your words. It really depends on the girl. Most girls would be flattered though. Good luck!
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Can anyone tell me who originally sings Baby one more time? Thanks (link)
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Britney Spears
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my skin usually isnt too bad, but i tend to get pimples that are like under my skin if you know what i mean
you can't really see them unless you get a close look, but they sort of make my skin red
so basically whats the best type of acne cleaning product for this?
i heard things with the sand beads in them are really good but i couldn't find any in stores
thank you! (link)
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I have this exact problem too so I know what you mean! I've heard the Wave is really effective but I haven't tried it. I just keep washing my face and I'm pretty sure that helps a lot too.
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there's a book by john steinbeck, "the red pony." i looked on rottentomatoes.com, and there is no available rating. if you've seen "the red pony", how well did you like it? on a scale of 1-10? would you recommend it? (link)
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i have never seen the movie but i read the book.
on a scale of 1-10 that book was an 8. if you really like life lessons, then that would probably be a good book and movie for you. John Stienbeck is a good author. hope i helped:)
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hey 18 female
Well the story goes, I really like this guy and he has told me he likes me aswell! I actually think im in love with him, he is the first person i think of in the morning and the last thing at night! we spend everyday on the fone to each other, thing is a few people have told me they think he might be gay and that is whats stopping me going into a relationship with him
do i just ignore those other people and go into a relationship with him? (link)
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you should talk to him about it. i mean of course if he's gay, then why would he madly in love with you? have you ever seen him staring at another boy in a different way?
those kinds of things are signs that he is gay. If he's straight, there wouldn't be a reason to hold back. rumors are spread all the time and some aren't even true. remember that.
hope i helped!:]
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Okay So I have the messanger off of msn, and me n my crush (let's call him "Joe") chat on there about every other day or so. But the thing is I don't know what to say. I LOVE talking to him, but where i have this crush & all I tense up.
What do guys like to talk about. What should i Say? ( he goes 2 a different school so i can't talk about that)
WHAT WOULD YOU DO>......... HELP!
plz/thanks
-a.m.l (link)
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high five! i do that too!
anyway, you should calm down and breathe. IN... OUT...IN...OUT...
What i try to do is treat him like one of my best friends. Ask him casual questions and answer to typical questions too. When i try to do this, I'm still tense but i hope this works for you better than it works for me.
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Alright. I have this friend. Lets say, Ed.
Ed is a nice guy. Ed's the kind of guy whom every girl always calls "A nice guy" He's also the kind of guy who can't get a date to save his life.
No advice Ive given him has worked for him, no advice anyone else has given him has worked for him. No matter what happens, by the end of the night he's alone and no one accepts his date invitations.
So now he really likes this girl. This girl is really into another friend of mine, who isnt into her. But shes chasing him and Ed's chasing her.
Ed has no idea. This girl accepted an invite to a Karaoke bar, he thinks its a date, she thinks hes a really nice friend.
My room mate asked her bluntly if she was interested in him, and she made a face that said "hell no" to us.
As friends, we arent sure if we should tell him. She has a very obvious lack of interest in him and once he notices he's going to be really hurt, and his confidence will sink that much farther.
But if we tell him, he'll call off the plans. If we don't, he's going to think he's on a date, and all that implies.
And he's probably going to be even worse off.
Advice? (link)
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you must reasure him that if he is such a nice guy, someday he will get a date or even get married. Guys that are that nice will be taken in the end. Some girls don't realize that looks really don't matter as what the guys really are. Most girls who would want a guy who treats them right would pick someone that they know would. i think that if he shows that kind of personality, in the end, somebody would go out with him. please reasure him because i know guys like him would probably not stay single. hope i helped!
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Where do i start?
Just bear with me... please
Hmm; ohkay.
so this is obviously about a boy.
not just any boy; a boy that i have been liking ever since the beginning of the school year.
He knows i like him, hes always knew that.
Eventualyy, i started hearing that he likes me too.
from there my friends and his friends planned things so we could hang out.
but before i go any farther; our relationship is whats so confusing.
Its weird' like;; In school, we say 5 words tops to eachother.
But out of school we talk on the phone and such what and hang out occasionally.
i know hes shy, im shy too, but not as neeeaarrlyy as shy as him.
We never talk in school.
its so bad that when people hear that we like eachother. they are so shocked because they NEVER see us talk.
And hey.. i try. its him that doesnt.
I feel like im the only one trying.
IIII say HI in the morning.
IIII try to spark a conversation in the 6 classes we have together.
And he just replies with 5 words and thats it.
now. i think im just slowly giving up.
In the beginning of the year, i would think that his ONE word that he said to me would satisfy me.
NO. NOT ANYMORE.
im getting annoyed.
his silence and shyness is bugging me.
i know he still likes me, because his friends still come up to me saying he will eventually ask me out and such what blah blahh..
but, if he cant even say anything to me now, how are we going to work if we do go out?
he doesnt even call me now..
i meen. ughhh. now that he got a cell-phone he thinks that a TEXT would pass me by..
no... i dont want a stupd text.
and yeah; maybe im over-thinking this; but
this is someone who i CANT stop liking.
i just caaannntt. i dont knw why. i tried but;
hes so..irrisitable.. even how corny that sounds..
its just.
i dont know what to do?
Im beginning to like other people
NOT as NEARLY as much.
but there ARE people who i can point out and get butterflies; people who actually talk to me.. and i can be myself with..
im just so confused with my emotions and feelings;
any help?
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like you said, he is shy... more shy than you. good thing there are cell phones these days! i think you should call him or talk to him after school. get more involved and i kno... sometimes guys are irresistable..."its hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does." hope i helped... ;]
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So I'm in grade 10, and last year i met a girl who i didnt know even existed until we were seated together and as soon as i saw her i thought to myself she sure is pretty. but as she began to talk to me and i learned about practically her life i realized i really liked her, not because of her looks. We spent as much time as friends for 4months and i told her i liked her. she said she like me too. Now this is where it starts to go downhill. I never got around to asking her out because I didn't want to rush things and I didnt know how strict her parents were so i laid low for abit. But then after awhile we stopped talking. I don't know if she was avoiding me or if she wanted me to start a conversation because she used to start all the conversations but we stopped talking. The smart thing to do was to confront her but i couldnt, i felt mad but sad at the same time. Now in grade 10 we barely talk we exchange hello's and goodbyes, but i can't stand it. Just when she looks at me from across rooms it makes me feel like the old days when we liked each other, or when she gets really red when she does something embarassing infront of me. i want to ask her out but at the same time i dont want to kill what little we have now. It's driving me mad =S. sometimes we have long talks on msn about the old memories during the night but that doesnt cut it for me. She means so much to me and I don't think i'll ever get her back. What should i do? (link)
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well, i think you should start conversations more so she can talk to you more often. when she begins to talk to you more often like the old times, then you can ask her out. you never know if she'll say yes until you try. best wishes!
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So I'm going over to my boyfriend's house tomorrow to hang out. Thing is, I've only met his mom like twice and I'm still kind of nervous (we didn't really talk, but she and my mom did). I don't know why, and neither does she (she's asked him why she makes me nervous, and said she likes me fine), and it's weird because I like her fine too, I just don't know what to say.
So...how would you talk to your boyfriend's mom? Like...how do you act or what do you say? I know once I get to know her I'll be fine...but help? (link)
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just be polite and show respect. parents like that so they know their child is dating a smart and responsible child.
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15/f
im a freshman, and ive been in a varsity sport all year (since summer) and its almost over now. ive had practice pretty much everyday since the begining of school besides sundays which i relax. i have very little social life. i had two best friends in junior high but were not best friends anymore, just friends. its akward sort of but we still talk. i mostly just go straight to my classes instead of hang out with people because i dont have anyone to hang out with. also, i think some guys are really hot and i really have potential with one we just never talk. its weird but when we talk in class for a little its really cool, and i cant just like, start talking to him on aim because it'd be weird. im not ugly, im really cool and can be friends with almost anyone. ive just been so busy lately i havent had a chance to be with anypone but my team. how can i show these guys that im not just a smart girl who isnt in there "in crowd"? and how can i be myself around my old friends? (link)
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spend more time with your friends and try to socialize more. if you have time between your classes, you should talk to more people and make more friends is the best way.
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My friend Yvonne thinks i haven't made a profile because when she looked me up, i didnt appear, wat do i do? (link)
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oh i don't know, maybe because when she did try she didn't find you...
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