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Creating a relationship?
Female 16,
So I have this guy friend and I recently have discovered that I have feelings for him, but I don't want to put myself out there and make things awkward if he doesnt have feelings for me. He also guy out of a complicated not-quite relationship with this girl back in December. He has since then said he has given up on dating. How do I make him notice me as a possible relationship?
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You may hate for me to say this but your young, let him be ready on his own. The more you may push him into realizing that he could be in a relationship, you may just end up pushing him away for good. He's scared and doesn't want to get hurt and etc. No person wants to jump into a relationship after being in a complicated one. It may suck to hear it, but it's sadly true. He is isn't ready and he said that he's given up on dating because he knows that he isn't ready. Does that make sense? If you need anything just let me know.
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do you flirt with eachother? or anything close to that? if so, chances are he could be interested anyway. he may be thinking the same as you (he might think you aren't interested in him) if you don't flirt with him, maybe you should try. don't force yourself on him though. if you get a positive reponse then you can tell he's interested. then maybe a little while later you could tell him how you feel. if he doesn't feel the same, at least you know you tried.
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