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I'm going to NYC with my crush and his family this Friday. He's 15 im 13. I was wondering if my outfit sounds okay.

I'm wearing these comfy "yoga pants" from American Eagle. They're grey and have foldover waist. I'm wearing an American Eagle shirt that says Be Bright on it. Since we're going to NYC im wearing a white northface over it with a white knit hat that has a pom pom on it. Any other suggestions would be welcome!


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the yoga pant rock! The shirt sounds kind of weird (im 21 so idk)everything else sounds great! well i hope i have helped ya! Have fun.*


ok so later when i go out should i were my hair straight or curly i have a pic on my column if ya need ta see it please help I CANT DECIDE luv ya , pa O la (link)
Well it depends what it looks like. personally I think curly cuz every1 has straight now! lol And i love curly hair!*


I consider myself to be an independant woman, but my bf disagrees.
Well I am 27 and have my own appartment that I rent. I don't have any student loan dept, or credit card dept. I pay my bills on time and have been living in the same appartment on my own without any help from family or roomates for the last 4 years.
I have a car that is paid for that I maintain in excellent condition. I just replaced the tires and always make sure it is serviced regularily.

I work part time at a store that is UNION. Before I got that job I had been collecting a small disabllity pension for having a mental illness. Everyone has said how well I have done for myself considering I have this condition. They (my family and friends) are all very happy for me that I got the job.
My bf, however, is being a total jerk. Well before I got the job, even though I was managing to live on my own and be responible on my disability pension would say the meanest things, like that I was living off the system and how broke I was.
Now that I have the job, he is saying things like "so I guess it's working out for you,", in a negative tone.
Well he has no right to do this to me. We arent living together and I NEVER ask him for any money. I could understand him being mad if we were living together and I wasnt working and spent all his money, but I live ON MY OWN and can look after myself. I think considering everything I've been through he should give me a little more credit.
Why do you think he is treating me like this?


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WEll I think there is a possibility that he is a little jealous of you. Maybe he wants to be more like you but he knows he cant because he isnt as organized or independent as you. I dont know your boyfriend so i truely dont know. I hope i have helped or atleast given you an idea of what might be happening.*


16/f
I need to get some perfume but idk what kind.. What are some good perfumes that boys like? (And not too expensive) (link)
At RAVE at midrivers mall there is this great perfume. There are like 50 different sents. I have none but all of my bffs do it is WONDERFUL!!!*


i am over weighted and I want to lose weight but if i tell my mom or anyone I know they are going to make fun of me. What should I do (link)
Ok first, neighbor is over weight. She TOTALLY doesn't care. Atleast you do. Thats great. Now talk to your mom, tell her your serious and just say "I am so serious about this and i want this to happen. Please support me." I am telling ya this might work because I know this other girl and she recently did that too and she is 15 and only 156. used to be 189.good luck!*


Do you think its possible for someone *your best guy friend* to start liking you even though a couple months before he told you he didnt? We hooked up since then and really formed a strong bond along with a great deal of trust and respect for one another. Is it possible? Do you have any stories of this happening? I just dont want to get my hopes up.. (link)
My best guy friend, Kyle, well we hung out all the time. Then he finally asked me out and we went out All summer! I was like totally in love with him. Then, I broke up with him because I knew when we went back to school he would dump me for this girl that was so mean and I didnt want to get in her way cause I was not her friend. I broke up with Kyle at the pool one day. He said,"Ok thats fine. I will still like you." Boy, did that make me feel bad. Then I totally regretted breaking up with Kyle, that happened 3 years ago and i still wish we were going out. I still love him. SORRY that i totally just told you my life story. BUT, it can happen, u know your boy- friend liking you. It can.***


Hey .. does anyone know some good websites where i can just listen to music ? Not from xanga or anything .. most of them dont work anyway. But please if you can give me some sites thatd be awesome ! Thanks .. (link)
AOL music rocks!!! I luv thaT*


Ok, for school I have to choose a book for this book report thing. Any books you like apropriate for a seventh grade girl? (Only if they're really good, because I hate a lot of books!)

Thank you! xoxo abercrombiebabiex3 (link)
Ok- I love the book "Are You There God? It's Me Margrate." But, its not like a religious book or anything it is a book bout friends during the summer. I LOVED it and read it 7 times.*


does any of you have btothers???? because if you do when they know that you get mad at what they are doing do they do it even more to make you madder because my kind like brothers always do that do boys always do that please help me
i will rate high if you give a good answer
(sorry for not capitalizing it or any thing they could just walk in here anytime and see what i am writing)

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What I have found the best answer to be is to just ignore them. This will defanitly get tough, it will work because they are just looking for your attention.*


I'm going away on a 10 day field trip with my school to Alabama ( I live in Georgia )I'm afraid of getting homesick. I used to get homesick all the time when I was little, then I just grew out of it. Now since I'm going to be away for a long time I don't know what I'm going to do. Any tips incase I get homesick? (link)
I used to have the same home sick problem, I recently went on a trip wiyh my friend, the summer actually. I tended to get home sick the most when I read letters from my family and when I talked about home. It can get hard. But, make the most out of your trip.*


I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends? (link)
Well personally I tend to spend WAY more time with my friends. I do spend time with my b/f though. Make sure you have the time w/ both even.*


I'm 17/f and my boyfriend is 18/m and he doea not understand the meaning of time. He is constantly late to everything. And I mean everything! I used to put up with it (we've been dating for almost 2 years) but I just can't anymore.


About a week ago, my dad threw a party for his company and instead of going with my family, I went with my boyfriend. My family left for the patry and I left to his house. When I got there, HE WAS STILL ASLEEP! I got him up and he had to take a shower so he did that. About 30 min. later, his parents were leaving for the party and asked me if I wanted to ride with them. Of course I said no. My boyfriend and I ended up being an hour and half late to the party. My dad was really mad.


The next day, we were supposed to go to the mall at 2pm. Of course, he wasn't on time. It got to be about 3:00 when he finally got to my house. I told him that I didn't feel like going anymore and we got into this big fight about how he's always late.


How can I get him to understand that it's important to not olny me but to ohter people as well that he get's to where ever he's supposed to be the time he says he will? (link)
Well, of course I dont know your boy friend. That means I only know that he is always late. So, I know this sounds like a retarded answer. Maybe talk to him, I know you said that you got in a fight but, tell him if your relationship is going to last that he needs to be on time. Now, I dont know if this talk with your boy friend is going to work. But, thanks for reading my advice.I truly hope it has helped. *Good Luck*




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