So I'm in grade 10, and last year i met a girl who i didnt know even existed until we were seated together and as soon as i saw her i thought to myself she sure is pretty. but as she began to talk to me and i learned about practically her life i realized i really liked her, not because of her looks. We spent as much time as friends for 4months and i told her i liked her. she said she like me too. Now this is where it starts to go downhill. I never got around to asking her out because I didn't want to rush things and I didnt know how strict her parents were so i laid low for abit. But then after awhile we stopped talking. I don't know if she was avoiding me or if she wanted me to start a conversation because she used to start all the conversations but we stopped talking. The smart thing to do was to confront her but i couldnt, i felt mad but sad at the same time. Now in grade 10 we barely talk we exchange hello's and goodbyes, but i can't stand it. Just when she looks at me from across rooms it makes me feel like the old days when we liked each other, or when she gets really red when she does something embarassing infront of me. i want to ask her out but at the same time i dont want to kill what little we have now. It's driving me mad =S. sometimes we have long talks on msn about the old memories during the night but that doesnt cut it for me. She means so much to me and I don't think i'll ever get her back. What should i do?
masterclinic answered Thursday March 6 2008, 10:55 pm: You should try to be the good friends you use to be. Start the conversations during school and maybe not saying she doesn't still have them but her feelings for you could come back. I'm sure the reason why she stopped was because she didn't think you where going to ask her since you never got to it. This time don't let time pass you by if she tells you she likes you ask her out. Best of luck [ masterclinic's advice column | Ask masterclinic A Question ]
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