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I'm completely In love with someone!
Hi, I'm Caitlin and I'm completely in love with this guy name Gary. Throughout my entire life I've never been lucky with things like love and all that...mostly love. I've never had a boyfriend, I've never kissed and I've never really had any feeling for anyone before. I have no idea how to tell him I like him. I reallt want to! I feel as if i'm ready, but he's such a hard person to read and I don't know if he likes me back. We've been hanging out for about a month and I know that's it's no simple crush. I'm seirously in love with this guy. Now I know i'm not the best looking person in the world, but I know i'm not ugly either. I also know that what I look like wouldn't mean all that much to him.
So bascially my questions is; How do I tell him I like him without scaring im off?
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just start to talk to him try to be his friend but still flirt with him but then when you feel it's time you should probably ask him out well i hope this helps you
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Don't just proclaim your undying love for him one day. If he doesn't return the feelings, you'll definitely scare him off.
You can try hinting, but I've heard from tons of guys that they just don't get hints & you should be upfront about it. Let him know that you have feelings for him & ask him if he'd be interested in taking the friendship to the next step, but make sure that you don't trap him into anything & if he doesn't seem interested, let him know that you don't want things to be awkward between you too & that you still want to be friends.
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Aww that's great!! Im so happy for you!! I dont know why but when I read your question, I just felt so happy. lol! I know that sounds weird but oh well. Well now Caitlin, you can aproach him in a couple of different ways. You can go right up in his face and tell him exactly how you feel, but that could scare him off depending on his feelings for you. You could be secretive and write him a note explaining yourself and leave it in his locker or something. Or you could flirt with him when you're together and see if he gets the hint and asks you out himself. If he doesnt end up liking you back, it's not the end of the world. Sometimes guys just need more time to find their feelings and he might figure out that he does like you later on. I hope everything works out for you and gary. Just never lose faith that it will work out. My best friend Sara liked this guy Sean for 2 years while he was going out with this terrible girl Jillian. Well it turns out that Sean actually liked Sara for a year before he got the courage to dump Jillian and ask out Sara. He finally did and Sara and Sean have been happily going out for almost a year now. Love is weird but I hope it all works out for you! Good luck and tell me how things work out!
~Mel~
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