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First off, if it helps, I am a 14 yr. old girl.. But Ok, so as usual, there is this guy that I REALLY like.. I mean, I have already gotten over the hard part! Thank God! lol.. I mean, I told him & everything, about how I like him. & hes fine with that, it just isnt mutual. Unfortunately.. but anyways, now I just want to hang out with him no strings attached, just chill sometime.. & have fun..become better friends. just friends. & a lot of the time he is with his older friends.. like my BROTHER, who is 18. & it doesnt seem like he really has time. I mean, we talk a lot online & its really nice, i mean he just makes me smile from that, But I dont know. It may not seem hard to you, but how could I ask him to just hang out sometime? :/
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I truly do hate unrequited feelings, but that dosn't seem to bother you so it's less work for me. :P I think you should just tell him straight far ward that you jus wanna hang out with him, or you could hang with him and some of your or his friends untill you two slowly slip into jus hanging out with eachother.
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An easy way to just get things rolling is just get a group of friends together and make sure him and other guys are included and that there are no strings attached. I've gone out w/ one of my guy friends that I used to have a crush on and neither of us were seeing anyone and I no longer had feelings for him, but it was his birthday so I just said something like "We should hang out sometime, plus I want to give you your gift!" It may not be his birthday, but ya know if you are pretty good friends w/ him already, just casually bring up that you'd like to hang out sometime since he's one of your good friends and that it would be fun...it's a lot easier to do though if he's single so that he doesn't get a jealous g/f. I hope this might spring some ideas. Good luck and I hope I helped!
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