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when friends become something more


Question Posted Monday November 28 2005, 5:14 pm

Do you think its possible for someone *your best guy friend* to start liking you even though a couple months before he told you he didnt? We hooked up since then and really formed a strong bond along with a great deal of trust and respect for one another. Is it possible? Do you have any stories of this happening? I just dont want to get my hopes up..

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alleycatt726 answered Monday November 28 2005, 8:53 pm:
Been there, done that, got waaaaay too attached so dont get your hopes up until he says he wants a relationship with you.

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bob_sayz_it answered Monday November 28 2005, 8:23 pm:
if you were so close before, thats good because you guys are compatible. i mean why not?


hope it works out!

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confusedbabii answered Monday November 28 2005, 8:05 pm:
yes, it's possible. that happened to me a year ago. me and this guy have been best friends since age 5 and after 7 years of friendship we dated for a while. we broke up, and the good thing is, we're still friends. so it's very possible and a positive thing. hope i helped!

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Ababii2113 answered Monday November 28 2005, 8:00 pm:
yes its possible. I just recently had a relationship with my bestfriend of 2 years. and it was great because we knew eachother really well. but then we kinda got sick of eachother and i broke it off and now we dont talk to just make sure that is what you want and make sure u tlak about what will happen if you guys do break up.

best of luck*

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craazylau answered Monday November 28 2005, 7:08 pm:
DEFINITELY it's possible. In fact some of the best relationships ive known about happen exactly because they were friends to start off with. Surely if you know loads about each other you're off to a good start and thats exactly why these relationships last! Anyway whats the point in worrying about a relationship that you're having a great time in?? Just appreciate what you have and don't worry about something that's great in your life! Face it you're one of the lucky ones!! Hope it lasts sweetie

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SqUeAkYsHoEs answered Monday November 28 2005, 6:56 pm:
Oh definately.

People's feelings change really rapidly, and maybe your guy friend is seeing you in a different light now.

I have a guy friend who is best friends with one of my girl friends, and he never liked her romantically for the longest time, but recently he has just started liking her...

If you think he might like you, it's still not best to get your hopes up, in just case.

Just try to 'read' the vibes your guy is giving you!


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blondchk32 answered Monday November 28 2005, 6:52 pm:
My best guy friend, Kyle, well we hung out all the time. Then he finally asked me out and we went out All summer! I was like totally in love with him. Then, I broke up with him because I knew when we went back to school he would dump me for this girl that was so mean and I didnt want to get in her way cause I was not her friend. I broke up with Kyle at the pool one day. He said,"Ok thats fine. I will still like you." Boy, did that make me feel bad. Then I totally regretted breaking up with Kyle, that happened 3 years ago and i still wish we were going out. I still love him. SORRY that i totally just told you my life story. BUT, it can happen, u know your boy- friend liking you. It can.***

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advicegurl92 answered Monday November 28 2005, 6:04 pm:
Yes it's possible! In fact, I found out about a few months ago that my best{guy}friend said that he loves me. I thought that was so sweet. So.......yes, it is possible. I wish you the best of luck,hope I helped!

Plz Rate!

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kailey answered Monday November 28 2005, 5:35 pm:
I definitely think it's possible. I've been dating my best friend for a year now & it's amazing, but he never told me beforehand that he could never see us being a couple.

The only way to know is to ask-- the sooner the better-- if he likes you, you'll have something great even better, & if he doesn't, then you'll be able to start working on the process of getting over him rather than constantly wondering if it's a possibility. Good luck!

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