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Dump him or keep him
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 9:21 pm
Okay so I am a freshmen and I am currently dating this guy in my class we have been going out for 2 months. I also have had a major major crush on this guy who goes to a different school and is one year older than me for the past 2 and 1/2 years. My boyfriend i love being around him and he makes me happy, but when i get home i can't stop thinking about my crush i've told my self that i have to get over him, but i can't! I know it is really stupid to be worrying about this ,but i don't think I will end up marrying my boyfriend because we just want different things. So my question is, should i continue to date my boyfriend and give us a try or should i dump him and keep looking?
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jealous
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 9:18 pm
I really like thise guy, Michael, who ive been best friends w/ for 10 years. Im afraid he likes my best friend, Erin. He says he doesnt, but whenever he like talks to her, or comments on her myspace, i get crazy and jealous. I know i shoodnt. I really cant tell anyone, just for reasons ... telling some1 is not an option. How can i like calm myself down? He will never like me back ... can i get over him?
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i LOVE him
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 8:59 pm
So there's this guy at school and I like him a LOT. I mean like I like him so much that he's all I ever think about. I want to ask him out but I don't really know how. I mean I don't want to walk up to him and be like, "Hey Peter do you want to go out with me?" I want to actually like have a conversation with him before I ask him out. And I don't want to write a note. I want to ask him in person. How would I do this without totally embarrasing myself? I rate 5's on good answers.
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Dating for how long....
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 8:56 pm
Okay...well I've been dating this wonderful guy....*Mark* for 4 months now..and we haven't even made out. Yeah..sounds pathetic I know, but we cuddle and hug and you know...it's nice, but I just can't bring myself to make the first move..I'm so shy and so is he...HOW...help please
How the heck do I just know when to make out with him
Driving me nutsss
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My friend and Maybe BF
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 8:35 pm
Well my friend just broke up with this one guy today. I have liked him for some time now. I wanna ask him out but I feel bad.
-HELP!
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Posted Monday November 28 2005, 7:54 pm
Me and this kid have been going out for about 2 1/2 months and it doesn't seem like he's very open. He'll write me e-mails and notes saying he loves me and how great I am but he never says it in person. We've only held hands a couple times and kiss on the cheak once but he kinda missed and got my ear. Please help me to try and get him more open.
-Despret
P.S. I had my friend{prettyblonde234) wirte me this so don't think it's her.
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Posted Monday November 28 2005, 7:50 pm
Okay.. I really like this guy, but he is the most popular guy in our grade! I know I have not much of a chance with him. A school dance is coming up this Friday Night, and I want to dance with him so bad, but I am too afraid to ask. My friends say they'll help me, but I know I'll just chicken out!! What should I do?
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Its So Hard For Me......
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 6:28 pm
I Got mad today at my Best Friend Amber. The guy I like (Which Is my Ex) is my friend to. They were flirting all day! He would chase her and poke her in the chest and I got mad and she grabbed my coat and I said "DAMMIT AMBER GET OFF MY FRIGGEN COAT!!!!!!" Really Loud and My ex Kody was standing right behind her and I looked at him and he looked at me! And she already has a boyfriend. But They Won't Stop! He might be trying to make me jelous cause there was a insadent at the ballgame where he moved VERY close to me and I said "Fuk You!" and he looked at me and smiled and said "I know you want to fuck me. But We can't right here!" Soo Whats Going on with this guy??? If anyone can Help Send me A Private Message and I will tell you what happend. The WHOLE Story!
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Posted Monday November 28 2005, 5:58 pm
so I am "seeing" this guy right now. I feel really comfterbal with him. I could lay with him for hours! I have had a tendancy to be a prude in the past and all though I havent done anythign with this guy yet I feel like I could just let go and be comfterbal with him. He even admitted to me he has a past with being called a pimp so when he is "with" someone people think its weird. But we are "seeing" eachother.. I was just wondering if you think this is safe for me emotionaly? I mean so far all he has been is great. He has made me feel so comfterbal and I have really fallin for him. What do You think i should do?
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when friends become something more
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 5:14 pm
Do you think its possible for someone *your best guy friend* to start liking you even though a couple months before he told you he didnt? We hooked up since then and really formed a strong bond along with a great deal of trust and respect for one another. Is it possible? Do you have any stories of this happening? I just dont want to get my hopes up..
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Posted Monday November 28 2005, 5:02 pm
First off, if it helps, I am a 14 yr. old girl.. But Ok, so as usual, there is this guy that I REALLY like.. I mean, I have already gotten over the hard part! Thank God! lol.. I mean, I told him & everything, about how I like him. & hes fine with that, it just isnt mutual. Unfortunately.. but anyways, now I just want to hang out with him no strings attached, just chill sometime.. & have fun..become better friends. just friends. & a lot of the time he is with his older friends.. like my BROTHER, who is 18. & it doesnt seem like he really has time. I mean, we talk a lot online & its really nice, i mean he just makes me smile from that, But I dont know. It may not seem hard to you, but how could I ask him to just hang out sometime? :/
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help
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 3:48 pm
my boyfriend is amazing! he is so nice, but his family is trying to sabatge the realationship! his little brother put a whoopie cushion on my seat when i came over an his mom keeps asking these creepy questions like how much do ur parents make..just so she can rub in how rich they are! I really wanna keep this relationship but i dont kno wat to do! help me!
-girl in love
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kissing
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 3:28 pm
13/f ok so i have this bf and i am so freaked becasue we are goign to stay home and see a movie this weekend but i dont know if he is the type to make a move how do i tell if he is liek that and how or when he will makle the move
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Needy/Clingy
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 3:20 pm
I recently started going out with a friend of mine who I have known for about 2 years and really liked his personality, however I have only been going out with him for about 4 days and he has already become really clingy and needy, saying he misses me a lot and saying things like he only wants to talk to me. Its really putting me off him so how can i tell him without hurting his feelings to stop being so needy?
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gifts!
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 3:07 pm
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months, we're both 16 years old, we care for each other very much, and know each other like the back of our own hands. However, I am having a very hard time finding a christmas present for him. I want to get him something meaningful, but I just don't know what to get! Does anyone have any ideas?
thank you so much if you can help!
-Janine
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I'm completely In love with someone!
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 12:34 pm
Hi, I'm Caitlin and I'm completely in love with this guy name Gary. Throughout my entire life I've never been lucky with things like love and all that...mostly love. I've never had a boyfriend, I've never kissed and I've never really had any feeling for anyone before. I have no idea how to tell him I like him. I reallt want to! I feel as if i'm ready, but he's such a hard person to read and I don't know if he likes me back. We've been hanging out for about a month and I know that's it's no simple crush. I'm seirously in love with this guy. Now I know i'm not the best looking person in the world, but I know i'm not ugly either. I also know that what I look like wouldn't mean all that much to him.
So bascially my questions is; How do I tell him I like him without scaring im off?
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I think I'm doing great, but my bf doupts me
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 4:22 am
I consider myself to be an independant woman, but my bf disagrees.
Well I am 27 and have my own appartment that I rent. I don't have any student loan dept, or credit card dept. I pay my bills on time and have been living in the same appartment on my own without any help from family or roomates for the last 4 years.
I have a car that is paid for that I maintain in excellent condition. I just replaced the tires and always make sure it is serviced regularily.
I work part time at a store that is UNION. Before I got that job I had been collecting a small disabllity pension for having a mental illness. Everyone has said how well I have done for myself considering I have this condition. They (my family and frien...
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love
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 4:19 am
hello.there is this guy i like and i think he likes me too cause i can see the way he looks at me. should i get his number and initiate some conversation with him?
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Posted Monday November 28 2005, 1:55 am
Hey Advicenators! (;
I usually hate giving advice to questions like these, but I really need to know if what I'm doing is right. Basically, I have a boyfriend, and we've been dating for a month and a couple days. I really really like him a lot. He's been my best friend since I've moved here to Texas, and we just thought we should start being boyfriend / girlfriend. His name is Kevin.
Back in Pennsylvania, I had this best friend called Charles. We had been best friends since 2nd grade. But, we became REALLY close before I left PA because we knew that it'd be super heartbreaking for the both of us, since we wouldn't be together anymore.
I was completely sad because I knew that Charles didn't believ...
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cheated
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 12:12 am
me and my boyfriend were going out for about 14 months...everything was really great at first but then just a little while ago it started to go down hill, we started fighting a lot and everything. well i went to my friends yesterday and i met this kid Brandon, he was really nice and good looking. we flirted a little. But then today i went down to my friends house and he was there and me and him started talking and we connected really good, we made each other laugh we were kind all over each other but not alot. but me and him barly talked to anyone else that was there. It hard to explain we just hit it off really good...but anyway i was going to go home and he was going to walk me home but we got by my house and i asked him if he wanted to t...
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