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i love someone ive never met


Question Posted Friday April 11 2008, 7:54 pm

female/16 is it possible to be in love with somebody with in a week and you've never met them. but you talk for about 5 hours a night on the phone and all through out the day on text and aim.?
i mean i know that is stupid. but idk if im in love with them or thier persoanilty? im aware of the standards its just hard cause they live 10 states away and we met on myspace? shady....i know. but shes all i think about and i love talking to her so much ive neevr been this happy and lately i feel im on top of the world/ its weird cause im not a lesbian im confused if im bisexual but i love her and ive never met her? what do i do please help


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undifinedcontex answered Saturday April 12 2008, 12:07 am:
i feel you on this one..
i met my boyfriend that way
and i thought i was in love(almost positive about it
and we only knew each other for around the same amount of time)

finally we met and i was RIGHT i was in love

it's all a matter of making sure the person is being real with you,
and showing their true self to you and,
not holding back even tho you have never met
it is possible
some people just click so good
it might be the case with you


on the other hand,
you might think you are but are really in fascination that someone you have never met cares this much to talk to you and say that they care about you...

it goes both ways..but only you know if you truly love someone or not

you might just be in
love

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Razhie answered Friday April 11 2008, 9:56 pm:
Nope, in my opinion it is most definitely impossible.

Seriously infatuated? Sure. Deeply connected? No problem. In love? No way in hell.

Don’t put so much pressure on yourself. You know that no relationship is possible with this person, as teens living states apart it simply is not going to work out. So why stress out and make yourself miserable and worried about it.

Enjoy your online friendship. Go out and met some real people who you can get infatuated with and who can help you examine you romantic options.

This kind of friendship is just a way for you safely explore and experiment, so don’t tie yourself down to something that is neither possible nor healthy. Don’t use words like ‘love’ to try and turn it into something is simply isn’t going to be. Learn from this friendship and take what you learn out into the world so that you can take real risks with real people.

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teardrops7 answered Friday April 11 2008, 9:54 pm:
well, wow..you met on myspace?? i think that is difficult because there are some shady characters there...not saying she is but better be safe than sorry. For all you know she could be a 60 year old man..but i believe it is just you are in love with who you think they are...but if you are doubting it at all like seriously doubting if you are in love..not like saying you dont want to be in love but if you are truly denying it, then i dont think you are in love, i think it is lust or infatuation.
-hayley

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