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sex underwater


Posted Wednesday January 27 2010, 8:16 am

18/f

so my boyfriend and i are planning on having sex underwater for the first time. I was just wondering if condoms would work? Are they waterproof. I really dont want to end up pregnant. And, when we have sex underwater, will water go into my vagina? Is that bad if it does? Water with chlorine or something. Is it safe?

Thanks.

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has he changed?


Posted Wednesday January 27 2010, 6:23 am

hi guys
first off, i have been friends w/ a guy for around 6 months now. we have flirted and kissed and stuff but it has never really got serious. he saw me talking to another guy once and since then he thinks i like anyone but him. anyway we had a fall out in november, and at the beginning of january he apoligised to me and said he missed me etc.
now hes like wanting to see me a lot, he never made this effort before. is it me being paranoid or do you think hes actually just changed his mind?

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My issue with alcohol affecting my relationship


Posted Wednesday January 27 2010, 1:09 am

I have an issue with alcohol, no im not an alcoholic but i truly HATE alcohol. My mom is a recovering alcoholic, and ive been through so much because of alcohol. So many bad things that have happend in my life, are because of alcohol to the point where i hate anything to do with alcohol. Ive had my fair share of alcohol, but i realize i cannot drink it because i get too carried away.

Well, my boyfriend is in college and when he goes out, i get really upset. And i know he is in college, and that is what he is going to do to spend time with his friends. I know it is ridiculous for me to care so much, but i do. I bring the issues i have with alcohol into my relationship, and its a problem.

Any advice on how to co...

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Was I disruptive?


Posted Wednesday January 27 2010, 12:55 am

17/f


So this morning, I sent my tutor an email asking whether we were going to have a tutoring session tomorrow. He replied telling me to be on standby, because he needed to check to see whether he was busy, and he would get back to me later on today.


Well, I waited around, and it's nighttime now, and he didn't get back to me, and I need to know really badly whether or not I'm going to see him tomorrow so I can plan out my day accordingly.

At 8:57pm, I gave him a ring on his cell phone and left a message.

Was that an okay thing for me to do? Or was it excessive and disruptive?

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Why can't I lose weight?


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 11:54 pm

I've been stressing out because I can't lose weight at all. I know I shouldn't worry about it because I'm only 14 but I am freaking out. I've been running 30 mins a day for about two weeks but I've actually gained 2 lbs! What the?! I guess I did grow a little in those two weeks but I really want to reach my goal. I don't eat that much, either. I am currently (almost) 5'0" and I weigh 125 lbs. I'm not fat, I'm actually really skinny but I'm rather muscular because I used to be a dancer. I want to be 110 lbs. Any advice?

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Question for Catholics


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 11:44 pm

I'm 17. I went to a church retreat last weekend and never had felt so close to god. I started reading the bible (starting with exodus) and I'm starting to find it contradictory. Maybe I'm looking at it the wrong way, that's why I need help answering a few questions.
God wipped out all he had created except Noah and his family because they lived in the way god wanted the world to. He killed everyone else with a flood because they turned corrupt. After, he made the covenent with Noah that he would never do it again; the rainbow symbolizing it.
Here are the questions
1. If god killed the corrupt then why don't we believe in the death penalty; those who take lives are corrupt and killing them would be considered gods work ...

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Creating a relationship?


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 11:13 pm

Female 16,
So I have this guy friend and I recently have discovered that I have feelings for him, but I don't want to put myself out there and make things awkward if he doesnt have feelings for me. He also guy out of a complicated not-quite relationship with this girl back in December. He has since then said he has given up on dating. How do I make him notice me as a possible relationship?

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if i keep searching for him


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 10:37 pm

i saw a guy at a club he stared at me and asked me to dance with him and i left without even saying goodbye know i cant stop thinking of him should i stop searching for him ??let me know i need to know plese

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How will i know when i am ovulating?


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 9:42 pm

i came on my period on the 31 of december and came off on the 4th of january and then spotted 3 days later how will i know when im ovulating?

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How do you approach the one you love?


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 9:22 pm

I like this girl that already has a boyfriend, or so i think. i really like her and we know each other a little bit. We were hosts for a play for our school and we were partners. the problem is i don't know if she is interested and i don't know how to make a great impression. what do you recommend. i would like a girl's opinion, but i am glad to listen to anyone. if you need anymore details just ask. thanks for you help. and yes i'm a guy, sorry for the confusion. i thought that if i had a girl's profile name, i could get girl's to ask me for advice,so that they would take my advice and not just ignore it.


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Skin


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 9:12 pm

I have pretty bad acne scarring on my face and back, I have heard the only way to be 100% rid of them as if they were never there is by laser treatment. I know its expensive but I am willing to pay if I know it will work. Have any of you done it or know someone whos done it? Did it work? Does it really renew your skin so that its 100% clear and flawles, and if not what does it do and look like?

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female masturbation for the horny but underage


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 7:41 pm

so im really really insanely horny....like seriously. i need help i want it sooo bad. but im underage, so i need the best masturbation techniques. i have an electric toothbrush, but it only gets me so far. and i cum in my bathtub but only sooo much

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B*tchy Friends


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 7:36 pm

Hi, I'm 15/f

At school i sit with a group of friends.On the weekends and holidays some of my friends orgaise things to do together, like going to the beach or hang out at someones house or a party and i'm hardly ever invited. I always feel left out because my friends never call me up and invite out.
What can i do to feel more accepted by my friends? Or how can i get invites without seeming desperate?

Thank you in advance :)

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More than friends?


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 7:29 pm

Hi, I', 15/f (16 in april)

I've been friends with this guy since we started high school 3 years ago. We went out for about 2 months in 2007-2008 but i hardly ever saw him during that time, i tried to see him but he never showed up. So i dumped him after a while and our relationship stopped. Then last year we were put in the same classes and our realtionship started up again and we became best friends. Now i've started having feelings for him again but i don't know how he feels or if i want to act on these feelings because i don't want to jeopardize our realtionship again, and i think it might be really awkward like last time.
I'm just really confused.
What should i do?

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What should I do?


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 7:08 pm

So, I've liked a lot of guys before but never did I expect to come across one like this. He's smart. He knows that true love overlooks the little flaws. He's intelligent, witty, and very thoughtful. We've been talking every day for the past two weeks and I hear he likes to talk to me. I'm really scared though. He knows that I'm scared of getting hurt in any relationship, which is why I don't put myself out there. He's very optimistic about life while I tend to be somewhat on the negative side.
What should I do? I'm scared to like him. What if he's just being nice? What if he doesn't like me? I think I'm way in over my head?
I think I wanna cry.
Sorry for sounding so choppy. :/

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how do i make friends


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 7:00 pm

at my new school i know absolutely no one!! and out side of school i have no life because i just moved and no absolutely nobody here. How do i make friends fast so i can get out??

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How to loosen up and not be so shy?


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 5:48 pm

hi im 14f bf's 16 XD

Well i started dating my boyfriend after the christmas break.. Now we are back into school. He is so sweet.. to sweet XD the best boy friend ever..seriously he calls me his juliet. XD We both are in groups where ppl hate on us..we are so much a like. Well the first time i met him(My best friend got us together XD)..we planned on him waiting 4 him after school at the middle school..we planned on having a kiss nd i did..but i was shaking nd my lips quivered so he says..hah Well, im so shy..my legs were shaking nd everything. The next time i met him..he told me he wanted to kiss my neck .. nd i wasn't in the mood for it because i had a horrible day, i almost cried when he was holding me.Well, he was brushing...

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songs about


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 5:07 pm

19/f - just 2 days ago, i got out of a abusive relationship. luckily for me it never turned physical, and i never thought it could until i read an article about a girl who was killed by her ex after they broke up and listed warning signs of a relationship violence and realized my boyfriend had all of them. so i'm kind of upset at the fact that i got myself into a situation like that & i'm in shock at what it could have been & thankful i was never actually hurt, but at the same time i'm looking to put this behind me and know better for the future. so i'm looking for some songs that carry this message, just to put all the bad behind me and not let it hinder my relationships, and saying you can't hurt me anymore now, i'm out.
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How can i deal with him?


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 5:05 pm

So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two monthss and alittle more. We've broken about 6 to 7 times. And he was only sad the first 3 times we broke up after that he made it seem like it was whatever. And he is a jerk! He always says things to me like if he doesnt value what he has but at the same time his a sweet guy and i love him alot because thats the first guy i ever really really liked and had a connection with him. Every night i cry because he makes me feel like the bad guy which am not because i always try to work things out but when i tell him about my feelingss all he says it whatever or wow bye or something immature like that. I dont wanna let him go what can i do to change the way he treats me?

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trying to use ipod in car!


Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 4:08 pm

My old car had a tape player so I was able to buy this thing that let me hook my ipod/iphone up to it so I could play it in my car. My new car only has a cd player, so I bought this other ipod thing.. where it lets you plug it in the outlet and you have to put the radio on a static station so it can play out of there. It does not work, no matter what I do. Is there any other product I can buy? Should I just have a tape player installed in my car since there is an empty spot where it is supposed to be? (Though I don't know how expensive that is) Any suggestions would be appreciated, or any products people have used that really worked!

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