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Love life Shmove life-i need some good advice people :)
Where do i start?
Just bear with me... please
Hmm; ohkay.
so this is obviously about a boy.
not just any boy; a boy that i have been liking ever since the beginning of the school year.
He knows i like him, hes always knew that.
Eventualyy, i started hearing that he likes me too.
from there my friends and his friends planned things so we could hang out.
but before i go any farther; our relationship is whats so confusing.
Its weird' like;; In school, we say 5 words tops to eachother.
But out of school we talk on the phone and such what and hang out occasionally.
i know hes shy, im shy too, but not as neeeaarrlyy as shy as him.
We never talk in school.
its so bad that when people hear that we like eachother. they are so shocked because they NEVER see us talk.
And hey.. i try. its him that doesnt.
I feel like im the only one trying.
IIII say HI in the morning.
IIII try to spark a conversation in the 6 classes we have together.
And he just replies with 5 words and thats it.
now. i think im just slowly giving up.
In the beginning of the year, i would think that his ONE word that he said to me would satisfy me.
NO. NOT ANYMORE.
im getting annoyed.
his silence and shyness is bugging me.
i know he still likes me, because his friends still come up to me saying he will eventually ask me out and such what blah blahh..
but, if he cant even say anything to me now, how are we going to work if we do go out?
he doesnt even call me now..
i meen. ughhh. now that he got a cell-phone he thinks that a TEXT would pass me by..
no... i dont want a stupd text.
and yeah; maybe im over-thinking this; but
this is someone who i CANT stop liking.
i just caaannntt. i dont knw why. i tried but;
hes so..irrisitable.. even how corny that sounds..
its just.
i dont know what to do?
Im beginning to like other people
NOT as NEARLY as much.
but there ARE people who i can point out and get butterflies; people who actually talk to me.. and i can be myself with..
im just so confused with my emotions and feelings;
any help?
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Well you said he was shy, so maybe he is nervous about talking to you. That is very common for boys when they like a girl. They don't know what to say or what to do. Don't be so harsh to judge the boy, maybe he really really likes you but doesn't know how to let you know.
Try coming up to him and talking to him. When he answers with 5 words, make a flirty witty comeback. Let him know you like him and maybe want to hang out with him out of school. Go out on group dates maybe as he gets to know you and is with his friends he will get more open and therefore will have a better and easier time communicating with you about everything. You also have to realize it is often hard for guys to express their feelings and show them. Give him time, but stay in communication.
Hope I Helped.
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like you said, he is shy... more shy than you. good thing there are cell phones these days! i think you should call him or talk to him after school. get more involved and i kno... sometimes guys are irresistable..."its hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does." hope i helped... ;]
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Awh! honey i feel you! just ask him why he dont talk to you when he is talking to you...wow never had to say that before. Tell him whats going on with you. everything you just told us tell him. he could surprise you!
-hayley
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