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new guys and friends, nervous
15/f
im a freshman, and ive been in a varsity sport all year (since summer) and its almost over now. ive had practice pretty much everyday since the begining of school besides sundays which i relax. i have very little social life. i had two best friends in junior high but were not best friends anymore, just friends. its akward sort of but we still talk. i mostly just go straight to my classes instead of hang out with people because i dont have anyone to hang out with. also, i think some guys are really hot and i really have potential with one we just never talk. its weird but when we talk in class for a little its really cool, and i cant just like, start talking to him on aim because it'd be weird. im not ugly, im really cool and can be friends with almost anyone. ive just been so busy lately i havent had a chance to be with anypone but my team. how can i show these guys that im not just a smart girl who isnt in there "in crowd"? and how can i be myself around my old friends?
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try spending more time with your older friends, and start introducing yourself to other people. if you have a likable personality, which it sounds like you do, people will have no problem becoming friends with you. it doesn't sound like you get too nervous around people, so this shouldn't be a problem for you. as for the guy you think you have potential with, try talking to him on the phone if you think aim would be akward. and if it's because you aren't sure to talk about besides the small convos you have in class, then when you talk to him in class try to find out more about him, and find some things you have in common. this will give you more to talk about later. hope this helped.
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spend more time with your friends and try to socialize more. if you have time between your classes, you should talk to more people and make more friends is the best way.
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